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SoulTalk with Kute Blackson
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SoulTalk with Kute Blackson
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SoulTalk with Kute Blackson
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424: Barnet Bain on How To Be A Friend ( In An Unfriendly World )
SoulTalk with Kute Blackson
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SoulTalk with Kute Blackson
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422: Annie Lalla on The Secrets To Love That No One Tells You About
SoulTalk with Kute Blackson
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info_outline"Asking a man with no arms to hold you, that’s what it’s like to expect love from someone who doesn’t know how."
What if the greatest block to love… isn’t your past, but the story you’ve been told about what love is supposed to be?
In this raw and revelatory episode of Soul Talk, I sit down with Arielle Ford—bestselling author and spiritual teacher—for a soul-stirring conversation about what it really means to love and be loved.
Together, we peel back the illusions that keep so many of us stuck in cycles of pain, confusion, or longing. From the myth that love should always feel magical, to the hard truths about emotional safety, forgiveness, and self-worth, Arielle shares relationship wisdom that cuts straight to the soul.
We also explore her re-released romantic spiritual thriller The Love Thief—and how fiction can sometimes reveal truth in ways real life can’t. This episode is a deep invitation to let go of the fantasies, release the old stories, and step into the kind of sacred partnership that’s built on truth, not just chemistry.
If you've ever felt disappointed in love, struggled to let go of betrayal, or wondered if your soulmate will ever arrive… this conversation will crack your heart open in the best possible way.
Tune in and discover the love your soul has been waiting for.
Timestamps:
- (00:03:42) - The biggest myth about love: “Love is not a feeling.”
- (00:05:07) - What to look for in a partner.
- (00:08:30) - The spiritual purpose of relationships and why it’s not intuitive.
- (00:13:09) - The “Aging U Curve” and what to expect at different life stages.
- (00:14:05) - Wabi-Sabi love and the toothpaste metaphor.
- (00:22:44) - How to heal from heartbreak and betrayal.
- (00:27:50) - The “Love Detox” method to get over toxic partners.
- (00:30:56) - Why healthy love might feel boring (and why that’s okay).
- (00:34:16) - Can infidelity be healed? When to stay or walk away.
- (00:36:36) - Arielle’s 3-minute emotional healing mirror practice.
- (00:42:21) - Rituals and touchpoints that keep love alive in long-term partnership.
Some Questions I Ask:
- What are the biggest myths we believe about love?
- How can someone heal from heartbreak?
- Can love exist without strong feelings or attraction?
- How do you know if someone is your soulmate?
- Is it ever possible to heal after betrayal or infidelity?
- How can we keep the spark alive in long-term relationships?
- What’s the line between attraction and emotional safety?
In This Episode, You Will Learn:
- Why real love is the gateway to lasting fulfillment, not fleeting feelings
- The surprising truth about emotional safety and how it fuels abundant relationships
- How to stop chasing chemistry and start choosing soul-aligned partnerships
- What Wabi-Sabi love teaches us about imperfect beauty and true connection
- A powerful self-forgiveness practice to reclaim your power and open to prosperity in love
- How to detox from heartbreak and raise your vibration for divine romance
- Simple rituals to reignite intimacy and create a foundation for lifelong joy.
LINKS
ARIELLE FORD’S URL: https://www.arielleford.com
PRE-ORDER ARIELLE FORD’S NEW BOOK: https://www.arielleford.com/the-love-thief/
ARIELLE FORD’S PREVIOUS SOUL TALK EPISODE: https://kuteblackson.com/special-exclusive-interview-with-best-selling-author-arielle-ford/
Get in Touch:
- Email me at kuteblackson@kuteblackson.com
- Visit my website: www.kuteblackson.com
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