290: The 3 Boxes Men Put Women In (And How to Get Out of Them)
Release Date: 04/02/2025
(Matt Monday): Why the Best People Fall for Emotionally Unavailable Partners
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Why do amazing people—kind, self-aware, emotionally intelligent—keep falling for partners who can’t meet them halfway? In this week’s video, we uncover the five reasons behind this painful cycle and how to finally break free. From the scarcity mindset to the addictive highs and lows of unstable relationships, we’ll explore why we settle for less and how to rewrite the story we tell ourselves about love. If you’ve ever felt stuck between the chaos of unhealthy relationships and the “dullness” of safe ones, this video is for you. Learn how to break the patterns that keep you...
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(Rewind): How to STOP Thinking About Your Ex
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Have you ever found yourself stuck thinking about an ex who’s no longer in your life? It’s a painful trap, but one that so many of us fall into when we tie our worth to someone else’s story instead of our own. In this episode, we uncover the mindset shift that frees you from this cycle and helps you reclaim your confidence. By focusing on the one thing you truly own—yourself—you can start building a life that feels fulfilling, no matter what’s happening around you. If you’re ready to let go of what’s holding you back and invest in your own happiness, this episode is your guide....
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294: Why They Act Interested, Then Disappear... (The REAL Reason)
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Why do great dates sometimes lead to radio silence? In this new Love Life episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen dive into the mystery of why someone might pull away after what seemed like a perfect first (or second, or third) date. From the elusive “spark” to deeper compatibility issues, you’ll learn surprising reasons why people choose not to pursue another date—and how to avoid taking it personally. --- 💬 Feeling stuck knowing what to say? Download our free guide: → 9 ready-to-use messages that spark interest, build attraction, and...
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(Matt Monday): 7 Texts That Build Attraction and Leave Them Wanting More
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Have you ever sent a text and immediately wished you could take it back—or worse, been met with silence? In this week’s new video, I’m sharing 7 texts that not only greatly increase your chances of a reply, but also build real attraction. These aren’t your run-of-the-mill messages, either. They’re crafted to create tension and spark desire. Whether you’re tired of ghosting, lukewarm responses, or conversations that fizzle out, these texts will help you go from being someone they kind of like to someone they can’t stop thinking about. --- ►► Want Your # 1 Dating Problem...
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(Rewind): If You Hear THIS, You're About to Get Your Heart Broken
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
How do you know if someone’s really over their ex? Sometimes you meet a person who ticks all your boxes, but they also haven’t 100% gotten over the heartbreak of their last relationship. Of course, the first questions you ask yourself are: “Is this a huge red flag? Does it mean they are emotionally unavailable? Should I walk away?” This is a really important topic in today’s video, and my answer to this probably isn’t what you’d expect. Give it a watch to find out the signs you can look out for to discern whether someone is truly a bad bet or if they have real potential. ---...
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293: You Know They’re Wrong for You… So Why Can’t You Let Them Go?
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Are you stuck in a cycle of tolerating disrespect or avoiding tough conversations? In this episode of Love Life, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen dive into why so many of us stay in challenging relationships—whether romantic, familial, or platonic—for far too long, and how to reclaim your power by setting boundaries and addressing the issues. You’ll learn how to stop obsessing over someone else’s actions and start focusing on why you’re allowing it, plus practical tools for having those difficult conversations you’ve been avoiding. 🎯 Topics include: Why we ignore our...
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(Matt Monday): 5 Ways to Flirt When You’re Afraid They Won’t Reciprocate
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
How do you flirt without looking desperate? When you meet someone you’re into, it can feel like walking a tightrope—you want to show interest, but not come off as too eager. In this week’s episode, I share five subtle-yet-powerful flirting techniques that create attraction . . . without the fear of looking desperate or risking rejection. (Plus, I reveal a playful way my wife flirted with me early on that left a lasting impression—and it’s something you can easily try yourself.) --- ►► Want Your # 1 Dating Problem Solved Personally? Ask Matthew AI Your First Question Now at. . ....
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(Rewind): Want To Keep Their Attention? DO NOT CHASE; Do THIS Instead
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
We all know we won’t connect with everyone we meet . . . but one of the most frustrating situations we can find ourselves in is one where we feel an initial spark and a connection, but things just don’t seem to progress. And in the end, they end up fading as we feel a lack of momentum. Rather than giving in to our desire to double down on communication, there’s a simple shift we can make on a date that allows unique attraction to grow. And it’s the kind of thing that will leave them thinking of us long after the date has ended . . . If you’d like to learn what this ingredient is and...
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292: The Red Flags You SHOULD Be Paying Attention To
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
Are you walking away too fast—or staying when you shouldn’t? In this episode, Matthew Hussey shares an honest look at how we misread red flags in dating in an interview with Lisa Bilyeu (). You’ll learn how to spot real red flags vs. amber lights, when to pause instead of panic, and how the right relationship can help you heal. 🎯 Topics include: The difference between a red flag and an “amber light” 🚦 How fear and past hurt can make us overreact or shut down 😬 The danger of going into dating like an "assessor" rather than a present and open human being. Why empathy...
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(Matt Monday): 7 Essential Mindsets for Surviving Modern Dating
Love Life With Matthew Hussey
If you’ve ever found yourself saying, “I’m so done with dating,” this video is for you. Dating burnout is real, and it’s easy to see the process of finding love as a chore. But what if there was a way to make dating fun again? That’s right. Going out, dating, finding a meaningful connection—this can be a rewarding part of your life, regardless of whether you’re looking for a committed relationship. So if you need a refresh for your brain right now, here are 7 powerful mindsets that will make dating feel easier. --- ►► Want Your # 1 Dating Problem Solved...
info_outlineIn this episode, Matthew, Stephen, and Audrey dive into the “box theory”—the idea that people get placed into one of three boxes when dating: "Want to date," "Just for fun," or "Not interested." But is it really that simple? And can you change boxes over time?
We break down the psychology behind first impressions in dating, whether it's possible to shift from casual to committed, and what really makes someone decide we’re ‘relationship material’.
Topics Covered:
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What is the “3 Box Theory” of dating
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Can someone change the box they’re in—or are they stuck?
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Signs you’re being kept in the “casual” box and how to respond
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Why first impressions aren’t always final in attraction
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Emotional connection vs. chemistry: how to tell the difference
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Dating consistency, standards, and sexual boundaries
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How to communicate your relationship intentions without fear
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