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People Pleasing or Loving Your Neighbor

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Release Date: 10/10/2023

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Gretchen and Katie talk through a listener suggested topic of people pleasing. They talk about their own struggles in this area, and how people pleasing can be the opposite of vocation, or interfere with vocation.

They theorize why this is a constant struggle, and walk through what vocation is, and what vocation isn't. How do you know if you are loving your neighbor, or you're just trying to be liked, or the popular person? Then there's the struggle to be good at something, and want to go all in, but needing to set boundaries for the sake of our neighbor.

This episode is personal and practical, as they both share their struggle with this, and watching others struggle with it as well.

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