An Interview with Dr. Tom Ascol
Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
In this episode, the Legacy Dads sit down with Dr. Tom Ascol to discuss the intersection of deep theology and daily fatherhood. As a seasoned pastor, author, and father, Tom brings a wealth of wisdom on what it means to lead a family with biblical clarity in an increasingly confused culture. We dive into the "Long Game" of parenting and why the fear of God is the ultimate antidote to the fears of this world. Connect with Tom Ascol on X: Instagram: @thomasascol
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Discipling through the years: the young adult era
Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
In this final episode of our four-part series, Dave and Dante tackle the "Great Release"—the pivotal transition from parenting by authority to leading through influence as your children enter young adulthood. Grounded in the joy of 3 John 1:4, we explore how to stay spiritually connected without becoming controlling, providing a roadmap for fathers whose children are navigating college, careers, or even seasons of doubt and deconstruction. Whether you’re learning to trust the foundation you’ve built or figuring out how to be a "safe harbor" during their recalibration, this episode...
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Discipling through the years: the teenage years
Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
The teenage years are often viewed with dread by parents, but for the Legacy Dad, they represent the most crucial season of discipleship. In this episode, Dave and Dante discuss how to move from being a "manager" of your child’s life to a "mentor" of their soul. It’s about anchoring them in biblical truth while providing the safe harbor they need to navigate identity, doubt, and independence. Connect With Us Join the Conversation: Have a story or a struggle you want to share? Email us at and . You can also find us on and .
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Discipling through the years: The Adolescent Stage
Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
In this episode of the Legacy Dads Podcast, Dave and Dante dive into the "Training Wheels" phase of fatherhood—discipling adolescents aged 8 to 12. This is a critical developmental window where children shift from simply absorbing their parents' beliefs to investigating the "why" behind them. The conversation centers on Proverbs 4:23, highlighting the father’s role in helping children "guard their hearts" as they begin to encounter more complex social and cultural pressures. Dave and Dante discuss the transition from providing "spiritual milk" to "solid food," offering practical strategies...
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Discipling through the years: The Toddler Stage
Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
Episode Summary Parenting a toddler feels like planting a garden in the middle of a windstorm—chaotic, messy, and loud. But it is also the most critical season for planting seeds that will last a lifetime. In this episode, Dave and Dante break down the "why" and "how" of discipling children ages 2–7. We’re moving away from the pressure of perfection and leaning into the beauty of simple, faithful rhythms that point little hearts toward their Creator. Key Scriptures Deuteronomy 6:6-7 – The mandate to weave faith into the fabric of everyday life. Matthew 18:3 – Why the simplicity...
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Why God's Plan for Discipleship is Important
Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
In this hard-hitting episode, Dave and Dante tackle a sobering question: Have churches in the West gotten discipleship wrong? The data is alarming. The mission is clear. And the stakes are generational. Jesus’ final command in Gospel of Matthew 28:19–20 wasn’t to build programs, grow attendance, or launch niche ministries. It was simple and direct: “Go therefore and make disciples…” So why are so few men being discipled? And what does that mean for our families, churches, and culture? The Discipleship Crisis 90 million men in America are NOT involved in discipleship Only 1...
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Fathers as Spiritual Leaders: Leaving a Legacy that Lasts
Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
In this episode, we dive deep into the generational mission of fatherhood. We move beyond the traditional metrics of "success"—finances and career—to explore the weight and beauty of building a spiritual legacy. It’s not about being a perfect theologian; it’s about being a present, consistent, and humble leader who treats God as a reality, not just a concept. Pick one spiritual habit to start this week. Don't overcomplicate it. Whether it’s praying before bed, reading one verse at dinner, or simply blessing your children with your words—start small, but start now. Remember: God...
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By Faith: Building a Legacy that Endures
Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
In this episode of the, we dive into Hebrews 11—often called the Hall of Faith—to explore what biblical faith really looks like and how it shapes the legacy we leave as men, husbands, and fathers. This chapter isn’t about flawless heroes; it’s about ordinary people who trusted God in extraordinary circumstances. Their faith wasn’t passive belief, but active obedience—often costly, uncomfortable, and unseen by the world. Hebrews 11 challenges modern dads to rethink success, security, and legacy. The men and women highlighted here lived with their eyes fixed on God’s promises...
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The Destruction of Disagreement
Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
Why does disagreement so quickly turn into outrage, mob mentality, or even violence in today’s culture? In this episode of the Legacy Dads Podcast, Dave and Dante examine the spiritual and relational roots behind the destruction of disagreement. From the loss of a shared moral center to identity-driven conflict and the rejection of authority, they explore what Scripture says about restraint, suffering, and peacemaking. This timely conversation challenges Christian fathers to model conviction with humility, truth with love, and strength under control in a fractured world. For more...
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The Sin of Feminism
Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
In this episode, Dave and Dante tackle one of the most challenging and controversial cultural issues facing the Church today: feminism and its downstream effects on gender, family, and Christian discipleship. Drawing from the work of Rosaria Butterfield, Dr. Joe Rigney, and Scripture, the conversation examines how feminist ideology—once framed as liberation—has ultimately collapsed under its own contradictions and found an unexpected refuge inside evangelical Christianity. This is not a conversation about hating women. It is a conversation about loving truth, protecting families, and...
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In this episode, Dave and Dante tackle one of the biggest cultural and spiritual questions facing Christian men today:
Should our faith influence our political decisions — or should religion stay out of politics?
A recent survey shared by Answers in Genesis found that over half of U.S. adults believe religion should not play a role in politics — and even among Christians, many agree.
But as men of faith, husbands, and fathers, we’re called to lead with integrity and consistency. This episode dives into what Scripture says about how faith should shape every area of life — from our homes to the public square.
🧠Main Takeaways
1. There is no such thing as neutrality.
Every person’s worldview shapes their decisions — including political ones. The question isn’t if faith influences politics, but whose faith or worldview does.
2. God’s rule covers every sphere.
“The earth is the Lord’s and the fullness thereof.” — Psalm 24:1 (ESV)
Faith isn’t something we switch off when we leave church. Christ’s authority extends into how we lead, vote, serve, and live publicly.
3. Compartmentalized faith is compromised faith.
When men separate their beliefs from their civic responsibility, we lose moral clarity and spiritual influence.
4. The Bible speaks to public life.
From the prophets confronting injustice to Paul appealing to the Roman government, Scripture models faithful engagement — not silence.
5. Engage with humility and courage.
Faith-driven men can influence culture without becoming combative or partisan. The goal isn’t political dominance — it’s faithful witness.
⚔️ Key Scriptures (ESV)
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Psalm 24:1 – God’s ownership of all creation.
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Matthew 28:18 – Christ’s authority in heaven and on earth.
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Philippians 3:20 – Our heavenly citizenship guiding our earthly conduct.
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1 Corinthians 16:13 – Stand firm in faith and strength.
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Galatians 6:9 – Don’t grow weary in doing good.
💬 Discussion Questions for Men’s Groups or Listeners
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Have you ever felt pressure to keep your faith “private”? Where does that come from?
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What would it look like for your Christian convictions to shape how you engage in civic life without becoming self-righteous or combative?
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How can we model Christlike engagement in a culture that increasingly rejects biblical values?
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What’s one practical way you can bring your faith into your local community this month?
🧠Practical Challenges for the Week
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Pray before you post or vote. Ask the Holy Spirit for wisdom and humility.
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Read Micah 6:8 and reflect on what it means to “do justice, love mercy, and walk humbly.”
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Engage in conversation, not confrontation. Invite dialogue with someone who disagrees with you.
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Model civility. Be the calm, faithful voice in a noisy, polarized world.
🙏 Legacy Challenge
“Faith that doesn’t shape how you live is faith that’s shrinking.”
Men — it’s time to bridge the gap between what we believe and how we live.
Be watchful. Stand firm. Act like men. Be strong.
And let your faith lead the way — even when the world tells you to sit down.
đź“š Resources Mentioned
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Article: Most U.S. Adults Think Religion Should Not Influence Politics (Answers in Genesis)
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Scriptures: Psalm 24:1, Philippians 3:20, Matthew 28:18, Galatians 6:9
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Book suggestion: Culture Shift by R. Albert Mohler Jr.
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Legacy Dads past episode: “Conviction Over Comfort: The Cost of Compromise"
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