SEXLESS MARRIAGE 🤦🏾‍♂️ Menopause & NOT Wanting To Be Touched

Hey there, everyone! Welcome back to our channel. Today, we've got a topic that's been buzzing in the comments section – the connection between menopause, intimacy, and its impact on marriage. You asked, and we're here to discuss. But first, let's dive into some intriguing comments from our viewers, Gregory and Deshaun, on our previous video "Is Sexless Marriage Grounds for Divorce in the Bible?" Stick around, because we're about to have a heart-to-heart about this important issue.

--> READ THE BLOG POST HERE
https://lolaandola.com/menopause-and-not-wanting-to-be-touched

 

--> WATCH VIDEO VERSION HERE
https://youtu.be/Wd0keEKYFoU

 

Gregory's Comment: "My wife, once she's gone through menopause, doesn't want to be intimate with me. To me, it sounds like an excuse. I've heard about older women still having sex in their old age."

Deshaun's Comment: In answering the question of "if sexless marriage is grounds for divorce in the bible? She says... "Most definitely , and it’s a two-way street. I just left a 12-year sex-less marriage. It was the most humiliating, dehumanizing experience ever!"

We'll be addressing these insightful comments in just a moment. So, grab a cozy spot, because we're about to have a candid and informative discussion about the effects of menopause on intimacy and relationships. Let's jump in!

Alright, let's start by understanding what menopause really is.  Menopause is a natural phase in a woman's life, signaling the end of her reproductive years. During this time, the ovaries gradually produce fewer hormones, leading to the cessation of menstrual periods. Usually occurring between 45 and 55, menopause brings along various changes – not just physically, but emotionally too.

Now, let's review what exactly a sexless marriage is.  A sexless marriage is generally defined as a relationship where couples have minimal or no sexual activity for an extended period. Keep in mind, what's considered "sexless" can vary from couple to couple, depending on individual preferences and needs.  But that's a tricky definition too.  Let me explain.

If you or (not and)... or your partner is feeling disconnected in this department, it is a sign to address the situation.  Feeling like a detective uncovering the emotional side of menopause? I've got you covered.

Gregory's comment got us thinking. Menopause doesn't just bring physical changes; it can also stir up emotions. Like those teenage mood swings, menopause can lead to shifts in libido and self-perception. Hormonal changes, body image concerns, and self-confidence matters can all play a part in the mix.

So, how do you navigate a sexless marriage after 60? Let's talk solutions!  Deshaun's candid experience reminds us that it's no walk in the park. Communication is key. Open, respectful conversations about needs and concerns (though easier said than done) can bridge the gap. Seeking professional guidance is also a great step to tackle this tough phase together; you will need the support--trust me!

Now, let's talk about the elephant in the room – how does a sexless marriage affect husbands and wives?  Just like the effect on wives, a sexless marriage can have a profound impact on husbands too.

Emotional distress, self-esteem issues, communication breakdown, and doubts about connection – husbands can experience these, plus potential effects on their mental and physical health. It's a reminder that this isn't a one-sided journey as Deshaun mentioned in her comment.

Feeling the need to reignite the spark after menopause? We've got some tips for you.  Gregory's concern about post-menopause intimacy isn't uncommon. Remember, it's not just about physical stimulation. Emotional connection, making your partner feel desired – these are essential. Exploring new forms of intimacy, like focused touch and romantic gestures, can be a game-changer.

Deshaun's experience highlights the importance of both partners engaging self awareness and keeping the flame alive. From surprising date nights to exploring fantasies, there's a world of ways to spice up your married life. Communication, experimentation, and a sprinkle of your own special charm – it's all in the mix!

To all our fantastic viewers, and especially, Gregory and Deshaun, thank you for sharing your thoughts. You've opened up a crucial dialogue about intimacy, menopause, and marriage.  Remember, every relationship is a unique journey. Patience, understanding, and communication are your allies. Don't compare your path to others'. Seek guidance ... You need the support when your personal emotions are engaged, and always remember – the heart of a fulfilling marriage is built on emotional connection, respect, and genuine care for one another.

That's it for today's chat! Don't forget to hit that like button, share and subscribe for more insightful discussions. If you enjoyed this video, you will love the one that just popped up on the screen right here.  Until next time, keep those conversations going, and take care!