Ep 83: Your Emotions Are Messengers: The Secret Method to Manifesting Through Midlife Chaos
Midlife by (Human) Design: Purpose, Perimenopause, Menopause, Wellness, Mindset & Woo that Works
Release Date: 10/20/2025
Midlife by (Human) Design: Purpose, Perimenopause, Menopause, Wellness, Mindset & Woo that Works
đź”— Get on the email list for readings access: https://www.lorilisai.com/#newsletter đź”— Get your HD Chart: https://www.lorilisai.com/hd-chart đź”— Support the pod with a donation: https://tinyurl.com/MbDpodsupport Show Summary: In this milestone 100th episode of Midlife by (Human) Design, Lori explores a quiet but powerful midlife experience many women recognize yet rarely name: the ache for lives that were never lived. Inspired in part by the cultural response to Heated Rivalry and similar stories that awaken desire, connection, and intensity, Lori explores why many midlife women...
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🔗 Access to Human Design readings in my email: https://www.lorilisai.com/#newsletter 🔗 Get your HD Chart: https://www.lorilisai.com/hd-chart 🔗 Support the pod with a donation: Shane & Ilya's astro charts by Astro Katya: Show Summary: In this episode, Lori offers a bit of "HRT"—Heated Rivalry Therapy—for the soul. She dives into the cultural phenomenon of the Heated Rivalry series and explores why the love story between hockey rivals Shane and Ilya resonates so deeply with women, particularly those navigating midlife. By examining the Human Design charts of these...
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đź”— Readings through the email list: https://www.lorilisai.com/#newsletter đź”— Get your HD & Astro Chart: https://www.lorilisai.com/hd-chart đź”— Support the pod with a donation: https://tinyurl.com/MbDpodsupport Show Summary: In this episode of Midlife by Design, Lori explores the North Node through both astrology and Human Design as a lens for understanding why midlife often feels disorienting, tender, and quietly energizing. The North Node is a trajectory and a growth edge that invites us toward what we are becoming, even when it feels unfamiliar. Lori shares why...
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🔗 Readings, Coaching, & more on my email list: https://www.lorilisai.com/#newsletter 🔗 Get your HD Chart: https://www.lorilisai.com/hd-chart 🔗 Support the pod with a donation: Show Summary: Inspired by the Eras docuseries, Lori looks at Taylor Swift’s chart and tour through the lens of Human Design—and what it reveals about midlife awakening, reinvention, and embodiment. Lori explores how honoring every era of your life can become a powerful deconditioning practice in midlife. Using Taylor’s publicly available Human Design chart as a case study, this conversation...
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đź”— Planning by (Human) Design system/planner: đź”— Intention-setting Workshop with Kim Horton: đź”— Get HD through the midlife lens in your inbox: đź”— Get your HD Chart: đź”— Support the pod with a donation: Show Summary: Do you notice fewer people our age setting New Year's resolutions? Maybe it's because we've failed so many times... In this episode of Midlife by (Human) Design, Lori offers a gentler (and far more effective) alternative to resolutions: heart-centered intentions, grounded in Human Design and the lived reality of midlife women. In this conversation, we explore: ...
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🔗 Planning by (Human) Design system/planner: https://www.lorilisai.com/planning-by-design 🔗 Get HD through the midlife lens in your inbox: https://www.lorilisai.com/#newsletter 🔗 Get your HD Chart: https://www.lorilisai.com/hd-chart 🔗 Support the pod with a donation: https://tinyurl.com/MbDpodsupport Show Summary: As 2025 comes to a close, this short and intentional episode of Midlife by Human Design invites you to pause before rushing into the next year. Lori shares a curated set of reflective questions—pulled directly from the Planning by Human Design Planner—to...
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đź”— Planning by (Human) Design system: https://www.lorilisai.com/planning-by-design đź”— Get HD through the midlife lens in your inbox: https://www.lorilisai.com/#newsletter đź”— Get your HD Chart: https://www.lorilisai.com/hd-chart đź”— Support the pod with a donation: đź”— Apply for coaching here: Show Summary: In this episode of Midlife by Human Design, Lori continues the conversation around planning by design by exploring one of the most overlooked elements of the Human Design chart: your Profile. Rather than treating profiles as personality labels, Lori reframes...
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🔗 Get the Human Design planning system here: https://www.lorilisai.com/planning-by-design 🔗 Get HD through the midlife lens in your inbox: https://www.lorilisai.com/#newsletter 🔗 Get your HD Chart: https://www.lorilisai.com/hd-chart 🔗 Support the pod with a donation: https://tinyurl.com/MbDpodsupport Summary: In this preview-style episode of Midlife by Human Design, Lori introduces a brand-new way to plan your life using Human Design gate transits—think astrology forecasts, but far more precise. Focusing on the Sun’s movement through Gates 11, 10, 58, and 38, Lori walks...
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🔗 Get HD through the midlife lens in your inbox: https://www.lorilisai.com/#newsletter 🔗 Get your HD Chart: https://www.lorilisai.com/hd-chart 🔗 Support the pod with a donation: https://tinyurl.com/MbDpodsupport Show Summary: In this week’s episode of Midlife by (Human) Design, Lori sits down with the luminous and deeply honest Megan Potter — a 3/5 Emotional Manifesting Generator whose 35 years have held enough twists, loss, reinvention, and spiritual unlearning to fill several lifetimes. Megan shares her journey from ministry to movie sets, from small-town Appalachia to a...
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Show Summary:
Ever feel like you can't trust your emotions? In this episode, Lori unpacks the messy, magical intersection of emotions, hormones, Human Design, and manifestation.
Midlife emotions can feel unpredictable, especially in perimenopause. One day you’re fine, the next you’re crying in the car and wondering if you can trust anything you feel. Lori explores what’s really happening beneath the emotional chaos—and how understanding your Human Design can help you turn those emotional surges into intuitive guidance.
You’ll hear about the role of the Emotional Solar Plexus (your personal emotional compass), why some women feel everything more deeply than others, and how your emotions actually shape what you attract. Plus, Lori shares a simple tool to help you recognize what you’re really feeling so you can move through it instead of getting stuck there.
If you’ve ever been told you’re “too sensitive” or felt like you have to tone it down, this episode is your reminder that your emotions aren’t the problem—they’re the portal.
Key Takeaways:
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How to tell if your emotions are guiding you or gaslighting you
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The surprising Human Design clue that explains why you feel everything so deeply
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A mindset shift that turns emotional chaos into clarity
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What your body might be trying to tell you through your perimenopause symptoms
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Why your feelings may be the missing piece in your manifestation practice
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