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Escape from Covert Abuse and Coercive Control

Game Changers Silicon Valley

Release Date: 12/21/2022

Measure A - Bait and Switch show art Measure A - Bait and Switch

Game Changers Silicon Valley

Measure A is being sold to Santa Clara County voters as a hospital funding initiative — but the fine print tells another story. In this episode of Game Changers Silicon Valley, host Jim Connor talks with David Johnson, chairman of the Santa Clara County Republican Party, about the widening gap between the county’s public message and its fiscal reality. Johnson reveals how the county’s healthcare budget has nearly tripled despite a shrinking population and explains why Measure A — a general tax increase with no spending guarantees — may do little to fix the system’s inefficiencies....

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Game Changers Silicon Valley

Every election cycle, there’s one race that flies under the radar.  In Santa Clara County, CA, we have an election that affects every homeowner, every taxpayer, and every senior ...  that race is for County Assessor. This election has a special twist that one candidate, Rishi Kumar, who has taken a strong position against a sales tax increase referred to as Measure A.  Join us to learn why a candidate of County Assessor is agains an increase in taxes.

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Disruption Isn't Random show art Disruption Isn't Random

Game Changers Silicon Valley

Disruption isn’t random — it follows patterns that can be seen, interpreted, and even anticipated. Yet most companies only recognize those signals after the market has already shifted. The organizations that thrive are the ones that develop the discipline to study weak signals — small but telling changes that reveal how markets or industries are about to evolve. These signals may come from unexpected places: a change in consumer behavior, a breakthrough in technology, or an overlooked data trend that quietly rewrites what’s possible. Aaron Bradley and his team at the University of...

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The Edge in Education! show art The Edge in Education!

Game Changers Silicon Valley

Virginia Cheung brings to the table not just policy ideas but personal stories that underscore the urgency of investing in the first five years of a child’s life. With California spending billions on education and still falling behind, she asks a provocative question: Are we missing the most crucial years of a child's development? Cheung delves deep into the connection between a child's early environment and their long-term academic success. She argues that when children are exposed to stable family routines and communication tools—whether through language, art, or even sign language—it...

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The Crisis at Big City School Districts show art The Crisis at Big City School Districts

Game Changers Silicon Valley

I just sat down with Ann Hsu, a bold and fearless candidate for the San Francisco School Board, and let me tell you – this interview is unlike anything you've seen before. Ann doesn’t mince words about the deep-rooted dysfunction plaguing our school district. From exposing how political ambitions have hijacked our children's education to sharing her no-nonsense strategies for restoring fiscal sanity and accountability, Ann delivers a candid, unfiltered take on the mess our public schools have allowed to become the norm. What makes Ann's journey even more compelling is her personal story as...

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Financial Meltdown at the San Francisco Unified School District show art Financial Meltdown at the San Francisco Unified School District

Game Changers Silicon Valley

The San Francisco school district is in the middle of a financial reckoning, forced to reconcile a significant drop in student enrollment with years of delayed responses to the growing operational costs. This isn’t just a San Francisco problem—it's a glaring example of the challenges facing large school districts nationwide. Today’s conversation centers on the hard truth: there simply aren't enough students to support the district’s bloated infrastructure, and drastic measures are needed to avoid insolvency. In this episode, we dive into the heart of the matter with Supryia Ray, a...

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From Honor Rolls to Racial Roles: California's Educational Transformation show art From Honor Rolls to Racial Roles: California's Educational Transformation

Game Changers Silicon Valley

California, once renowned for its high-performing public schools, is experiencing significant changes that raise concerns about the future of academic excellence. Notably, many high schools have eliminated honors and Advanced Placement classes, while some middle schools have stopped teaching Algebra in the 8th grade. A new state law mandates that all high school students must complete an ethnic studies course to graduate, aimed at enhancing cultural awareness and respect among diverse populations. However, the lack of a standardized curriculum has allowed for the introduction of "Liberated...

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The Oppressor Class show art The Oppressor Class

Game Changers Silicon Valley

Eli Steele's documentary, "Killing America," emerges from a profound silence into a loud, defining statement about the currents sweeping through American education. Born deaf, Steele transcends the boundaries of sound to explore the ideological framework shaping the narratives within schools across the nation. Through his lens, Steele investigates the dilution of meritocracy, the ascent of indoctrination, and the looming shadow of censorship, crafting a narrative that questions whether we are on the verge of educational decay or the brink of an academic renaissance. "Killing America" is not...

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Breaking the cycle, Crime, Drug Addiction, Recidivism show art Breaking the cycle, Crime, Drug Addiction, Recidivism

Game Changers Silicon Valley

We share a highly visible, universal concern: the persistent cycle of crime, drug addiction, and recidivism. My interview with former San Jose Mayor and current Congressional candidate Sam Liccardo, provides a deeper insight into the pernicious nature of this cycle. Sam underscores the deep-seated connection between these elements, painting a picture of a cycle that perpetuates itself but believes it can be dismantled with strategic intervention. His insights, drawn from years in public service, propose a pivot from punitive to rehabilitative justice. At the core of Liccardo’s argument is...

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Guns, Border, and Immigration Reform show art Guns, Border, and Immigration Reform

Game Changers Silicon Valley

Everyone agrees: We are witnessing unprecedented political polarization and deep divides tearing our country's fabric.  Since the current leadership in Congress cannot come to terms, the voters have little option but to send a message by electing new representatives and senators to Congress. I had an opportunity to interview a newcomer in the upcoming primary elections in California. Peter Dixon has impressive international accomplishments, entrepreneurial experience, served as a marine in combat, and a common sense approach to addressing big issues. He believes in finding creative...

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One much-overlooked area in intimate personal relationships is the destructive nature of narcissistic and controlling personalities. We see narcissistic, controlling behavior in politics, business, the media, and entertainment.

According to articles in  Medical News Today, a controlling personality is a red flag in any relationship, especially in family relationships. Spouses or intimate partners are often subjected to this behavior in private, in the form of covert abuse and coercion. 

Covert abuse covers all types of cruelty, manipulation, and harm inflicted on another person, whether or not that harm leaves physical scars. 

So the question is:  Why are we, as a society, not talking about this, not educating women about the behavior patterns that are predictors of violence in a relationship? <Quote>

My guest is Ruth Darlene, Founder and CEO of Women of Silicon Valley, a non-profit company dedicated to helping women break out of a relationship dominated by abuse and coercive control.