Navigating the Complexities of Couples Therapy ft Kristen Feemster
Release Date: 11/19/2024
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Navigating the Complexities of Couples Therapy ft Kristen Feemster
Mind Ya Mental Podcast
In this conversation, Kristen and Dr. Raquel Martin discuss the intricacies of couples therapy, the challenges of organizing group therapy, and the importance of understanding the roles and boundaries of therapists. They explore misconceptions that clients may have about therapy, the significance of individual therapy alongside couples work, and the dynamics of family therapy. The discussion emphasizes the need for clear communication and the therapist's role in navigating complex relationship issues. In this conversation, Dr. Raquel Martin and Kristen explore the complexities of...
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Authenticity and Legacy In Business Ft Fawn Weaver
Mind Ya Mental Podcast
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info_outlineIn this conversation, Kristen and Dr. Raquel Martin discuss the intricacies of couples therapy, the challenges of organizing group therapy, and the importance of understanding the roles and boundaries of therapists. They explore misconceptions that clients may have about therapy, the significance of individual therapy alongside couples work, and the dynamics of family therapy. The discussion emphasizes the need for clear communication and the therapist's role in navigating complex relationship issues. In this conversation, Dr. Raquel Martin and Kristen explore the complexities of relationships, the impact of family dynamics on self-perception, and the nuances of addiction and emotional coping mechanisms. They discuss the importance of setting boundaries in relationships, the skills required for maintaining friendships, and how childhood experiences shape adult behaviors. The dialogue also delves into the relationship individuals have with food and substances, emphasizing the need for healthier coping strategies and the societal pressures that contribute to unhealthy habits. In this conversation, Kristen and Dr. Raquel Martin explore the multifaceted nature of fitness, the mindset of athletes, and the importance of community in personal growth. They discuss the differences between coaching and therapy, emphasizing the need for action-oriented approaches in coaching while allowing for deeper emotional exploration in therapy. The conversation also touches on building healthy relationships, recognizing red and green flags, and the significance of accountability in personal development.
Takeaways
- The organization of group therapy requires significant funding and planning.
- Couples therapy is distinct from individual therapy and requires specialized training.
- Misconceptions about therapy often lead clients to misunderstand the therapist's role.
- Therapists should maintain clear boundaries between individual and couples therapy.
- It's essential for therapists to support clients in having difficult conversations.
- Understanding family dynamics is crucial in couples therapy.
- Clients may feel apprehensive about therapy based on gender dynamics.
- Therapists should not act as referees in couples therapy sessions.
- Individual therapy can complement couples therapy for better outcomes.
Bio
Kristen is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, wellness coach and the owner of Believe. Be Free. Be Well. PLLC (B3). Her passion for mental and physical wellness are at the cornerstone of her work helping others begin again and move forward - mind, body, and spirit.