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11 Dying For Sex (Nikki Boyer)

How C*m

Release Date: 04/30/2025

15 We're Having A LOT of Gay Sex (Ashley Gavin) show art 15 We're Having A LOT of Gay Sex (Ashley Gavin)

How C*m

Hilarious internationally touring comedian and host of the podcast Ashley Gavin is back! And this time she is telling us about her open relationship; how she got into it, the rules her and her girlfriend have, and some hot hot hookups that she has had. She helps to educate Remy about different types of lesbians-- from a list that Remy found on a Reddit thread, advises our listeners on how to hit on women, and finally Remy and Ashley discuss difficult relationships leading to even more difficult breakups, and the passion and pain of sex with exes.  Love How C*m? --   Follow Ashley ...

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We are talking about the link between scents and attraction with fragrance expert, perfume lover/advisor, matchmaker, and host of , Emma Vernon. We discuss the science between smell and arousal and all different types of fragrances. Emma talks about how to get a signature scent, the importance of scent with regard to memories, and the evolution of fragrance throughout the 70s, 80s, 90s etc. and how those changes reflects on what was going on culturally during each decade.  This episode is dedicated to our grandmothers-- forever doused in fragrance  Perfumes Mentioned in the...

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Comedian, ex-model and author of the new book, "" Sarah Hartshorne comes on the pod to talk her time on America's Next Top Model; the good, the bad, and the very pretty despite being called ugly. She tells us all about what happened behind the scenes, openly queer models, making friends + having crushes on each other and her body image from before the show to now. We also discuss threesomes, tax law for certain types of queer marriage, Sarah's miscarriage early in life as well as her pregnancy with her daughter and the orgasms that were unlocked after giving birth! TW: ED & Miscarriage...

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In the new FX/ Hulu show Dying for Sex, Jenny Slate plays Nikki, a woman whose best friend Molly (Michelle Williams) is diagnosed with terminal cancer and decides to turn her diagnosis into an opportunity to go on sexual adventures and fulfill all of her desires before the end of her life. The show is based on a podcast of the same name by the real life Molly and Nikki and today we have the pleasure of talking to Executive Producer of Dying for Sex, and Molly's best friend Nikki Boyer. We discuss the kinks that Molly explored before the end of her life; foot fetishes, ball kicking, tickling...

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Picture this: it is the early 2000s. The OC is on, the Hills is on and Perez Hilton is forcing Johnny Wujek out of the closet by calling him gay on a blog.  Fast forward to LA 2024 as Remy chats with Johnny (Emmy award winning costume designer/ stylist to pop idols including Katy Perry, Ariana Grande, Mariah Carey, and Nicki Minaj) about how he actually feels about being publicly "called out," the benefits of it and the fallout, and what his love life has been like since. We also discuss exciting firsts, tough breakups, and how to sext like no one is watching.  TW: DV mentioned Love...

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Comedian and actor (Sex and the City + The Other Two) Bill Dawes sits down with Remy to tell her about one of the most pivotal days of his life: when a woman told him he was bad in bed. Come on a journey with us as Bill shakes that devastating blow and learns how to get good at sex. We discuss lectures, kundalini yoga, tantra, techniques for eating out a vulva and more. We also discuss cheating, past relationships and how in many ways, if you used to be shitty it doesn't mean you can't get better.  TW: sexual assault and violence towards the end of the podcast Love How C*m? --  ...

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Comedian, Comedy Central Roast icon, and recent Golden Globe host Nikki Glaser and Andrew Collin; comedian, podcaster, and friend of the pod, joined Remy for a live podcast recording YEARS ago-- and we are finally releasing the audio! It is a hilarious episode about how orgasms are ruining our lives, Nikki losing her orgasm and getting it back, the perils of dry fingering, the joys of dry hand jobs, and many many book recommendations from Nikki that she swears will change your life. We also take questions from the audience and give out sex toys! You will simply love this blast from the...

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8 Finger Blast From The Past (Nikki Glaser + Andrew Collin) show art 8 Finger Blast From The Past (Nikki Glaser + Andrew Collin)

How C*m

Comedian, Comedy Central Roast icon, and recent Golden Globe host Nikki Glaser and Andrew Collin; comedian, podcaster, and friend of the pod, joined Remy for a live podcast recording YEARS ago-- and we are finally releasing the audio! It is a hilarious episode about how orgasms are ruining our lives, Nikki losing her orgasm and getting it back, the perils of dry fingering, the joys of dry hand jobs, and many many book recommendations from Nikki that she swears will change your life. We also take questions from the audience and give out sex toys! You will simply love this blast from the...

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8 Finger Blast From The Past (Nikki Glaser + Andrew Collin) show art 8 Finger Blast From The Past (Nikki Glaser + Andrew Collin)

How C*m

Comedian, Comedy Central Roast icon, and recent Golden Globe host Nikki Glaser and Andrew Collin; comedian, podcaster, and friend of the pod, joined Remy for a live podcast recording YEARS ago-- and we are finally releasing the audio! It is a hilarious episode about how orgasms are ruining our lives, Nikki losing her orgasm and getting it back, the perils of dry fingering, the joys of dry hand jobs, and many many book recommendations from Nikki that she swears will change your life. We also take questions from the audience and give out sex toys! You will simply love this blast from the...

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In the new FX/ Hulu show Dying for Sex, Jenny Slate plays Nikki, a woman whose best friend Molly (Michelle Williams) is diagnosed with terminal cancer and decides to turn her diagnosis into an opportunity to go on sexual adventures and fulfill all of her desires before the end of her life. The show is based on a podcast of the same name by the real life Molly and Nikki and today we have the pleasure of talking to Executive Producer of Dying for Sex, and Molly's best friend Nikki Boyer. We discuss the kinks that Molly explored before the end of her life; foot fetishes, ball kicking, tickling etc. and the life lessons that everyone can learn from Molly's outlook. Finally we chat about Nikki's sex life and her personal sexual achievements and hurdles. 

TW: Death, Cancer, Miscarriage, Childhood SA

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