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5 Signs of a Cheating Woman

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Release Date: 08/06/2022

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5 Signs of a Cheating Woman

Karen is just an inch away from being ousted by her husband's best friend who is also a co-worker.

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He suspects that the rumors floating around work about the dude she hangs out with for lunch is true.

 

What’s the rumor?

 

Well… the rumor is that they have been going to eat something else during lunch and not food.

 

I know why you are here; you are wondering if your woman is cheating on you.

 

That’s sad!

 

Not the part where you want answers, but the fact that you are in this position to even have to question the loyalty and faithfulness of your woman.

 

I can only imagine what you are going through because trust can be extremely difficult to build back in marriage or relationship.

 

It’s damn near impossible but it’s possible. Never mind what all the lames are saying on the internet and social media these days.

 

Projection is at an all time high.

 

I am sure there are over-exhausted list of signs of a cheating woman out there designed to scare the sh*t out of you.

 

Trust me… it’s not that deep. After this, your fear will disappear.

 

We are going to spell out 5 signs of a cheating woman for you in the next few short minutes.

 

But before that…

 

What is Cheating?

 

LOLA: Without some form of agreement between two people to some code of conduct or standard, there is no such thing as cheating.

 

Cheating is what happens when one person steps outside of the code they agreed to with another person. 

 

Let’s keep it simple.  If you couldn’t share the full nature of the relationship you have with another person with your partner, it’s probably cheating.

 

But…

 

Who is a Cheating Woman?

 

Like you said, a cheating woman keeps a relationship she wouldn’t necessarily be comfortable sharing the details of with her partner or husband.

 

It doesn’t matter if physical intercourse was ever involved or not. If not yet, it’s only a matter of time anyway.

 

That’s true. So there are… 

 

2 Main Types of Cheating

  1. Emotional Cheating and
  2. Physical Cheating

 

What is Emotional Cheating?

 

Whenever a woman keeps a relationship with another person who fills emotional void for her in romantic way even if there is no sexual intercourse, this is emotional cheating.

 

One trend we’ve seen is that women who participate in this bad behavior tend to do it with some types of blast from the past; maybe an ex.

 

This type of cheating actually feels worse to the victim because you’ll never know what happened.

 

None of the types of cheating feels good to a victim of infidelity. From a feeling standpoint… speaking as a man… the last thing I expect is for my woman to entertain romantic attention from another man.

 

I am sure women will say the same thing.

 

So what about…

 

Physical Cheating

 

LOLA: This occurs when physical intimacy has occurred between a cheating woman and another man.

 

Let's dive through the 5 signs you should look out for. But I have to give you a quick…

 

Warning: Overreaction and directly querying your woman if you notice these signs will backfire and make matters worse for you personally.

 

 

Sign #5 - She hangs out on the other side of the house

 

There is nothing wrong with a healthy space between romantic partners because distance does make the heart fonder.  But the point and ideal is that she can't wait to get back with you whenever there is space.

 

If she is actively and consistently fighting for space from you in the same house, it could be a sign of cheating.  More importantly, it's a sign of disconnection and the beginning of eventually cheating.

 

 

Sign #4 - She dresses very sexy but is often not in the mood for intimacy.

 

Typically, when a woman is going through it without necessarily cheating, she also does not feel sexy.  But women can eventually get to a stage where she is enjoying attention outside of the relationship.

 

She would then do more to continue to attract such attention.  If this correlates with a phase when she doesn't want to be intimate with you as a partner or husband, that could be a sign of a cheating woman.

 

Not only could she be enjoying some type of value for staying with you, she could be actively cheating you out of your freedom to go find happiness somewhere else. 

 

 

Sign #3 - She spends up to an hour with her phone in the bathroom

 

Are you noticing a pattern here?  She can't wait to spend time away from you with respect to engaging other people... and yes potentially romantically.

 

She may still be in a phase where she is fantasizing about the idea of being with another person so she entertains long conversations by text message with an emotional tampon on the side; emotional cheating.

 

 

Sign #2 - She calls you by another dude’s name in bed.

 

Yea... you never know how far these types of fantasies can go.  Again, this could be a sign of physical cheating or it could very much still be in the fantasy stage.

 

The flip side of this is that this is a sign of an emotional void being filled.

 

 

Sign #1 - She panics whenever she leaves her phone behind. 

 

This sign right here clearly shows that she is hiding something.  Like we said earlier, cheating is as simple as engaging in romantic activities with someone outside of your partner even if it is purely... virtually... a.k.a emotionally.

 

If you've noticed this to be a consistent behavior, it should be a concern for you.  It's not a guarantee that she is cheating but she sure is hiding something.  

 

Could she be hiding details about a surprise party for you?

 

I'm going to leave you with this warning again.  Overreaction and directly querying your woman if you notice these signs will backfire and make matters worse for you personally.

 

Instead, engage a personal, individual and wise counsel first.