#529 Modern Dating: How To Do It Well
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Release Date: 08/12/2024
Children, Teens, & Sexual Abuse, #277
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What do you do when your child tells you something that changes everything? What constitutes abuse? And, when should you report it? This week, Juli sits down with trauma expert Dr. Debi Grebenik to talk about how parents can respond when a child has experienced sexual abuse. They discuss what signs to watch for, how trauma affects children, why empathy is more powerful than panic, and how parents can protect their kids while raising them with confidence—not fear. Guest: Follow-up Resources: Java #460, How to Have Mini and Many Conversations About Sexuality with Your Kids by...
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What God Revealed When I Finally Slowed Down, #617
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After eight weeks away, Juli is back—and she's sharing what really happened on her sabbatical. This week, Juli opens her journal and shares the biggest lessons God taught her about burnout, rest, leadership, and learning to live within the limits He designed for us. We also talk about why so many of us struggle to slow down, how Sabbath is more than a day off, and what it looks like to build rhythms of rest into everyday life. Plus, you’ll get a first look at an exciting new vision for Authentic Intimacy and what's ahead for the ministry. If you've been feeling exhausted, spiritually dry,...
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How to Make Better Decisions As a Couple, #616
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This week, Juli and her husband, Mike, share lessons they've learned about navigating disagreements, understanding each other's perspectives, avoiding manipulation, and seeking God's wisdom together. Whether you're newly married or decades into your relationship, this conversation will encourage you to build healthier patterns for making decisions as a team. Follow-up Resources: with Juli & Mike Slattery Cruise with Juli on the ! Save $600 per couple on regular cabins or $400 per couple on suites with code JAVAWITHJULI27. by Dr. Juli Slattery (blog) by Dr. Juli Slattery Follow...
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How Separation Can Strengthen Your Marriage, #121
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When you're on the brink of divorce, could separation save your marriage? This week, Juli sits down with Dr. Gary Chapman to hear how intentional separation can be an act of love rather than a sign of giving up. You’ll learn when separation may be appropriate, why outside counsel matters, and how hope can be rekindled (even in relationships that seem beyond repair). Whether you're personally facing a difficult marriage or walking alongside someone who is, this conversation offers wisdom, practical guidance, and a reminder that God is always in the business of redemption. Guest: ...
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4 Keys to Great Sex in Every Season, #615
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Great sex doesn’t happen by accident. It takes intentionality. This week, Juli shares four habits of couples who pursue sexual intimacy over a lifetime. From the busy years of raising children to the mundane of everyday life, navigating aging and redefining intimacy over time, they explore how you can pursue deeper connection through every stage of marriage. Co-host: Hannah Nitz We’d love to hear your thoughts about this conversation. to Authentic Intimacy and get a FREE copy of the new 25 Questions You're Afraid to Ask About Love, Sex, and Intimacy. ...
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Why Finding Love Feels Harder Than Ever, #614
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Why does dating feel so much harder than it used to? Is marriage even still worth it? This week, Juli and Dr. Brad Wilcox dive into the realities of modern dating, offering practical advice for navigating relationships with wisdom and confidence. They discuss everything from fear of commitment and unrealistic expectations to the importance of community, character, and shared faith. If you've ever wondered how to navigate today's dating culture, this conversation is for you. Guest: to Authentic Intimacy and get a FREE copy of the new 25 Questions You're Afraid to Ask...
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Why So Many Young People Feel Confused About Sexuality, #613
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The language of sexuality is changing rapidly, and many parents, pastors, and mentors feel overwhelmed trying to keep up. This week, Juli talks with Dr. Julia Sadusky about what's driving these changes, why so many young people are exploring new identity labels, and why you don’t have to toss your convictions out the window in order to stay connected to your kids. Guest: to Authentic Intimacy and get a FREE copy of the new 25 Questions You're Afraid to Ask About Love, Sex, and Intimacy. Follow-Up Resources: by Dr. Mark Yarhouse and Dr. Julia Sadusky by Juli Slattery (blog)...
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"Show It Off" or "Cover It Up": Messages That Shape Our Body Image, #381
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What messages have you been told about your body and your sexuality? This week, Juli sits down with her friends Dawn Jones and Danisa Suarez for a candid conversation about the unique experiences of Black, Latino, and White women when it comes to the messages they received about their sexuality. They touch on topics like body image, beauty standards, shame, and the pressure women feel to either hide or flaunt their sexuality. Guests: & to Authentic Intimacy and get a FREE copy of the new 25 Questions You're Afraid to Ask About Love, Sex, and Intimacy. We’d...
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How Your Story Shapes the Way You Approach Sex & Intimacy, #612
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What if the challenges in your sex life have less to do with sex and more to do with your story? This week, Juli talks with attachment expert Marc Cameron about how our earliest relationships shape the way we approach dating, marriage, and sexual intimacy. Whether you're struggling with emotional distance, differences in desire, recurring conflict, or simply want a deeper understanding of yourself and your spouse, this conversation is for you. Guest: to Authentic Intimacy and get a FREE copy of the new 25 Questions You're Afraid to Ask About Love, Sex, and Intimacy....
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Dismantling 3 Lies That Rob Our Intimacy With God, #611
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Juli sits down with bestselling author Gary Thomas for a conversation about some of the subtle lies Christians often believe without even realizing it. They’re tackling tough questions , like: Can family become an idol? Why do we still struggle with sin after coming to Christ? And what happens when loneliness and isolation become our normal? While this conversation isn't specifically about sexuality, how we answer these questions shapes the way we approach our relationships. Join us to explore how God's truth can lead us into greater freedom, stronger relationships, and deeper intimacy with...
info_outlineHow do you set the pace for a dating relationship? What kind of expectations should you have? How do you break up with someone without disrespecting them?
Kait and JJ Tomlin from Heart of Dating join Juli to help singles navigate the ups and downs of modern dating.
Guests: Kait and JJ Tomlin
Heart of Dating website: heartofdating.com
Heart of Dating Instagram: @heartofdating @kaitness @jjtomlin
Book: Thank You for Rejecting Me by Kait Warman Tomlin
Podcast: @HeartofDating
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