071: Celebrating Down Syndrome Awareness & Inclusion and Redefining Potential with Amy Julia Becker
Release Date: 10/17/2023
082: Bringing Peace & Joy to Families with Pediatric Cancer with Jenna Kmitch
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081: Insights on Communicating Effectively With Your Medical Team with Henry Rosh & Megan Keeler
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080: Discovering Unexpected Gifts in Times of Grief with Sara Ward
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079: The Glimpses of Joy You’ll Find When You Look For Them with Gina Prosch
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We’ve all experienced those days where it feels like we catch every red light on a busy commute and nothing seems to be going right. But what happens when we’re intentional about stopping to look for the small glimmers of joy, even in those heavier days? Allow me to introduce you to today’s guest to answer that question. Gina Prosch is a writer and teacher who has made it her mission to help children and adults find joy in even the most difficult days. Her childrens books are perfect for little ones who may be experiencing a harder season of life, and provide parents with inspiring ways...
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078: Offering Hope, Dignity and Holistic Care in Kenyan Hospice with Juli Boit
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Juli Boit is no stranger to helping those in need. She’s an author, family nurse practitioner, and international non-profit director of , dedicated to providing palliative care services to adults and children in western Kenya. After going through an adoption journey with her son Ryan, whose parents had recently passed, and consequently adopting his siblings, she found herself needing some help of her own when two of her kids required transplants far from their Kenyan home. These transformative experiences made Juli see her work through a different lens: that joy can be found in...
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077: Trauma & Anxiety: Going From “Why Me?” to “What Now?” with Sarah Falk
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Sarah Falk has received more than a few extremely scary cancer diagnoses in her life: the first one at only 17 years old (bone cancer) and the second at 40 years old (breast cancer). Naturally, she found herself asking, “Why Me”? But as you’ll hear, a better question to ask yourself is, “What now?” Sarah is a mom to 4 boys, a mental health therapist, an author, and 4-time cancer survivor. She has taken her traumatic experiences and used them as a source of deep understanding of the challenges these diagnoses come with. Having specialized in anxiety, panic, and trauma, her work is...
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076: Blooming Littles: Helping Parents and Caregivers Manage NICU Journeys with Katie Ross
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As today’s guest will tell you, “You become a NICU parent in the blink of an eye.” Katie Ross is the creator of and she’s doing incredible work in the NICU space as a certified neonatal occupational therapist. As a mom of a full-term NICU baby herself, she’s made it her mission to inform and empower parents by teaching them about the little things they can do that make a difference in their baby’s development and truly transform their NICU experience. By combining her doctorate with additional certifications, including neonatal massage and lactation support, her...
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075: Exploring Growth Through Grief and Choosing Faith Everyday with Emily Ann Adams
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How are parents meant to believe that the loss of a child is all part of God’s plan? Grief is a difficult journey for everyone, but it can feel especially challenging when it’s accompanied by a feeling of losing yourself or your faith. My guest today, Emily Ann Adams, had this exact experience after the passing of one of her twin boys, Aidan. Faced with three little children under 5 to look after, including Aidan’s brother Alan who was born at 32 weeks, Emily made a courageous decision; to dive deep into her grief to understand it better. In the process, she helped dozens of other...
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074: Finding Community and Letting Love In on a NICU Journey with Meg Helgeson
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One of the only certainties about having children is uncertainty: we can’t find out beforehand how a pregnancy or birth experience will go, or who our children will grow up and become. Add in a premature birth, an illness diagnosis, and a NICU stay to the mix, and it can lead to overwhelming worry and anxiety. My guest today, Meg Helgeson, is certainly no stranger to this. Her twin girls Ellie and Leah, who are now healthy 12-year-old girls, had to be flown to the NICU at Comer’s Children Hospital at only 5 days old to receive a meningitis diagnosis. Looking back, Meg is now able to share...
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073: Learning To Flex Your “Joy Muscle” with Bekah Bowman
Joy In The Journey
When a parent learns that their child has been diagnosed with a serious illness or condition, it’s difficult not to be consumed with worst case scenarios. But as Bekah Bowman will tell you, you have two choices: either allow your past and future to steal joy from your present, or embrace joy in the present moment, no matter what it looks like. And Bekah is no stranger to this concept: her two boys, Titus and Ely, were both affected by a rare genetic disease (CLN2) that leads to the quick loss of skills and eventual passing in childhood. After her oldest son passed away...
info_outlineDuring pregnancy, parents usually imagine what their child will be like and everything they’ll get to do together. You get excited about all the traditional milestones and look forward to experiencing this new reality.
But for parents who receive difficult news after the birth of their child, such as an unexpected Down Syndrome diagnosis, this reality is shattered in a matter of seconds. Even the most understanding of parents are faced with grieving and adjusting.
Amy Julia Becker (an award-winning writer and speaker on Disabilities and Family) experienced this first hand at the birth of her first child, Penny. Today, Amy Julia is sharing her family’s journey: from grieving the child they “thought” they’d be receiving, to adjusting to their new normal, to eventually realizing all the beautiful things that come from embracing our humanity as is.
In honor of Down Syndrome Awareness Month, Amy Julia shares useful tips on things she wished she knew when her daughter was diagnosed, and on navigating the nuances of raising a child with different abilities.
This episode is perfect for any parent who is currently feeling overwhelmed, alone, or nervous about their child’s disability and I hope you or someone you love and you get a ton of value from it.
Key Takeaways with Amy Julia Becker
- The importance of Down Syndrome Awareness Month.
- Navigating a Down Syndrome diagnosis.
- Grieving and adjusting to the reality of parenting a child with disabilities.
- Finding community through shared parenting experiences.
- Dealing with pain, guilt, and shame as a parent of a child with a disability.
- Validating the feelings of parents going through disability journeys.
- Looking beyond the tragedy and negativity surrounding disabilities.
- Hierarchy vs Mutuality: an inclusive approach to disabilities.
- How to support your partner through a difficult diagnosis.
- The growth opportunities in every challenge.
- Accepting (and embracing) the uniqueness of every diagnosis.
- Focusing on the present in order to find joy.
Show Notes:
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