Making the BEST and Most Long-Lasting Relationships | Hack #101
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Confidence Hack #101: The majority of people think ‘connecting’ is about the initial connection. Most people are wrong.
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Writing the PERFECT Email | Hack #100
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Confidence Hack #100: Email can work at scale!
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What Time Do the Most Successful People Wake Up? | Hack #99
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Confidence Hack #99: Have you ever wondered about the actual average time the most successful people in the world wake up?
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Embrace the Negative Thoughts | Hack #98
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Confidence Hack #98: We are often told, ‘negative thoughts are a bad thing. Don’t think negative thoughts.’
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Make the Difficult Phone Call | Hack #97
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Confidence Hack #97: Is there anything worse than making a cold call?
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Use a Strategic Action Plan | Hack #96
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Confidence Hack # 96: Most people let life happen to them.
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The Best Person To Compare To | Hack #95
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Confidence Hack #95: Comparison is the thief in the night who robs you of your joy for tomorrow.
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780 Million People Are Dyslexic | Hack #94
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Confidence Hack #94: But what if I also told you, according to a BBC study, 40% of self-made millionaires are dyslexic?
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What if the Limitless Pill was Real? | Hack #93
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Confidence Hack #93: What if we already use 100% of our brains?
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Listening to Mozart as a Baby Doesn't Make You Smarter | Hack #92
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Confidence Hack #92: No evidence supports that listening to classical music as a baby makes you smarter.
info_outlineConfidence Hack #81: Ummmm.... uh...these hurt how people perceive you!
Once you start listening for it when in conversation with others, you can’t unhear it.
Humans use these spacers not because it makes them sound more intelligent; it’s because most people are ‘afraid of the pause.’
If you listen to some of the best speakers of all time, such as Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., John Maxwell, and Mel Robbins, you will find they often pause while speaking, even to the point where it feels uncomfortable for the listener. I have had to work on this skill as a professional motivational speaker. And trust me, it’s not easy at first.
It’s all about what happens in that open space. If it is filled with nonsensical fillers like ‘uh and um,’ you will lower your perception of your intelligence. If it is filled with silence, you will increase your perception of your intelligence.
Gain confidence today, knowing that the silent pause is something to embrace, not to run from. Try it today in conversation. It might feel uncomfortable at first, but I promise you if you stick with it, you will learn to love the pause.
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