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45 Where the Magic Happens (Ben DeMarco)

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Release Date: 03/31/2024

20 Our 10 Year Bangiversary (Ben DeMarco) show art 20 Our 10 Year Bangiversary (Ben DeMarco)

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Remy's boyfriend and incredibly funny comedian Ben DeMarco is back to talk about approaching 10 YEARS of having sex with Remy and celebrate their upcumming Bangiversary! They discuss how much individual growth they have done over 10 years, how they've grown as a couple, and their plans for the future. There is also a lively discussion about Marilyn Manson's alleged ability to suck his own dick, the process of subscribing to an OnlyFans account together, and the many bizarre similarities that Remy and Ben shared in childhood while living 3000 miles and 3 years apart. TW: Brief mention of SA...

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19 My Partner Transitioned & Now I'm Bi! (Bronwyn Ariel Isaac + Alex Smith) show art 19 My Partner Transitioned & Now I'm Bi! (Bronwyn Ariel Isaac + Alex Smith)

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Comedian Bronwyn Ariel Isaac and her girlfriend musician and security researcher Alex Smith call in from Amsterdam to talk about their extremely loving relationship and how Alex coming out as trans after a few years together has made it even more solid. Did Bronwyn know she was into women before? How long did Alex know she was trans before she came out? What IS the correct way to clean a diva cup?? And why does Remy keep saying she 'recommends autism?' All this and much more on this highly educational and highly adorable episode. TW: brief mentions of abuse Love How C*m? --   Follow...

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18 My Current Girlfriend (Brendan Sagalow) show art 18 My Current Girlfriend (Brendan Sagalow)

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Hilarious comedian Brendan Sagalow is here to talk about dirty talk, role play, and being labeled a "serial monogamist." We talk about the negative connotations of the phrase and what it most likely actually means. We also chat about past relationships and the "my current girlfriend" trend that has been blowing up-- but how he feels about his current girlfriend is oh so different. It's a super cute and super fun one! Love How C*m? --   Follow Brendan Follow / DM us at   Support the podcast/ get extras on  Check out our  for extra info & merch!

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17 Summer Of Love Island (Caroline Hanes) show art 17 Summer Of Love Island (Caroline Hanes)

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It's finally summer which means TWO franchises of Love Island are coming out every. single. night. -- and we still cannot get enough. Here to talk about this particularly scandalous, tumultuous,  steamy and viral AF season of Love Island US is comedian and joke writer for Love Island US, Caroline Hanes! Caroline gives us some juicy behind the scenes info and a look into how the sausage gets made. And of course we discuss the current islanders, and the Huda of it all. Warning: SPOILERS!  Love How C*m? --   Follow Caroline Follow / DM us at   Support the podcast/ get...

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16 Transferno, Fire Island, and Everywhere In Between (James Tom + Sydney Baloue)  show art 16 Transferno, Fire Island, and Everywhere In Between (James Tom + Sydney Baloue)

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An extra long, extra hot and extra horny episode with two former guests; comedian James Tom and writer/producer Sydney Baloue all about their lives as gay trans men -- and how it compares to their former lives living as lesbian women. We talk about losing different virginities, taking virginities, and SO many spots to go if you are looking to hook up as a gay trans man. Syd and James both share very similar experiences but are so different at the same time. It is a conversation about trans joy and sexual pleasure vs. all the crap that is going on politically and socially right now. Happy...

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15 We're Having A LOT of Gay Sex (Ashley Gavin) show art 15 We're Having A LOT of Gay Sex (Ashley Gavin)

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Hilarious internationally touring comedian and host of the podcast Ashley Gavin is back! And this time she is telling us about her open relationship; how she got into it, the rules her and her girlfriend have, and some hot hot hookups that she has had. She helps to educate Remy about different types of lesbians-- from a list that Remy found on a Reddit thread, advises our listeners on how to hit on women, and finally Remy and Ashley discuss difficult relationships leading to even more difficult breakups, and the passion and pain of sex with exes.  Love How C*m? --   Follow Ashley ...

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14 The Smell of Desire (Emma Vernon) show art 14 The Smell of Desire (Emma Vernon)

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We are talking about the link between scents and attraction with fragrance expert, perfume lover/advisor, matchmaker, and host of , Emma Vernon. We discuss the science between smell and arousal and all different types of fragrances. Emma talks about how to get a signature scent, the importance of scent with regard to memories, and the evolution of fragrance throughout the 70s, 80s, 90s etc. and how those changes reflects on what was going on culturally during each decade.  This episode is dedicated to our grandmothers-- forever doused in fragrance  Perfumes Mentioned in the...

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13 You Wanna Be on Top? ( Sarah Hartshorne) show art 13 You Wanna Be on Top? ( Sarah Hartshorne)

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Comedian, ex-model and author of the new book, "" Sarah Hartshorne comes on the pod to talk her time on America's Next Top Model; the good, the bad, and the very pretty despite being called ugly. She tells us all about what happened behind the scenes, openly queer models, making friends + having crushes on each other and her body image from before the show to now. We also discuss threesomes, tax law for certain types of queer marriage, Sarah's miscarriage early in life as well as her pregnancy with her daughter and the orgasms that were unlocked after giving birth! TW: ED & Miscarriage...

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12 F*ck Endometriosis (Ashley Ray) show art 12 F*ck Endometriosis (Ashley Ray)

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Do you have endometriosis or wonder what it is? Learn all about it with comedian and friend of the pod, Ashley Ray. She tells us about living with and suffering through undiagnosed endo in her teens and early 20s and how she finally found out what was going on with her body. We discuss her endometrial cysts, how much blood is actually produced in a "normal" period, how endo held her back socially and sexually and how she went about fixing it! Love How C*m? --   Follow Ashley Follow / DM us at   Support the podcast/ get extras on  Check out our  for extra info...

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11 Dying For Sex (Nikki Boyer) show art 11 Dying For Sex (Nikki Boyer)

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In the new FX/ Hulu show Dying for Sex, Jenny Slate plays Nikki, a woman whose best friend Molly (Michelle Williams) is diagnosed with terminal cancer and decides to turn her diagnosis into an opportunity to go on sexual adventures and fulfill all of her desires before the end of her life. The show is based on a podcast of the same name by the real life Molly and Nikki and today we have the pleasure of talking to Executive Producer of Dying for Sex, and Molly's best friend Nikki Boyer. We discuss the kinks that Molly explored before the end of her life; foot fetishes, ball kicking, tickling...

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It's the season 5 finale and we are closing it out with a bang-- and Ben! He and Remy are doing something she is calling "The BFF Test"-- (Boyfriend Forever Test) which she created and is basically The Newlywed Game for unmarried people* --  with way more sex questions. They see how their answers match up as they talk about recent rendezvous, adventures in butt-plugging, and how each of them could stand to be more romantic. It is an extremely fun and giggly episode, but if you're related to Remy or Ben, close to both of them, or just don't want to picture them bumping uglies it's maybe not the ep for you! You've been warned. 

*Married people can still play, duh

 

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