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The Power of Water & Awareness of Tricky Transitions

Journey With Me Through ADHD: A Podcast for Kids

Release Date: 05/18/2023

Your Feelings Are Real: But They Aren't always the Whole Story (RSD Series) show art Your Feelings Are Real: But They Aren't always the Whole Story (RSD Series)

Journey With Me Through ADHD: A Podcast for Kids

Big feelings can show up FAST! Especially for those of us with ADHD and Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD). In this episode, we will continue to explore this very important topic together. Bottom line... your feelings are always real and important...but the story your brain tells you in the moment, isn't always complete! Get ready to put your imagination cap on as we relate playing the thoughts in our head like a movie... if we fastforwarded to the end of the movie, we wouldn't have all of the information, so we would need to pause and go back to gather all of the info before coming to a...

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Name It to Tame It: Spotting RSD in the moment (RSD Series) show art Name It to Tame It: Spotting RSD in the moment (RSD Series)

Journey With Me Through ADHD: A Podcast for Kids

Bottom line, RSD can be one of the most painful parts of ADHD, so let's keep exploring how we can name it to tame it!! In this episode of our Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria series, you will learn how to recognize and start to name big feelings and pain points in the moment, especially when those feelings show up fast and feel overwhelming! To recap, RSD is when the brain reacts strongly and the body experience different intense feelings when experiencing different forms of rejection. It may be real, possible, or just something the brain is guessing, but the emotional response remains intense...

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Was That Rejection...or My Brain Guessing!? show art Was That Rejection...or My Brain Guessing!?

Journey With Me Through ADHD: A Podcast for Kids

Do you ever feel left out, ignored, or like someone doesn't like you? You feel it to your core, but not sure why or how to respond to it!? If so, you are not alone my friend!  In this episode, we are going to put on our investigator hats to solve a tricky mystery: Was that real rejection, or is my brain just guessing!? Our busy, colorful, ADHD brains tend to work super fast and try to fill in the blanks- especially in social situations with peers. If a friend doesn't text/respond back, a teacher gives a stern look or harsh tone, or someone laughs nearby, our brain might jump to...

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Why Rejection Feels SO Big: Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD) Series show art Why Rejection Feels SO Big: Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD) Series

Journey With Me Through ADHD: A Podcast for Kids

Are they mad at me? Did I do something wrong? They must hate me! I feel sick to my stomach (in response to a tone of voice) They don't think I'm good enough. What does that look mean? Do these narratives sound familar? If so, you are not alone... In this episode, I introduce this beast called "Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria" (RSD)- This is a common intense, even painful and overwhelming emotional experience when faced with internal, external, or percieved rejection.  We will stay creative and curious as we use the metaphor of a microphone and speaker to explore how your brain may be...

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You Are Not Too Much! Emotional Regulation Series show art You Are Not Too Much! Emotional Regulation Series

Journey With Me Through ADHD: A Podcast for Kids

YIKES! This last episode really hits home! "I'm too much" was a fixed thought that I ALWAYS struggled with growing up and still to this day it creeps in and I have to talk back to that false belief! Does "I am too much..." creep up on you too!?  In this final episode of this emotional regulation series, we focus on identity, confidence, and self-compassion for kids with ADHD and big feelings.  You were created for a beautiful purpose! Sometimes you hear that you are "too loud", "too sensitive", "too emotional", etc... This episode reframes those experiences and reminds you that...

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What Your Feelings Are Trying to Tell You? Emotional Regulation Series show art What Your Feelings Are Trying to Tell You? Emotional Regulation Series

Journey With Me Through ADHD: A Podcast for Kids

Did you know that your feelings are not your enemy!? I know sometimes it feels like they are! But in this episode, we will talk about how feelings are messengers that is giving you a signal that your mind and body may need help in some way.  In this episode, we will explore the idea of feelings being like mail being delivered to your brain and body. Every feeling carries a message that is trying to tell you something important. Feelings aren't good or bad, they are simply information.  We will look at what anger, worry, sadness and anxiety are trying to tell us and ideas of how we...

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Repair After the Storm of Emotional Dysregulation show art Repair After the Storm of Emotional Dysregulation

Journey With Me Through ADHD: A Podcast for Kids

Big emotions can feel like a tornado tearing through the house. Doors slam. Words fly. Feelings crash. But here is the truth: The storm is not the end of the story! In this episode, we talk about what happens after emotional dysreguation strikes- when the wind dies down and everyone is standing in the quiet. Because after every storm, we can rebuild.  What you'll take away from this episode: Why dysregulation isn't misbehavior- it's a nervous system overload Why repair and reset are an important next step. How to reconnect after everyone is regulated What a healthy apology sounds like...

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Tools for Your Big Feelings: Emotional Regulation Series show art Tools for Your Big Feelings: Emotional Regulation Series

Journey With Me Through ADHD: A Podcast for Kids

Episode focus: Practical ADHD friendly regulation tools!  Core message: Different tools work at different times and that's ok!  Do you have BIG feelings too!!? I know I do and all 4 of my own kiddos with ADHD do too! They all look a little different and show up at different times, but we can all agree that the term, "just calm down never has and never will work! Do you agree!?  The goal is learning how to REGULATE through using different tools in our toolbox!  In this episode, I will introduce the idea of builing a regulation toolbox- because not every tool fits every job!...

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Cooling Down Isn't the Same as Calming Down: Emotional Regulation Series show art Cooling Down Isn't the Same as Calming Down: Emotional Regulation Series

Journey With Me Through ADHD: A Podcast for Kids

Hello my fabulous friends! I have a super special treat for you in this episode as my daughter Evi, who also has ADHD and her friend join us to share the difference between cooling down and calming down, as well as how it shows up for them in their lives!  We will share the difference between cooling down= suppressing big, intense emotions. Where calming down is the process of regulation.  Your body has to feel safe before it's ready to think!  Pressure cooker analogy- When steam builds up, we let it out safely... Cooling down= holding feelings inside, forcing stillness, looks...

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Tantrums vs. Meltdowns: There is a HUGE difference- Emotional Regulation Series show art Tantrums vs. Meltdowns: There is a HUGE difference- Emotional Regulation Series

Journey With Me Through ADHD: A Podcast for Kids

Your body starts to tighten, your breath gets heavy, your mind is racing, senses are overwhelmed and your dysregulated emotions just burst... Sound familiar!? This is called a MELTDOWN...Your brain has had "too much" body is giving information that it needs HELP! It's when your brain is overloaded. This is not a misbehavior issue, it's a regulation struggle- a neurological response! So what is a TANTRUM then?  "I want this...I don't like that...you need to do what I want... give me that...NOW"= Desire for control leading to emotional outburst... It can be tricky to tell the difference as...

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Hey Everyone!! 

I have missed talking with you guys these last few weeks! I was on vacation in Mexico and brought back a validated nugget of knowledge that is helpful for our ADHD brains and I wanted to speak on how it can feel tricky to transition back into the swing of things when you've been away, your schedule is changed, or you just need to go from one task to another! I felt this a lot when I was trying to get back into my routine after returning from Mexico!

In this episode, you will hear me talk about all of the benefits of WATER! It's amazing calming tool right at our fingertips! Being by the ocean all week when I was away really gave me a sense of how truly calming that simple sound of water is! It was the most relaxed I have felt in years! That got me thinking...water is such a great tool for our ADHD brains in so many ways! Making sure you are well hydrated with water will reduce brain fog and even help with working memory and energy levels for productivity. If you live by any body of water and you feel dysregulated, you can make it a habit to take trips to physically feel the calming mind and body effects of simply being near water. If you don't live by a body of water, you can simply use the water in your home to splash your face when those emotions run high, or hop in the shower as a regulation technique and as an added bonus, showers can spark your brilliantly creative mind too. I get some of my best ideas in the shower! LOL! 

You'll also hear me talk about transitions in this episode, but we just scratch the surfact as next week we will dive deeper into this struggle! The first step is always to simply practice self-awareness of the struggle! This is a great conversation starter to investigate different areas of life, different environments, or even day to day task switching that feels extra hard sometimes. We need to identify before any growth can be made! 

Don't forget to check out the great program I will be running this summer! "Journey to Becoming Mom Again" is a program designed for mama's of kids with ADHD. I am on a mission to create a connected community of moms, where you can become more educated, empowered, and encouraged to understand your child's brain better, respond more appropriately and effectively to behaviors, and become their best advocate both at home and at school! Go to www.focusforwardadhd.com/journey to book a free consultation and see if this program would be right for you!

You can also visit my website www.katelynmabry.com to get on my email list (only one email each week;) check out my book, or reach out to me with a podcast episode request! I would love to hear from your kiddos too!! We are on this journey together!! Love you all!