Learning to Love After Trauma
Mind Ya Mental Podcast
In this Mailbag episode, Dr. Raquel Martin explains how to build love and connection after growing up unseen, unheard, or unloved, and why self-compassion is the first step.
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Grief Isn’t Something You Get Over
Mind Ya Mental Podcast
Grief isn’t linear, and it’s not something you just “get over.” Dr. Martin discusses the long arc of grief in Black communities, from personal loss to generational trauma, and how we can make space for its full expression.
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The Danger of Pray It Away Culture
Mind Ya Mental Podcast
When religious beliefs are used to silence pain, it’s called spiritual bypassing. Dr. Martin discusses how Black faith spaces can hold both healing and harm, and why therapy and faith can coexist.
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Black Kids Are Not Little Adults
Mind Ya Mental Podcast
From schools to home life, Black children are often denied the innocence and support others receive. Dr. Martin explores how adultification harms mental health and how reparenting can start the healing process.
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Burnout From Performing Blackness
Mind Ya Mental Podcast
What happens when being "Black enough" becomes a performance? Dr. Martin unpacks the mental health cost of masking, code-switching, and respectability politics, and why reclaiming your identity is an act of liberation.
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Why Respect Beats Obedience in Parenting
Mind Ya Mental Podcast
Many Black families parent from a place of fear, shaped by generations of trauma. Dr. Martin explores how shifting from obedience to respect-based parenting can break harmful cycles and nurture emotional resilience in kids.
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Black Youth Suicide Crisis
Mind Ya Mental Podcast
Black youth suicide rates have surged over 50% in recent years. In this episode, Dr. Raquel Martin debunks the myth that Black people don’t die by suicide and explores the impact of racial trauma, stigma, and silence in families and schools.
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Healing Trauma, ADHD & Hormones, and Boundaries
Mind Ya Mental Podcast
From trauma healing to ADHD and hormonal changes, Dr. Raquel Martin breaks down listener questions and explains why strong boundaries protect your mental health.
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Navigating the Complexities of Couples Therapy ft Kristen Feemster
Mind Ya Mental Podcast
In this conversation, Kristen and Dr. Raquel Martin discuss the intricacies of couples therapy, the challenges of organizing group therapy, and the importance of understanding the roles and boundaries of therapists. They explore misconceptions that clients may have about therapy, the significance of individual therapy alongside couples work, and the dynamics of family therapy. The discussion emphasizes the need for clear communication and the therapist's role in navigating complex relationship issues. In this conversation, Dr. Raquel Martin and Kristen explore the complexities of...
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Authenticity and Legacy In Business Ft Fawn Weaver
Mind Ya Mental Podcast
In this engaging conversation, Dr. Raquel Martin interviews Fawn Weaver, exploring her journey as an entrepreneur, the impact of her book, and her unique perspective on introversion and community. They delve into the significance of Fawn's work with Uncle Nearest, the misconceptions surrounding imposter syndrome, and the importance of self-education. Fawn shares her experiences with isolation, leadership, and the power of storytelling in preserving history. In this engaging conversation, Fawn Weaver and Dr. Raquel Martin explore the themes of purpose, resilience, and authenticity in...
info_outlineDr. Kojo Sarfo discusses his experience as a mental health practitioner and content creator on social media, focusing on topics such as ADHD, autism, bipolar disorder, depression, trauma, and thought disorders. He emphasizes the importance of providing accurate and relatable information in a fun and engaging way. Dr. Sarfo also shares his personal experience with ADHD and the challenges of being an entrepreneur. He highlights the need to break down complex concepts and deliver content in bite-sized, easily understandable pieces. The conversation touches on the impact of late ADHD diagnoses and the sense of grief and missed opportunities that can come with it. The conversation covers various topics related to ADHD, including medication, parenting, common misconceptions, communication, and accommodations. Dr. Raquel Martin shares her experiences as a neuropsychologist and highlights the importance of understanding and supporting individuals with ADHD. Kojo Sarfo emphasizes the need for open communication and dispels myths surrounding ADHD. They discuss the impact of ADHD on relationships and the importance of getting on the same page. The conversation also touches on the stigma surrounding mental health and the need for more education and awareness. In this conversation, Dr. Raquel Martin and Kojo Sarfo discuss the importance of educating people on how to consume information and navigate social media. They emphasize the need for individuals to challenge and question the content they come across, rather than blindly accepting it. They also highlight the significance of setting boundaries and advocating for oneself in order to maintain good mental health. The conversation touches on the power of direct communication, the impact of projection, and the importance of self-reflection. Kojo shares details about his upcoming comedy shows and where to find him on social media.
Takeaways
- Providing accurate and relatable information about mental health on social media is crucial
- Content creators should strive to make their content fun and engaging to capture and maintain the audience's attention
- Breaking down complex concepts into bite-sized, easily understandable pieces is essential for effective communication
- Late diagnoses of ADHD can lead to a sense of grief and missed opportunities
- There is a need for more representation of black mental health professionals in the content creation space Medication for ADHD should be approached with open communication and consent, especially when it involves children.
Bio
Dr. Kojo Sarfo, DNP, PMHNP-BC, is a multifaceted professional based in Los Angeles, CA, known for his roles as a comedian, actor, content creator, and writer. Leveraging his background as a psychotherapist and mental health nurse practitioner, he utilizes his platform with over 3.5 million followers and 20 million monthly views on social media to promote mental health awareness through engaging content. Dr. Kojo is the author of “Feeling Good” and hosts "Late Night w/ Dr. Kojo," a popular weekly live show.
Under his media company, Sarfo Entertainment, Dr. Kojo has produced acclaimed short films and documentaries, including the impactful "Strength In Numbers." He has collaborated with notable brands such as CVS Pharmacy, GoodRx, and Cherokee Uniforms, and has partnered with The Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences. Dr. Kojo is actively involved in the White House Office of Public Engagement’s Healthcare Leaders in Social Media Roundtable and is a regular contributor to ABC7's "Mental Health Mondays."
In addition to his media ventures, Dr. Kojo hosts "Dr. Kojo & Friends," a monthly comedy show in Hollywood, CA, blending his talents in comedy with his commitment to mental health advocacy and community engagement.