Episode 47 - Marriage Myth #7: Can You Change Your Spouse?
Release Date: 05/04/2020
Episode 74 - Don't Look Back In Anger, I Heard Ya Say
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Anyway, here's Wonderwall. On this episode we talk about a recent trip we took to the Great Salt Lake and what was good about it, and what went wrong and how that could have lead to hard feelings between us due to frustrations. We also laugh for several minutes straight over an unintended sexual innuendo, which I am still laughing about as I write this synopsis.
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Episode 73 - Advice We Would Give To Ourselves
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On today's episode we give a quick update on our last episode about how we have implemented our plans and if they're working. Then we get a little more light-hearted this week and get into our topic, which is advice we would give to our newlywed selves to make our marriage a little bit easier. We discuss things like school, work, money, Roseanne (the TV show), and sex with the lights on. We hope you enjoy!
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Episode 72 - Discussing the Elephant in the Bedroom...
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On this episode we get deeply personal as we share a real discussion we had with each other over our sex life. We recorded our discussion just in case, and now we're being our bravest selves and posting it for all to hear the process as we communicate our concerns in a loving way and try to come up with solutions. Be prepared to hear more than you ever wanted to about the one problem that has plagued our relationship for almost its entirety. Listener discretion is advised.
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Episode 71 - Unsolicited Parenting Advice
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On this weeks episode we talk about getting a new cat, an ER visit with our 12 year old daughter with a heart condition, and having a meltdown over not wearing a mask in a public place. Eventually we make our way to this weeks topic and discuss mom and dad shaming and unsolicited parental advice. We talk about what it means to shame other parents and give some examples of times when we've been shamed. We exchange some facts from studies about what people in your life are more likely to shame you over parenting choices, and we offer some tips and tricks to to let the shame slide off your back...
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Episode 70 - The Best of a Bad Year
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On this episode we talk about our year in review. We discuss how we managed to get through a tough year and why we had to rely on each other more than ever, what we learned while being stuck at home, and the things we have come to appreciate. And for some reason we also explain why Die Hard is apparently an aphrodisiac , so you'll definitely want to tune in to hear that.
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Episode 69 - Elf on the Shelf Dilemma
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On this episode we discuss our feelings about the Christmas tradition of the Elf on the Shelf and whether or not it is time to move on from it. By the end of the episode we actually make a definitive decision about if we will continue suffering over it, or finally let it go, so listen for that.
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Episode 68 - Some Junk We're Thankful For
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On this episode we talk about the gratitude that we have for each other, not only during the current pandemic, but especially during it. We tell each other specific things the other does for our family and our house that we appreciate. And finally we express our gratitude for the situation we are in, in which we are fortunate enough to get to stay home with our family all the time to try and protect our daughter from Covid-19.
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Episode 67 - Having Friends As An Awkward Couple
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On today’s episode we talk about how homeschooling is going, and Halloween costumes past and present. We discuss at length why we love having “couple” friends, and tell the story of an attempt to make friends while living in Boise. And finally we talk about why we love the relationships we have with our current group of friends and why it works for us.
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Episode 66 - Contraceptive Perspective
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On this episode we briefly discuss Ivy’s clinic adventures, before diving into birth control. We talk about 12 different forms of birth control and how they work, and how well they work. We also talk about which ones we’ve had personal experience with. Obviously this episode gets into some things that may be offensive to some listeners, so listener discretion is advised.
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Episode 65 - Malcolm Is Great, 2020 Blows
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On this episode we talk about celebrating our youngest child’s birthday, our daughter, Ivy’s clinical appointments at the children’s hospital, and the overwhelming and tough time we have been having this year.
info_outlineOn this episode we discuss virtual birthday parties, wearing a bikini to a funeral, and whether or not you can change your spouse. Join us to find out if we’ve changed together or separately, and if we’ve tried to change each other in the last 17 years.
Specific topic discussed in this episode:
- (1:00) Highlights of the week: shaving our cat, moving our bunnies, and attending a virtual birthday party.
- (5:00) Rochelle ruins a funeral by wearing a bikini.
- (8:00) Marriage Myth #7: Can you change your spouse?
- (9:00) People can change in a marriage, but can you manipulate the way they change?
- (10:40) People have to be willing to change themselves because people won’t change unless they want to change.
- (11:45) It’s better to accept your partner for who they are, than try to change them into what you want them to be.
- (13:10) There’s nothing wrong with wanting your partner to grow and improve.
- (14:10) You have to take the good with the bad when it comes to a partner.
- (16:00) You can’t put in the work for the other person.
- (19:10) With our kids, Rochelle wants to be in charge and do things her way. But she is not trying to change who they are.
- (20:30) We are on a different path than our families, and we are okay with our kids choosing a different path from the one we’re on.
- (23:45) You can’t do these things, Nemo.
- (27:00) You can’t change your spouse, you can’t change your kids, you can’t change anybody but yourself.
- (28:30) Do seasonal allergies include coughing?
- (31:50) Stinger or cliffhanger: marriage myth #8: Marriage means you’ll never be lonely again?