Rule 091 | Don't Show Up To Your Anniversary Empty-handed
Release Date: 07/31/2019
Marriage Is Funny
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info_outlineThis week, we’re hashing out the meaning and the messes behind our recent anniversary gifts. Gerard makes a strong impression with something silky and then Jessie (accidentally) breaks his heart with a failed scavenger hunt.
Thanks to Grounded (our Marriage Summit!) for making this episode possible. ♥︎ Click right here to join us in Long Beach on Feb 20-22, 2020 and head to our site for more info about how to support the show!
QUICK BITES:
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We stand by our warning about Summer weddings (and backsweat).
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The backstory about our flower failure is blooming yet again.
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The list of anniversary materials is helpful when you’re searching for the perfect gift.
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Gerard treats Jessie to the most luxurious way to sleep. We talked about her lost pillowcase earlier this season and now thankfully the silk situation has been solved.
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Jessie nearly burns Gerard’s face off with a new habanero “exfoliator.”
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Gerard’s hot sauce habit is something that jessie always appreciates at dinner time.
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Jessie wonders if she inspired the recent suitcase shenanigans by griping about Gerard’s unclaimed denim jacket.
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Birthdays (or really any special occasion) can be sticky situations when you come from different frames of reference... We’ve discussed this in the past but it remains to be a challenge!
Trigger Questions:
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What is your fondest anniversary memory together?
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Have you ever had a “date night fail” or special occasion gone wrong?
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What is your favorite errand to run with your partner?