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20 Signs Your Marriage is FALLING APART (4 Flags and 16 Tips)

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Release Date: 10/05/2023

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Your marriage is falling apart? We get it—life can throw curve-balls, and sometimes your once rock-solid marriage can start feeling like it's on shaky ground. 

It's a tough situation to face, and it can feel overwhelming when your marriage is seemingly falling apart. Whether it's due to a change in lifestyle, the arrival of a new baby, or other reasons, you're not alone in this journey.

So, your marriage is going through a rough patch, and it feels like you're drifting further away from your partner. 

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Maybe it's because your lifestyle has taken a significant turn, and suddenly you're on different paths. 

Or perhaps, the beautiful chaos that comes with a new baby has shifted the dynamics of your relationship.

Whatever the reason, it's essential to remember that many couples face similar challenges.

Most people would just find other people going through the same misery. 

And you know what they say; misery loves company and therefore your feelings are confirmed.

Then it starts to feel as though this is going on everywhere and all of it stems from wickedness.

There are many innocent reasons; let's get into it.

One of the common reasons for a marriage hitting rocky shores is a significant change in lifestyle. 

It might be a demanding job, relocation to a new place, or even a newfound passion that has shifted your focus. 

Sometimes, these changes can create a gap between you and your partner, making it feel like you're drifting apart.

Tip #1: Communication is Key (Heard That Before?): 

Hear me out.  Everyone advises you to talk openly and honestly with your partner about the changes and how they're affecting your relationship.  I know you have probably tried and that failed…

Try this.  Leading with an intention to understand your partner's needs and concerns is crucial.

Tip #2: Schedule Quality Time

Make an effort to set aside quality time for your partner amidst the busyness of life. Don't wait for them to think about it first.  Try not to wait for your partner for everything.  You have the power to influence what you want.

It could be a regular date night or even a weekend getaway to reconnect.

Tip #3: Welcoming a New Member: The Baby Factor

Ah, the beautiful chaos of parenthood! 

The arrival of a baby is undoubtedly a joyous occasion, but it can also be a significant strain on a marriage. 

The shift in focus from each other to the needs of the baby can sometimes lead to a feeling of being neglected or disconnected from your partner.

Tip #4: Teamwork 

Approach parenting as a team. But don't just focus on competitive sharing of responsibilities.  Help your partner physically and emotionally in this new phase of life.

Maybe your partner needs you to physically help to nurture the new bundle.  But also, maybe your partner need you to emotionally help by reminding them kindly how you feel when you operate as a team.

Tip #5: Stay Connected: 

Despite the demands of parenting, make an effort to create quality time for your partner even if it's just a quiet evening at home after the baby is asleep.

Tip #6: Seeking Solace in Faith

For those who have a strong alignment in faith, facing marital struggles can be an emotional and spiritual challenge. The beliefs and values you hold dear can greatly influence how you perceive and navigate a troubled marriage.

Tip #7: Prayer and Counseling: 

Seek guidance through prayer and consider couples counseling from a faith driven perspective. Many faith-based organizations offer counseling services tailored to marital challenges.  Lean on Your Faith: Allow your faith to guide you in forgiving, understanding, and finding hope for the future of your marriage.

Recognizing the signs that your marriage is in trouble is the first step toward finding a solution. Here are 4 signs include:

1. Constant arguments

2. Lack of communication

3. Emotional detachment

4. Growing sense of dissatisfaction or unhappiness.

Let's break it down.

1. Constant Arguments

Constant arguments are a red flag in any relationship, especially in a marriage. These disputes can indicate underlying issues such as unresolved conflicts, unmet expectations, or communication breakdowns. It's crucial to address these conflicts openly and constructively, seeking compromises and understanding to maintain a healthy relationship.

2. Lack of Communication

Communication is the foundation of a strong and enduring marriage. When communication dwindles, misunderstandings and feelings of being unheard or neglected can creep in. It's essential to cultivate open, honest, and regular communication. Create a safe space where both partners feel comfortable sharing their thoughts, feelings, and concerns.

3. Emotional Detachment

Emotional detachment often occurs when partners become distant or disconnected from each other emotionally. This can be due to various reasons, such as stress, individual growth in different directions, or unaddressed emotional issues. To rekindle emotional closeness, couples should engage in activities that nurture their bond, express love and appreciation, and seek couples counseling if needed.

4. Growing Sense of Dissatisfaction or Unhappiness

Feeling constantly dissatisfied or unhappy in a marriage is a significant warning sign. It may result from unmet needs, unrealistic expectations, or unaddressed grievances. 

Tip #8: Listen and Reflect: 

Take a step back and reflect on your relationship. Listen to your partner's concerns and be open to understanding their point of view.

Tip #9: Seek Professional Help: 

If the signs persist, consider individual coaching and counseling. A neutral third party can provide guidance and tools to help you navigate the issues.

Maybe you are dealing with the Walkaway Wife Syndrome which refers to a situation where a wife, feeling emotionally disconnected and unheard, decides to leave the marriage. This syndrome typically stems from years of feeling neglected and unimportant in the relationship.

Tip #10: Prioritize Communication: 

Again… and of course, open, honest, and consistent communication can prevent this syndrome. Many might tell you to make sure you're regularly checking in with each other and addressing concerns.

But that's often not enough in romantic relationships.  In romantic relationships, be sure to try these 5 more tips, making a total of 15 Tips to resolve those 4 signs… and when you consider the ignorance of those 15 tips as signs… we have a total of 19 signs your marriage is falling apart:

Tip #11. Nurture a strong friendship

Tip #12. Focus on ethically seducing for attraction

Tip #13. Manage your expectations, 

Tip #14. Give your partner the freedom to express their expectations and... 

Tip #15. Manage your pride.

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Tip #11. Nurture a Strong Friendship

The foundation of a successful romantic relationship is a strong friendship. Cultivate a genuine liking and understanding of each other's interests, dreams, and personality. Be there for one another as a friend would, offering support, trust, and a shoulder to lean on during both good and challenging times.

Tip #12. Focus on Skillful and Ethical Seduction for Attraction

Attraction is a vital aspect of any romantic relationship. Ethical seduction emphasizes building attraction through leading with value.  

Value is in the eyes of the beholder and it doesn't have to compromise your own value. This strategy should be at the forefront of all interactions, promoting a healthy and loving bond based on organic attraction and desire.

Tip #13. Manage Your Expectations

Unrealistic expectations can strain a relationship. It's important to communicate your needs and desires while understanding and respecting your partner's limitations and capabilities. Being realistic about what can be achieved in the relationship helps in maintaining harmony and reducing unnecessary disappointment.

Tip #14. Give Your Partner the Freedom to Express Their Expectations

Encourage your partner to openly express their expectations, desires, and concerns. Listening attentively and validating their feelings creates an environment of trust and understanding. Mutual respect for each other's needs and expectations is key to a thriving relationship.

Tip #15.  Manage Your Pride

Pride can hinder effective communication and resolution of conflicts. Learn to let go of your ego and pride for the sake of the relationship. Apologize when necessary, admit mistakes, and be willing to compromise. A humble and understanding approach fosters a stronger and more loving connection with your partner.

Taking a Hard Look at Ourselves: Am I the Problem?

Self-reflection is crucial when facing marital issues. Sometimes, we might unknowingly contribute to the problems in our marriage. It takes courage to ask oneself if they are part of the issue.

Last Tip; Making a Total of 20 Signs: Self-Awareness and Acceptance: 

Be willing to acknowledge your flaws and work on improving yourself. Consider individual coaching and counseling to understand your thoughts, behaviors, and patterns that might be affecting the relationship.

Remember, every marriage is unique, and there's no one-size-fits-all solution.  But there are principles that work across the board.  Don't get that twisted.

It's about doing the work and finding what works best for you and your partner and navigating this journey together. Stay strong, and never hesitate to seek help when needed. You've got this. 

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