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15 We're Having A LOT of Gay Sex (Ashley Gavin)

Release Date: 05/31/2025

33 Sex is Blind & Poly Parents (Imani Denae)

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Sure love is blind-- but if you are a person who needs glasses, is sex blind too? We are joined by hysterical Portland based comedian, and glasses wearer, Imani Denae to talk all things sex and romance from the perspective of someone with limited vision. She also tells us about growing up in a home with polyamorous parents and how it shaped her personal views of sex and relationships. Love How C*m? -- Follow Imani Follow / DM us at Support the podcast/ get extras on Check out our for extra info & merch!

32 Stroking After Stroking (Kenice Mobley)

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Kenice Mobley is a hilarious New York based comedian and writer who had a stroke at 36 years old. Four years later we are discussing how it happened, all of the rehabilitation she had to go through post stroke, and how important it was for her to get her orgasms back. She tells us how she did it and we learn some very important information about different types of strokes; how to know that one is happening, and how to change your mindset if you are healing from one. Love How C*m? -- Follow Kenice Follow / DM us at Support the podcast/ get extras on Check out...

31 The Thing About Labels (Ali Kolbert)

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We are joined by fantastic comedian Ali Kolbert (The Tonight Show, The Today Show) to talk about a controversial conversation about sexual identity that podcaster Betty Who started -- that hit the lesbian/bisexual/queer femme community, and had everyone asking, "Betty-- Why??" We talk about labels and what is so important or unimportant about them, as well as delve into Ali's sex life as a lesbian who sometimes will fuck a guy. We also talk about Ali ending her engagement, toxic relationships, hating how people post on Instagram, and so much more. Love How C*m? -- Follow Ali ...

30 Clean Up & Get Down (Caroline Solomon)

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For some, cleaning can be an aphrodisiac -- and those people are going to love this episode. But even those who aren't Monica Geller will benefit from the cleaning methods of home expert Caroline Solomon aka @Neat.Caroline who reminds us that organizing your space not only helps your daily life but it can help your sex life as well. Caroline and Remy share many tips and tricks for cleaning your home-- whether you are the type who likes to tidy a little every day or someone who likes to let stuff build up and do the whole house all at once. Love How C*m? -- Follow Caroline Follow / DM...

29 Cat Daddy (Mohanad Elshieky)

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Father of 5 (cats) and brilliant comedian Mohanad Elshieky joins Remy to talk about growing up in Libya, what sex education is like there, how/ why he ended up moving to the US, and the sexual culture shock that met him in Portland, Oregon. He also tells us about his new special "No Need To Address Me" and Remy asks the question, "Does owning cats make you a sexual deviant or is that just a study I read once?" Love How C*m? -- Follow Mohanad Follow / DM us at Support the podcast/ get extras on Check out our for extra info & merch!

28 Nice Guys Finish Last (Pete Lee)

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Do nice guys finish last-- or do they just let you finish first? Something to think about on this episode where we talk to hilarious comedian and resident nice guy Pete Lee! Pete tells us about how his first O experience led him to being a giver and "nice guy" in the bedroom-- and how he gave stellar comedian Nikki Glaser her first EVER orgasm in life. He also tells us about his serial monogamy and his current goal to casually hook up this year -- because he hasn't been single since he was 15. Love How C*m? -- Follow Pete Follow / DM us at Support the podcast/ get...

27 Did You Fin-Ish? (Blix Unami)

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We are joined for a wet and wild episode with the star of Netflix's MerPeople, professional mermaid Blix Unami (Erik Milligan). Blix tells us what mermaids really represent and takes us on an underwater adventure through their sex life, relationship history, and sexual goals. Blix also gives us all a lesson in how to build authenticity and positivity, discussing everything from achieving success in the face of naysayers to getting diagnosed with HIV and how to dive into thriving instead of merely saying "just keep swimming." TW: Verbal Abuse Love How C*m? -- Follow Blix Follow /...

26 Life of The Party (Carl Radke + Tawny Lara)

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Star of Bravo's Summer House Carl Radke and "Dry Humping" author Tawny Lara come on the pod to share their sobriety journeys and the challenges and triumphs of dating, sex and socializing without alcohol. We discuss how to "date yourself" in early sobriety, how long you should wait before dating another person, and how meaningful connections are made in sobriety. We discuss "partying"-- "what really IS it if drugs and alcohol are not involved?" and the need for new social spaces like Carl's upcoming "Soft Bar" to support sober individuals. Tawny shares her experience of quitting faking orgasms...

25 Eating Out (Jeremy Jacobowitz)

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Get your mind out of the gutter-- we're talking FOOD! 'BrunchBoys' internet foodie Jeremy Jacobowitz joins Remy to talk about food, sex, dating, the joys of ordering in and his favorite places to eat out. We discuss what foods to stay away from on a date, which foods are aphrodisiacs, and whether you can date someone with different dietary restrictions than yourself. Just like a great meal, this episode is perfect for sharing with a loved one. Love How C*m? -- Follow Jeremy Follow / DM us at Support the podcast/ get extras on Check out...

24 Sleep With Us! (Josh Gondelman and Sophia Wilson Pelton)

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This episode is all about the importance of our second favorite bedroom activity-- SLEEP! Stand up comedians Josh Gondelman and Sophia Wilson Pelton are two of the hosts of the podcast -- where funny people have easy going conversations that you can fall asleep to. Today they join Remy to talk sleep habits, dreams, sleep positive households vs. sleep negative and sex-- does it make you sleepy? It is quite the fun and exciting little slumber party, but if you fall asleep during this episode, we will NOT hold it against you. Love How C*m? -- Follow Josh and Sophia ...

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Hilarious internationally touring comedian and host of the We're Having Gay Sex podcast Ashley Gavin is back! And this time she is telling us about her open relationship; how she got into it, the rules her and her girlfriend have, and some hot hot hookups that she has had. She helps to educate Remy about different types of lesbians-- from a list that Remy found on a Reddit thread, advises our listeners on how to hit on women, and finally Remy and Ashley discuss difficult relationships leading to even more difficult breakups, and the passion and pain of sex with exes.

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