Episode 18 : Spreading Sunlight to Survivors of Rape/How to Take Care of Ourselves and Others With Brittany Catton Kirk, Founder of Sunlight Retreat For Survivors
Release Date: 07/19/2019
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info_outlineBrittany Catton Kirk is the Founder and Executive Director of the Social Enterprise Sunlight Retreats for Survivors, an accelerator for healing for survivors of rape.
After being attacked overseas in 2012, she struggled in her career, relationships and gained 60 pounds as she tried to recover from her attack and Post Traumatic Stress. She looked for a safe place to go and heal but found nothing so she created Sunlight Retreats for Survivors.
Drawing on her ten years’ experience creating award-winning programming for military families and wounded warriors at the San Diego Armed Services YMCA, she set out to create a tangible in-person program to empower survivors with tools, trauma education, resilience training and peer support.
Sunlight Retreats is a change-making program that gives survivors a better way to heal, so that they can rebuild and empower others. 100 percent of the forty participants from the first two retreats reported via anonymous survey that they would recommend Sunlight Retreats to a fellow survivor, 100 percent said it aided them in their healing, and 100 percent said Sunlight Retreats made them stronger.
To learn more about Sunlight Retreats For Survivors of Rape visit https://www.sunlightretreats.org.
If you are a survivor of rape, please do not think you have to suffer in silence or alone!!! You can get resources straight from the website above or send an email through the contact portion of their site.
You can also contact:
The National Sexual Assault Hotline: 1-800-656-4673
RAINN25: 1-800-656-HOPE
For individual therapy - resources can be found through Psychology Today: www.psychologytoday.com
For on line therapy Talk Space: https://www.talkspace.com/
Please do not think you have to do this alone!!!!
Instagram: @sunlightretreatsforsurvivors
Facebook: Sunlight Retreats For Survivors
Epic recording and sound engineering from Bram Kaprow owner of Arden Rock Studio www.ardenrockrecords.com.