Find Freedom from Alcohol with a Booze Vacation
Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
Release Date: 11/25/2025
Debunking Some Myths
Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
In this episode, Dave and Dante discuss some common myths around men and Christianity. If you have heard any of these, or have different ones that you've heard, how do you respond in a way that reflects God and honors His work in your life? Join the Conversation: Have a story or a struggle you want to share? Email us at and . You can also find us on and .
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Present, Not Perfect
Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
In this episode of the Legacy Dads Podcast, Dave and Dante unpack the transformative shift from performance-based fathering to presence-based fathering. Anchored in1 Thessalonians 2:11-12, the discussion reveals how Paul’s model of leadership—focused on exhorting, comforting, and imploring—requires active relational proximity rather than flawless execution. By challenging the myth that fathers must maintain a spotless record, the episode emphasizes that a child's character is shaped most profoundly when a dad owns his mistakes, seeks forgiveness, and actively chooses repair over pride....
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The Blessing You Never Received
Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
In this powerful episode of Legacy Dads, we confront a quiet pain carrying through generations of men: the ache for a father’s blessing that was never spoken. Grounded in the tragic desperation of Esau’s cry in Genesis 27 and the transformative redemption of Jacob blessing his sons in Genesis 48–49, "The Blessing You Never Got" explores why silent love is never enough. We unpack the four crucial ingredients of a biblical blessing—spoken, specific, future-shaping, and unconditional—and reveal how Jesus’s own identity was spoken before His public performance ever began. Whether you...
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Planting for the Unseen Generation
Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
In this episode of the Legacy Dads Podcast, hosts Dave and Dante challenge fathers to shift their focus from short-term parenting goals to building a multi-generational legacy that outlives them. Drawing from Proverbs 22:6 and Psalm 78:4-7, the episode reframes fatherhood not as a formula for guaranteed immediate outcomes, but as the intentional, long-term act of planting trees whose shade will only be enjoyed by future generations. By examining the biblical "relay race" of faith, the hosts emphasize that passing down values requires specific, simple, and repeatable mechanisms rather than just...
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The Eyes that are Watching
Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
In this episode of Legacy Dads, hosts Dave and Dante share a moving letter from a mother at Dave's church to highlight how a godly man's influence extends far beyond his own home. They emphasize that fatherless or deeply wounded children are constantly watching the men around them, looking for examples to piece together what healthy manhood actually looks like. By simply showing up with consistent integrity, patience, and humility in everyday moments, men can ease the burdens of single mothers and rewrite the concept of fatherhood for a child who has known only absence or abuse. Ultimately,...
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Ambassadors for Christ
Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
In this episode of the Legacy Dads Podcast, hosts Dave and Dante dive into 2 Corinthians 5:20 to redefine a father’s role from a burdened owner to a faithful ambassador of Christ. They tackle the heavy performance pressures, shifting identities, and daily frictions that modern men face, offering a liberating perspective: a dad’s authority is delegated, his identity is immutably fixed by the King, and his home is his embassy. By shifting from ownership to stewardship, Dave and Dante challenge fathers to relieve the pressure of perfection, anchor their souls in their divine title, and...
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Resolve Conflict and Find Peace and Hope with Adult Children with Dr. Kathy Koch
Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
In this episode of the Legacy Dads Podcast, hosts Dave and Dante sit down with Dr. Kathy Koch, founder of Celebrate Kids, to discuss the often-overlooked challenges of parenting adult children. Centered around her book, Resolve Conflict and Find Peace and Hope with Adult Children, the conversation addresses the "identity crisis" many fathers face when their role shifts from protector and fixer to a more hands-off, supportive influence. Dr. Koch offers practical, biblical strategies for releasing control, overcoming "dad guilt" from past mistakes, and navigating the tension between loving a...
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Ministry, Multiplication, and Intentional Fatherhood with Mac Lake
Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
In this episode of the Legacy Dads podcast, host Dante Girolimon and guest co-host Joe Svoboda are joined by leadership expert Mac Lake to discuss the intersection of ministry, multiplication, and intentional fatherhood. Drawing from his decades of experience and the framework of the "Leadership Pipeline," Lake shares how his philosophy evolved from a passion for church reproduction to a deep conviction that every father is called to be a "multiplier" in his own home. The conversation moves through the distinct seasons of parenting—from the high-energy early years of building family culture...
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An Interview with Dr. Tom Ascol
Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
In this episode, the Legacy Dads sit down with Dr. Tom Ascol to discuss the intersection of deep theology and daily fatherhood. As a seasoned pastor, author, and father, Tom brings a wealth of wisdom on what it means to lead a family with biblical clarity in an increasingly confused culture. We dive into the "Long Game" of parenting and why the fear of God is the ultimate antidote to the fears of this world. Connect with Tom Ascol on X: Instagram: @thomasascol
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Discipling through the years: the young adult era
Legacy Dads with Dave and Dante
In this final episode of our four-part series, Dave and Dante tackle the "Great Release"—the pivotal transition from parenting by authority to leading through influence as your children enter young adulthood. Grounded in the joy of 3 John 1:4, we explore how to stay spiritually connected without becoming controlling, providing a roadmap for fathers whose children are navigating college, careers, or even seasons of doubt and deconstruction. Whether you’re learning to trust the foundation you’ve built or figuring out how to be a "safe harbor" during their recalibration, this episode...
info_outlineIn this powerful conversation, Dave and Dante sit down with Clifford Stephan, founder of BoozeVacation.com, to talk about the journey of taking a “vacation” from drinking and how intentional breaks from alcohol can transform your faith, family life, health, and leadership.
Clifford shares his personal story, the moment he realized alcohol was holding him back, and why he built a community to help others explore life with less booze — or none at all. This episode encourages men to evaluate their habits, prioritize their spiritual and physical health, and lead their families with clarity and conviction.
Key Topics Discussed
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Clifford’s personal turning point and what inspired BoozeVacation.com
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The difference between quitting drinking and taking a healthy break
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Why alcohol has become so normalized in culture — and why men rarely talk about it
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How a drinking “vacation” can improve sleep, energy, mood, and relationships
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The spiritual implications of numbing, coping, and self-medicating
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Rebuilding discipline and mental resilience
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Being a better husband, father, and leader through sobriety or moderation
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How community and accountability fuel long-term success
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Clifford’s practical steps for anyone wanting to start a 30-day break
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What churches, men’s ministries, and small groups can do better in this area
Practical Takeaways for Men
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Identify if alcohol is filling a role that God should fill
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Notice the patterns: stress drinking, weekend “reward” cycles, or emotional escape
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Begin with a clear goal — “cut back,” “take a break,” or “quit”
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Invite one trusted brother into the process for accountability
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Replace old routines with healthier rhythms: exercise, prayer, hobbies, service
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Track how your body, mind, and spiritual life respond during the break
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Set boundaries around environments that trigger unhealthy habits
Scripture to Reflect On
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1 Corinthians 6:12 (ESV) – “All things are lawful for me,” but not all things are helpful.
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Ephesians 5:18 (ESV) – “Do not get drunk with wine… but be filled with the Spirit.”
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Proverbs 25:28 (ESV) – “A man without self-control is like a city broken into and left without walls.”
These verses guide men toward living with intentionality, discipline, and spiritual clarity.
About Clifford Stephan & Booze Vacation
Clifford is the founder of BoozeVacation.com, a platform designed to help individuals take meaningful breaks from alcohol through structured challenges, coaching, and community support. His mission is to empower people to rediscover their best selves and experience life without the haze and habits alcohol often brings.
Learn more at BoozeVacation.com.