190. Exploring the science of Failure for you and your Autistic learner
Non Linear Learning - Rethinking Education for Neurodivergent Learners
Release Date: 09/11/2025
Non Linear Learning - Rethinking Education for Neurodivergent Learners
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The IEP meeting is supposed to be about your child. Have you noticed that it often feels like it's about everyone else’s comfort? Dr. Diana Fannon spent 24 years inside public school systems as a bilingual school psychologist and director of special education. She now works with families. And in this podcast, she shares with us a few red and green flags of special education. 🎙️ Tune in to this episode to learn: 👇 Why "inclusive" school districts still often segregate kids with disabilities - and the one red flag that tells you immediately The difference between...
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Most special education systems operate on this premise: Students with disabilities must master small foundational skills before they are allowed access to academic content. In practice, this often means students spend years repeating the same goals - decoding, counting, basic worksheets - while their peers move forward into real subjects like science, history, and mathematics. But what happens when a student with significant disabilities is simply included in a high school physics class? In this episode of Non Linear Learning, I speak with Sruthi Muralidharan, a...
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Dr. Vaish Sarathy speaks with Dr. Kendall Stewart (former surgeon turned functional medicine + genomics clinician) about the biochemistry of learning: how inflammation, metabolic factors, neurotransmitter balance, and genetics can influence regulation, sensory stability, and why some kids respond to interventions while others don’t. What we cover: Why progress can look like “good days/bad days” when inflammation fluctuates Nutrigenomics vs exome sequencing vs pharmacogenetics (and why personalization matters) A parent-friendly clinical framework: inflammation → autophagy/insulin...
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Homeschooling sometimes begins when parents realize the education system is not serving their child. In this episode of Non Linear Learning, Dr. Vaish Sarathy speaks with Victoria Lenormand, a former detective turned holistic health practitioner and homeschooling parent, about what it takes to trust a child’s internal compass and let go of conventional definitions of success. Victoria brings an evidence-based perspective to homeschooling. Trained to observe patterns and follow facts, she applied that same mindset to her son’s learning and recognized that a linear schooling model was...
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Parents of Autistic children and children with Down syndrome are often given advice that sounds compassionate, reasonable, and supportive. But much of it slowly limits learning, flexibility, autonomy, and long-term growth. In this milestone Episode 200 of Non Linear Learning, Dr. Vaish Sarathy challenges 5 common pieces of parenting and education advice that unintentionally lower expectations and shift focus away from real learning. In this episode, you’ll learn why Dr. Vaish challenges: • Strict routines and rigid structure — and how too much predictability reduces tolerance for...
info_outlineIn this edition of Non Linear Learning, Dr. Vaish Sarathy and co-host Searmi Park unpack the buzz around “productive failure”and flip it on its head for neurodivergent learners.
Inspired by Manu Kapur’s work and his recent conversation on 10% Happier, Vaish and Searmi explore when failure can deepen learning, when it harms, and why the word we’re actually looking for is exploration, not failure at least for this audience.
In this episode
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Productive failure what we think it means
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Why we don’t “design failure” for autistic students
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Parents as the ones who “fail productively”
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Real-life stories
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A challenge for listeners
Key takeaways
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Exploration > evaluation. Our learners already face constant performance tests; they don’t need “engineered” failure.
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Hold the bar high, detach from outcomes. You can keep rigor and still protect nervous systems.
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Make the “failure” yours. Parents and educators can iterate on the environment, task, and supports instead of labeling the child.
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Build a web, not a bridge. Let detours teach the terrain.
Resources & Links
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Book: Productive Failure: Unlocking Deeper Learning Through the Science of Failing by Manu Kapur
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Podcast that sparked this convo: 10% Happier with Dan Harris “Let’s Normalize Failure (The Right Kind) | Manu Kapur.” (Spotify)
Try this at home (Quarterly Challenge)
Pick one stretch experience your child “can’t do”—museum hour, library time, a short concert, a new trail, and scaffold it respectfully (sensory-wise, regulation-wise). Debrief afterwards: What worked? What needs one tweak? What surprised you?
About your hosts
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Dr. Vaish Sarathy — TEDx speaker, PhD educator, creator of Non Linear Education, and mom to a non-speaking autistic poet with Down syndrome.
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Searmi Park — Concertmaster, Eugene Symphony; founder of Autism Mustang Alliance; mom to a non-speaking autistic young adult.
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