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Ep 89: Delulu Is the Solulu: A Midlife Manifestation Breakdown

Midlife by (Human) Design: Purpose, Perimenopause, Menopause, Wellness, Mindset & Woo that Works

Release Date: 11/17/2025

Ep 100: Listen to the Ache: Understanding Midlife Longing through Human Design show art Ep 100: Listen to the Ache: Understanding Midlife Longing through Human Design

Midlife by (Human) Design: Purpose, Perimenopause, Menopause, Wellness, Mindset & Woo that Works

đź”— Get on the email list for readings access: https://www.lorilisai.com/#newsletter  đź”— Get your HD Chart: https://www.lorilisai.com/hd-chart đź”— Support the pod with a donation: https://tinyurl.com/MbDpodsupport Show Summary: In this milestone 100th episode of Midlife by (Human) Design, Lori explores a quiet but powerful midlife experience many women recognize yet rarely name: the ache for lives that were never lived. Inspired in part by the cultural response to Heated Rivalry and similar stories that awaken desire, connection, and intensity, Lori explores why many midlife women...

info_outline Ep 99: Why Shane & Ilya are HRT (Heated Rivalry Therapy) for Midlife Women, Even Beyond the Spice show art Ep 99: Why Shane & Ilya are HRT (Heated Rivalry Therapy) for Midlife Women, Even Beyond the Spice

Midlife by (Human) Design: Purpose, Perimenopause, Menopause, Wellness, Mindset & Woo that Works

đź”— Access to Human Design readings in my email: https://www.lorilisai.com/#newsletter  đź”— Get your HD Chart: https://www.lorilisai.com/hd-chart đź”— Support the pod with a donation: Shane & Ilya's astro charts by Astro Katya: Show Summary: In this episode, Lori offers a bit of "HRT"—Heated Rivalry Therapy—for the soul. She dives into the cultural phenomenon of the Heated Rivalry series and explores why the love story between hockey rivals Shane and Ilya resonates so deeply with women, particularly those navigating midlife. By examining the Human Design charts of these...

info_outline Ep 98: Your North Node Placement: A Midlife Life Raft Hidden in Your Birth Chart show art Ep 98: Your North Node Placement: A Midlife Life Raft Hidden in Your Birth Chart

Midlife by (Human) Design: Purpose, Perimenopause, Menopause, Wellness, Mindset & Woo that Works

đź”— Readings through the email list: https://www.lorilisai.com/#newsletter  đź”— Get your HD & Astro Chart: https://www.lorilisai.com/hd-chart đź”— Support the pod with a donation: https://tinyurl.com/MbDpodsupport   Show Summary: In this episode of Midlife by Design, Lori explores the North Node through both astrology and Human Design as a lens for understanding why midlife often feels disorienting, tender, and quietly energizing. The North Node is a trajectory and a growth edge that invites us toward what we are becoming, even when it feels unfamiliar. Lori shares why...

info_outline Ep 97: Taylor Swift, the Eras Tour, and the Art of Embodying Your Midlife Awakening show art Ep 97: Taylor Swift, the Eras Tour, and the Art of Embodying Your Midlife Awakening

Midlife by (Human) Design: Purpose, Perimenopause, Menopause, Wellness, Mindset & Woo that Works

đź”— Readings, Coaching, & more on my email list: https://www.lorilisai.com/#newsletter  đź”— Get your HD Chart: https://www.lorilisai.com/hd-chart đź”— Support the pod with a donation: Show Summary: Inspired by the Eras docuseries, Lori looks at Taylor Swift’s chart and tour through the lens of Human Design—and what it reveals about midlife awakening, reinvention, and embodiment. Lori explores how honoring every era of your life can become a powerful deconditioning practice in midlife. Using Taylor’s publicly available Human Design chart as a case study, this conversation...

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Midlife by (Human) Design: Purpose, Perimenopause, Menopause, Wellness, Mindset & Woo that Works

đź”— Planning by (Human) Design system/planner: đź”— Intention-setting Workshop with Kim Horton: đź”— Get HD through the midlife lens in your inbox:   đź”— Get your HD Chart: đź”— Support the pod with a donation: Show Summary: Do you notice fewer people our age setting New Year's resolutions? Maybe it's because we've failed so many times... In this episode of Midlife by (Human) Design, Lori offers a gentler (and far more effective) alternative to resolutions: heart-centered intentions, grounded in Human Design and the lived reality of midlife women. In this conversation, we explore: ...

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Midlife by (Human) Design: Purpose, Perimenopause, Menopause, Wellness, Mindset & Woo that Works

đź”— Planning by (Human) Design system/planner: https://www.lorilisai.com/planning-by-design đź”— Get HD through the midlife lens in your inbox: https://www.lorilisai.com/#newsletter  đź”— Get your HD Chart: https://www.lorilisai.com/hd-chart đź”— Support the pod with a donation: https://tinyurl.com/MbDpodsupport   Show Summary: As 2025 comes to a close, this short and intentional episode of Midlife by Human Design invites you to pause before rushing into the next year. Lori shares a curated set of reflective questions—pulled directly from the Planning by Human Design Planner—to...

info_outline Ep 94: Planning by Profile: Planning for the Second Line First show art Ep 94: Planning by Profile: Planning for the Second Line First

Midlife by (Human) Design: Purpose, Perimenopause, Menopause, Wellness, Mindset & Woo that Works

đź”— Planning by (Human) Design system: https://www.lorilisai.com/planning-by-design đź”— Get HD through the midlife lens in your inbox: https://www.lorilisai.com/#newsletter  đź”— Get your HD Chart: https://www.lorilisai.com/hd-chart đź”— Support the pod with a donation: đź”— Apply for coaching here:    Show Summary: In this episode of Midlife by Human Design, Lori continues the conversation around planning by design by exploring one of the most overlooked elements of the Human Design chart: your Profile. Rather than treating profiles as personality labels, Lori reframes...

info_outline Ep 93: Planning by (Human) Design: Using Gate Transits to Close the Year with Clarity show art Ep 93: Planning by (Human) Design: Using Gate Transits to Close the Year with Clarity

Midlife by (Human) Design: Purpose, Perimenopause, Menopause, Wellness, Mindset & Woo that Works

đź”— Get the Human Design planning system here: https://www.lorilisai.com/planning-by-design đź”— Get HD through the midlife lens in your inbox: https://www.lorilisai.com/#newsletter  đź”— Get your HD Chart: https://www.lorilisai.com/hd-chart đź”— Support the pod with a donation: https://tinyurl.com/MbDpodsupport Summary: In this preview-style episode of Midlife by Human Design, Lori introduces a brand-new way to plan your life using Human Design gate transits—think astrology forecasts, but far more precise. Focusing on the Sun’s movement through Gates 11, 10, 58, and 38, Lori walks...

info_outline Ep 92: The Human Design Way to Plan Your Week: Authority, Energetic Weather, Centers and Energy Flow show art Ep 92: The Human Design Way to Plan Your Week: Authority, Energetic Weather, Centers and Energy Flow

Midlife by (Human) Design: Purpose, Perimenopause, Menopause, Wellness, Mindset & Woo that Works

đź”— Get HD through the midlife lens in your inbox:   đź”— Get the Human Design planning system here: đź”— Get your HD Chart: https://www.lorilisai.com/hd-chart đź”— Support the pod with a donation: đź”— Apply for 1:1 coaching: Local workshops: đź”— Winter Solstice: 12/21 in Waterbury đź”— 2026 Intention Setting by Design: 1/11 in Burlington: email me đź”— Self-care by Design: 1/25 Summary:  Learn how to plan your week by design instead of conditioning. Lori shares a gentler midlife-friendly approach using your energy type, authority, centers, and even gate transits to...

info_outline Ep 91: Deconditioning Faith, Redefining Worth & Feeling It All: A Raw Midlife Dialogue with Megan Potter show art Ep 91: Deconditioning Faith, Redefining Worth & Feeling It All: A Raw Midlife Dialogue with Megan Potter

Midlife by (Human) Design: Purpose, Perimenopause, Menopause, Wellness, Mindset & Woo that Works

đź”— Get HD through the midlife lens in your inbox: https://www.lorilisai.com/#newsletter  đź”— Get your HD Chart: https://www.lorilisai.com/hd-chart đź”— Support the pod with a donation: https://tinyurl.com/MbDpodsupport Show Summary: In this week’s episode of Midlife by (Human) Design, Lori sits down with the luminous and deeply honest Megan Potter — a 3/5 Emotional Manifesting Generator whose 35 years have held enough twists, loss, reinvention, and spiritual unlearning to fill several lifetimes. Megan shares her journey from ministry to movie sets, from small-town Appalachia to a...

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Show Summary:

Ever heard the phrase “delulu is the solulu?” On this episode of Midlife by (Human) Design, Lori breaks down what it really means for midlife women who are ready to shift timelines, collapse old versions of themselves, and actually manifest lives that feel aligned.

Lori dives into the energetic and Human Design foundations of manifestation--especially in this moment of global transition as we move from the Cross of Planning into the Cross of the Sleeping Phoenix. She explores why the “future you” already exists, how to access her, and why embodiment matters more than forcing high vibes.

You’ll learn why manifestation isn’t about pretending you’re happy all the time, and why even during your emotional lows, you can still call in what you desire. Lori shares practical, playful delulu techniques, how to handle your nervous system when good things show up, and how the current Gate 14 transit amplifies the creative and sacral energy available to fuel your dreams.

This episode is an invitation to soften, experiment, and embody the version of you who already has what you’re calling in, one tiny aligned action at a time.

Takeaways:

  • The timeline shift happening collectively — and why it matters for manifesting in midlife

  • How to embody your “future you” without bypassing your real human emotional waves

  • The role your nervous system plays in receiving the good stuff

  • Simple delulu practices that help collapse the gap between desire and reality

  • Why this week’s Gate 14 solar transit amplifies your creativity and abundance

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