Pivot or Paralyze: The Business Owner's Reaction to Fear
Release Date: 10/04/2022
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Today on the podcast, I talk about how our first natural inclination with fear is to pivot or paralyze and how both can be detrimental to growth. I share why this happens and how you can start to shift from either position into intentional action that aligns with your vision and builds greater things.
So, if you’re someone in either of these two camps - or if you’re not sure, but experience a lot of fear - this episode is for you.