13. The Problem with Being “Better Than Beautiful”
Release Date: 08/04/2020
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How good would it be if you could spend time with others and just be totally engaged in conversation, laugh confidently, ask questions, speak your mind, and just live in the moment? However, I know that sometimes it’s easier said than done that’s why in this episode, I get raw and real about conversations I’ve had with women this week on the courage to be vulnerable and truly ‘yourself’.
info_outlineBeauty standards have been around ever since humans roamed the planet but now, more than ever, the ideal of what it means to be beautiful has somehow been hyper-sexualized, as if to say that the end goal of a woman is to be sexually desirable, oh and by the way, somehow we need to make it look effortless too. No wonder why so many women are now choosing to focus on being “better than beautiful”; but what happens when we take this approach?
You don’t want to miss:
- Insight into a Princeton University study on how men reacted to seeing women in a bikini
- Why so many women are choosing not to show up to the beauty battle
- 5 ways that you can harness a holistic approach to beauty which integrates the inside and out
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- Download my free skincare guide: ‘A simple guide on nailing your Skincare Routine’
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- Other resources I mentioned in the episode: Women’s Forum Australia, Melinda Tankard Reist
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