Episode #290: Change Your Mind — Why ‘Trying On’ Options Helps You Make Wise Decisions
Grit ‘n’ Grace: The Podcast for Highly Sensitive Christian Women
Release Date: 04/05/2025
Grit ‘n’ Grace: The Podcast for Highly Sensitive Christian Women
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info_outlineWhen you feel like you’re always second-guessing yourself, it’s tempting to idealize being a "one-and-done" decision-maker! But what if changing your mind isn't a sign of weakness but actually a sign of wisdom?
In this episode, we're tackling the myth that Highly Sensitive Persons are “wishy-washy.” You’ll learn how “trying on” different options can
- free you from the guilt of sunk costs,
- help you honor your real-time needs, and
- lead to better choices in the long-run.
You’ll also gain permission to update out-dated decisions, while embracing God’s grace as you grow.
Changing your mind does not make you flaky. So often, it simply means that you’re paying attention!
Links mentioned:
- The Sensitive & Strong Community Cafe:
https://CheriGregory.com/Cafe/ - Take the “Am I a Highly Sensitive Person?” Self-Quiz:
https://CheriGregory.com/hspquiz/
Episode Webpage:
https://CheriGregory.com/episode290