No-Rope Bondage, Why Get Involved In The BDSM Community? and Sex Workers and Love
Release Date: 02/22/2010
Twisted Monk Talks About Responding To Recent Fetlife Controversy
Mistress Matisse's Podcast
Twisted Monk Talks About Responding To Recent Fetlife Controversy
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Mistress Matisse and Twisted Monk Return!
Mistress Matisse's Podcast
This is an informal test podcast, about 12 minutes. Monk and I talk about one time when I walked in on him when he was getting ready for a BDSM session in my space, and the things were not...quite what I expected. #sexwork #BDSM
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He Said/She Said
Mistress Matisse's Podcast
Twisted Monk and I read a letter from someone who wants her boyfriend to have a two-man threesome with her. He refuses to do so, she wants advice on how to change his mind.
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Altoids and Listerine Breath Strips
Mistress Matisse's Podcast
BDSM techniques, in today’s new podcast: Monk and I talk about putting Altoids mints and Listerine Breath Strips in female pink parts. Naturally, I talk some about boy bits as well. Plus, why you’ll want some milk on hand for this type of play. About nine minutes, not work safe!
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Escorts and Strippers: The Sharks and The Jets?
Mistress Matisse's Podcast
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The New Young Dominants
Mistress Matisse's Podcast
In this episode, Monk and I briefly discuss how the Zombie Apocalypse would affect my diet Mountain Dew consumption. A letter from a dominant woman who feels nervous about her scenes. Key point: she’s eighteen years old. How should a young kinky person build confidence?
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Baby Steps In Polyamory
Mistress Matisse's Podcast
In this podcast, Monk and I riff about phallic microphones and then read and discuss a letter from a reader pondering how to begin a polyamorous relationship. How do you treat the other significant others?
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Cut The Ties: Your Kink and Your Parents
Mistress Matisse's Podcast
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Quick and Dirty Podcast 2: Custom Clothing and How Mistress Matisse Gets Good Service
Mistress Matisse's Podcast
TwistedMonk and I recorded what I am calling a "Quick and Dirty" podcast
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Poetry And Kink
Mistress Matisse's Podcast
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First of all, I was not playing with my nipple while we were recording, all right? Let the record show. The bomb shelter we’re doing these things in is freezing cold, so I was actually wearing a leather jacket. A motorcycle-style jacket, so that’s two layers of leather over my chest. You could not have found my nipple with a sonogram. That’s just Monk being silly.
Our first question is a letter from someone who asks what to do when you’re caught in a sexy, kinky situation and you want to do bondage, but you have no rope? Monk and I free associate about improvised bondage equipment. (We did not use the microphone cables for bondage though. The sound guys frown on that.)
Then a BDSM newcomer asks: explain to me why I should get involved with the BDSM community? The short answer is: they’ll teach you things you might not otherwise know, and they’ll be support for you when things are tough.
Lastly, a sex worker asks a question about emotional relationships with clients. It’s a nuanced issue, and it underlines the fact one really cannot generalize about how sex workers feel about what they do. All the experiences are equally valid, but we’re different. I get sort of uncharacteristically woo-woo about my feeeeeeeeelings in this one, but the take-away quote is: “If you hate your clients, you’ll hate yourself.”