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Marriage Conference 1 - How to Deal with Conflict in Marriage

Good Enough Living

Release Date: 07/28/2025

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Dr. John Cox explores the complexities of conflict resolution in marriage, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness, addressing hurt, and fostering understanding between partners. He introduces the concept of a win-win approach to conflicts, advocating for mutual respect and commitment in resolving issues. He explores various aspects of relationships, including psychological insights, the importance of repentance in marriage, managing anger in parenting, and the role of shame and forgiveness. Ultimately, this session encourages growth, curiosity, and a deeper understanding of oneself and...

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Dr. John Cox explores the complexities of conflict resolution in marriage, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness, addressing hurt, and fostering understanding between partners. He introduces the concept of a win-win approach to conflicts, advocating for mutual respect and commitment in resolving issues. He explores various aspects of relationships, including psychological insights, the importance of repentance in marriage, managing anger in parenting, and the role of shame and forgiveness. Ultimately, this session encourages growth, curiosity, and a deeper understanding of oneself and one's partner.


00:00 Introduction and Humor in Relationships
02:05 Understanding Conflict in Relationships
06:04 The Dynamics of Fighting
10:07 The Importance of Timeouts
20:06 Self-Reflection and Understanding Triggers
29:46 The Role of Patterns in Conflict Resolution
34:09 Confronting Ourselves: The Journey Within
34:37 Addressing Hurt: The Key to Healing
37:01 Understanding and Validation: Healing Through Connection
45:07 The Win-Win Approach: Solving Conflicts Together
52:13 Creating a Safe Space: The Covenant of Marriage
01:03:08 Understanding Psychological Insights in Relationships
01:05:29 Navigating Marital Challenges and Repentance
01:07:37 Managing Anger and Conflict in Parenting
01:10:24 Forgiveness and Overcoming Shame
01:11:31 The Role of Emotions in Child Development
01:15:25 Conflict Resolution and Emotional Awareness
01:18:20 The Importance of Timeouts in Conflict
01:21:21 Balancing Abiding and Task-Oriented Personalities
01:33:50 Growth and Curiosity in Marriage