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527: Therapist Explains The Hidden Reason You Still Don't Feel Good Enough in Midlife with Dr. Mcayla Sarno

Midlife Conversations with Natalie Jill: Fat Loss, Hormones & Health for Women Over 40

Release Date: 05/26/2026

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Midlife Conversations with Natalie Jill: Fat Loss, Hormones & Health for Women Over 40

Join us for a LIVE interactive fat loss workshop to continue this conversation:   What if everything you were taught about losing weight in your 20s and 30s is actually working against you now? I've spent almost 20 years coaching midlife women through fat loss, and I've lived every bit of it myself, ten years of perimenopause, post-menopause, injuries, autoimmune issues, and all. Today I'm done watching the internet sell midlife women quick fixes that were never built for our bodies. I'm laying out the five pillars I've seen actually work, in the order they matter, and the why behind each...

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Midlife Conversations with Natalie Jill: Fat Loss, Hormones & Health for Women Over 40

You guys know I am a HUGE believer in the right supplements and the right protocols. So when I tell you that today's episode is about the FOUNDATION underneath ALL of it, lean in. Modern scientists believe we are operating at only thirty-seven to forty percent of the mineral levels our bodies actually need. Minerals are the only nutrient class your body cannot make. They are the foundation under hormones, gut, sleep, energy, hair, and yes, even under the great supplements you are already taking. This is the conversation midlife women have been waiting for. I sat down with Caroline Alan,...

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Midlife Conversations with Natalie Jill: Fat Loss, Hormones & Health for Women Over 40

In this episode I share something I never thought I would talk about on this microphone: quantum physics. Not the wellness version. The actual physics. The kind that won the 2022 Nobel Prize. I walk you through why some of us feel things in our bodies that other people do not, why midlife makes us more sensitive (not less), how quantum entanglement actually works in plain English, and what happened when I flew to Germany and got my brain measured in a high-density EEG lab. The data is on paper. The lab is real. The results are mine. And I think every midlife woman who has ever been told she is...

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Midlife Conversations with Natalie Jill: Fat Loss, Hormones & Health for Women Over 40

What if the thing you've been calling a midlife crisis is actually the most important reckoning of your life? In this episode, Natalie sits down with Star Monroe, a self-identity expert and somatic psychotherapist who helps midlife women face the crisis underneath the crisis, the version of themselves they abandoned decades ago just to feel safe, loved, and chosen. Star opens up about her own unfiltered history, including addiction, two marriages, financial collapse, and the moment she finally understood that her self-destructive patterns were never about the substance itself. They were about...

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Midlife Conversations with Natalie Jill: Fat Loss, Hormones & Health for Women Over 40

Tired of choking down pills and wondering if any of it is showing up? Transdermal could be the answer. The Patch Method bypasses our digestion and liver completely. Super easy, just slap it on. Code NATALIEJILL for 20% off at  PLUS… DM "NatalieJill" to @the.patchmethod on Instagram and the first 50 people will receive a free patch kit of their choice plus four free samples. What if the drawer full of supplements you have been faithfully taking every morning is actually making your liver work harder without making you feel any better? If you have ever walked out of a functional medicine...

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Midlife Conversations with Natalie Jill: Fat Loss, Hormones & Health for Women Over 40

Don't miss the free live hydrogen workshop with Kashif. Save your seat at   What if every biohack you've tried has been missing the one piece that actually makes it work? Red light, peptides, cold plunges, NAD, wellness IVs. You've tried some of them. Some worked. Some didn't. And here's the maddening part: your friend is thriving on the same protocol that made you feel worse. That's not random, and you're not broken. There's a reason, and it's rooted in your unique biology in ways most practitioners never explain. In this episode, I sit down with Kashif Khan, founder of The DNA Company...

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If you have ever come back from Europe and thought, why do I feel BETTER over there, this episode is for you. Natalie and her husband Brooks just got back from one of the most incredible trips of their lives. Germany, Switzerland, Lake Como, Piedmont, Lake Lucerne, Basel and Heidelberg. And it was not just beautiful. It rearranged some things in their bodies that they want to break down for you. In this conversation we go through every stop on the route, why pasta in Italy feels different than bread in the US, why dairy in Europe digests so much better, the hormone shift Natalie had to make...

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Midlife Conversations with Natalie Jill: Fat Loss, Hormones & Health for Women Over 40

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We talk a lot on this show about supplements, hormones, food, sleep, and protocols. But there is a layer underneath all of that we have not gone deep on until now. Our beliefs. Who we think we are. Why we are here. And the quiet, unconscious story running the show every single day.

In this episode, Natalie sits down with her own therapist Mcayla Sarno, an EMDR specialist who has spent almost twenty years helping women get to the root of the beliefs that are silently shaping their bodies, their relationships, their purpose, and their health. Natalie also shares the very personal EMDR story that changed her life. The memory with her mom in the car. The belief she did not even know she was carrying. And what shifted when she finally looked at it through different eyes.

This is a real conversation about why so many of us hit midlife feeling lost, why the empty nest hits harder than anyone warned us, what is actually happening when we try to control everything, and why a therapist asking the right question will always do something ChatGPT cannot. We talk about how core beliefs form, how they show up in the body, and the work it takes to finally come home to who we have always been underneath all of it.

If you have been feeling like you have done all the outer work and something inside still is not clicking, this is the episode for you.

WE GO DEEP ON

•  What EMDR actually is and why it is not just for trauma

•  The difference between understanding something and integrating it

•  How core beliefs form and why they generalize to every area of our life

•  The connection between unresolved beliefs and chronic health issues

•  Why ChatGPT will never replace a real therapist asking the right question

•  The empty nest grief nobody talks about and the mini mourning of every version of our kids

•  Why control feels safe but never actually makes us safe (and what does)

•  How external validation becomes the trap of our 30s and 40s and breaks open in our 50s

•  The infant question that reframes everything: were you good enough the day you were born

•  Natalie's personal EMDR story, the car memory with her mom, and the belief she was carrying

•  Why 5-day intensives work when weekly therapy has not

•  "I always was. I already am." The reframe every midlife woman needs



Learn More About Mcayla Sarno

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Website ➜ http://drmcayla.com/ 

 

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