402: Debra Silverman on How to Align with Your Soul’s Blueprint and Change Your Destiny
Release Date: 06/17/2025
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info_outline“You can evolve your destiny. That’s why we study astrology, to take the high road of your nature.”
What if the reason you're stuck, frustrated, or forcing life… isn’t because something’s wrong with you — but because you’re out of alignment with your soul’s true design?
In this powerful episode of Soul Talk, I’m joined by renowned astrologer, psychotherapist, and spiritual teacher Debra Silverman, author of I Don’t Believe in Astrology. Together, we explore how astrology isn’t about superstition or prediction — it’s about gaining deep permission to be who you were always meant to be.
Debra breaks down how your rising sign reveals the keys to your destiny, the real difference between fate and free will, and what happens when you ignore your soul’s contract. We talk about the signs of misalignment, why burnout and confusion are often spiritual wake-up calls, and how reconnecting with your unique energetic blueprint can unlock greater clarity, peace, and purpose.
This conversation will give you a radically compassionate lens to understand yourself and others. You’ll walk away with practical insights into how to stop chasing, forcing, and second-guessing—and instead start trusting your inner compass, living in sync with divine timing, and aligning with the life your soul intended.
If you’ve ever felt like you're doing everything “right” but something still feels off… this episode is for you.
Timestamps:
- (00:01:42) - Debra’s background and her new book: I Don’t Believe in Astrology.
- (00:03:30) - What is astrology, and how much of life is destined?
- (00:04:30) - Kute’s full moon birth chart reading live on air.
- (00:07:00) - Free will vs soul contract explained through the rising sign.
- (00:14:50) - Understanding the Saturn Return and its role in destiny.
- (00:19:50) - Navigating tragedy and suffering (Gaza, illness, injustice).
- (00:23:01) - Why some people succeed and others don’t, destiny vs discipline.
- (00:26:10) - How to activate your destiny line practically.
- (00:35:00) - Debra's magical story of meeting Sting and trusting intuition.
- (00:38:30) - Kute shares how intuition led him to meet his wife.
- (00:41:55) - If you feel lost: practical actions to realign with your soul.
- (00:43:55) - Debra’s honest astrological forecast for the future of humanity.
- (00:46:00) - Debra’s school and how you can learn to read your chart.
Some Questions I Ask:
- What exactly is astrology, and how much does it define our lives?
- Can you change your destiny, or is it fixed?
- How can someone know they’re on their soul’s path?
- Is suffering (like illness or global tragedy) predestined?
- What separates people who succeed from those who don’t?
- Can you shift your timeline?
- What role does discipline play in spiritual evolution?
In This Episode, You Will Learn:
- How your birth chart reveals the keys to your personality, purpose, and prosperity.
- Which parts of your life are divinely scripted and which are yours to shape with conscious intention.
- What is the sun, and how your sun and rising signs hold the secret to living with power, purpose, and peace.
- How to say yes to your divine path, even when it challenges logic or comfort.
- How consistency, gratitude, and integrity are key to activating your destiny and calling in your abundance.
- Grounded, practical tools to reconnect with your inner wisdom and open the flow of guidance.
- A real-world example of what happens when you trust the voice of your soul.
LINKS
DEBRA SILVERMAN’S URL: https://debrasilvermanastrology.com
Get in Touch:
- Email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com
- Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com
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