Why learning to regulate your nervous system is just as important as thought work with Victoria Albina
Lessons from a Quitter
Victoria Albina (she/her) is a Master Certified Somatic Life Coach, UCSF-trained Family Nurse Practitioner and Breathwork Meditation Guide with a passion for helping humans socialized as women reconnect with their bodies and minds, so they can break free from codependency, perfectionism and people-pleasing and reclaim their joy. She is the host of the Feminist Wellness Podcast, is trained in Somatic Experiencing, holds a Masters degree in Public Health from Boston University School of Public Health and a BA in Latin American Studies from Oberlin College. Victoria has been working in...
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You picked your goal...now what?
Lessons from a Quitter
In this episode of Lessons from a Quitter, we conclude our series on goal-setting by tackling the often-overlooked yet critical step: what to do after setting your goal. I share actionable tips to break your goal into manageable steps, focus on short-term milestones, and embrace the inevitable challenges along the way. You'll learn why expecting inconsistency is key, how to avoid all-or-nothing thinking, and the importance of weekly evaluations to adapt and improve. If you're ready to build momentum and finally achieve your goals, this episode will provide the tools and mindset shifts you need...
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The side effects of your goals
Lessons from a Quitter
In this episode of Lessons from a Quitter, we explore the deeper purpose of goal-setting and how it transforms not just your life but those around you. It's not about checking boxes or achieving arbitrary milestones—it's about the ripple effects your growth creates. From setting an example for your family to overcoming fears of judgment, your goals help you become the person you aspire to be. We discuss why embracing challenges is essential for meaningful change and how to choose goals that align with your future self. Join us to redefine success and build a life you truly love.
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Only pick one goal
Lessons from a Quitter
This week on Lessons from a Quitter, we continue our three-part miniseries on redefining goal setting. We break down the pitfalls of traditional approaches to goals and advocate for focusing on just one priority per year. Learn how this strategy builds self-trust, minimizes overwhelm, and creates lasting habits. Whether you're juggling personal and professional ambitions or battling self-doubt, this episode will inspire you to set meaningful goals without sacrificing your well-being. Plus, hear more about the upcoming “Goals That Stick” workshop, a full-day event designed to help you...
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What people get wrong about goal setting
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In this episode of Lessons from a Quitter, we kick off a series on goal setting with a refreshing and practical perspective. As the year winds down, many feel pressure to set goals or New Year’s resolutions, often leading to burnout or shame spirals when life inevitably gets in the way. We explore the common misconceptions about goal setting, like tying self-worth to achievements or pursuing goals we don’t truly want. Instead, I emphasize the power of intentional decision-making, accepting inconsistency, and reframing challenges as expected parts of growth. Tune in to rethink your approach...
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Help! My family doesn't support my dreams!
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In this episode of Lessons from a Quitter, we dive into how to handle conversations about your dreams with loved ones who may not fully understand or support them. Often, we seek validation from family and friends, hoping they’ll give us the green light. But instead, we discuss how to set clear boundaries, identify what you really need from these conversations, and gain the courage to pursue your goals without waiting for others’ approval. Plus, I share a personal story on launching this very podcast, showing the impact of standing by your dreams even when others can't see your vision.
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How to Deal with the Election
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In this episode of Lessons from a Quitter, we tackle the overwhelming weight of the world and explore how to manage it without burning out. I discuss the importance of shifting our perspective on progress, finding empowerment in small, meaningful actions, and accepting that no one can "save the world" alone. Instead, I share ways to focus on what you can control, build a supportive community, and set realistic boundaries to protect your mental health. Join me as we redefine success—not through perfection or endless productivity, but through sustainable change and resilience in both life and...
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Help! I'm stuck!
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In this episode of Lessons from a Quitter, we tackle the feeling of being "stuck." So many of us feel paralyzed in jobs, relationships, or situations that no longer serve us, leaving us unsure of the path forward. Through some tough love, I guide listeners to understand that feeling "stuck" often stems from fearing the difficult choices ahead, not a lack of options. Together, we’ll explore reframing this mindset, identifying actionable steps, and the importance of making intentional decisions. By the end, you’ll have a framework to get "unstuck" and make choices that align with the life...
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Help! I procrastinate all the time
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In this episode of Lessons from a Quitter, we dive into the root causes of procrastination, especially when facing tasks that trigger boredom, frustration, or fear of failure. By recognizing the emotions behind avoidance, you can either push through the discomfort or change your mindset around the task. The episode offers practical strategies for managing your brain’s desire for dopamine, creating realistic breaks, and avoiding burnout. Whether you’re procrastinating at work or avoiding steps toward building your dream business, this episode helps you take control and find balance in your...
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Help! I don't have any passions
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In this episode of Lessons from a Quitter, we dive into the importance of experimenting and embracing curiosity when searching for your passion. Instead of forcing yourself into finding immediate fulfillment at work, allow yourself time to explore different interests and hobbies. Passions take time to develop, and it's okay if they don't align with your job. Your career can be the investor in your life, funding the pursuits that light you up outside of work. We’ll explore how letting go of pressure, creating boundaries, and being open to trying new things can help you rediscover joy and...
info_outlineIn this episode of Lessons from a Quitter, we dive into how to embrace being multi-passionate without feeling overwhelmed. You’ll learn that life is long, and there’s no need to rush to do everything at once. We explore the importance of choosing one thing to focus on now while allowing space for other passions later. It’s not about finding the “right” decision, but the next thing you want to explore. By reframing how you think about time, passion, and decision-making, you can create a career and life that align with your evolving interests.