Not So Sexy - Season 4 Tails from A High End Sex Worker
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We are back with Season 4 of Not So Sexy! We hope over this very long break you've been falling in love, getting your back blown out, and having messy breakups. Everything that means you're alive. This week we spoke with Amy Taylor, a high end sex worker. She talked with us about working for billionaires, what she would do if she could change the laws for sex work, how she manages to stay safe, and gives some advice for anyone wanting to do this kind of work.
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Not So Sexy™ Season 3 Episode 7 - Advice from a sex therapist
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This week we interview Angela, a sex therapist. She talks to us about how to have the best sex, what it means to be in an abusive relationship, and shares with us details about her divorce. Even an expert in relationships can sometimes get it wrong. It's always good to remember that.
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Not So Sexy™ Season 3 Episode 6 - Advice from a sex worker
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How many of you have only experienced sex workers through movies and TV? This week we talked to Rose Love who is a sex worker. She tells us about her dating life, how she interacts with clients, she gives us insight into the profession (and it is a profession) and she reminds us to love ourselves.
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Not So Sexy™ Season 3 Episode 5 - Naughti Gras
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What would a sexually liberated, zero shame, totally sexy group of people look like? Think leather, tons of leather. This week Not So Sexy goes on location to a premier erotic art show - Naughti Gras. We touched soap that looked like a dick, got spanked, and talked to people about all things sex.
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Not So Sexy™ Season 3 Episode 4 - Personal Grooming
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How much hair is too much hair? How often should you shave or is going full Brazilian too far? This week on Not So Sexy we explore these questions and more. Also, our host Alex now has to go get a Brazilian wax which he may or may not live stream ;).
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Not So Sexy™ Episode 32 - Power Dynamics
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Power - that is a big word in our lives. On this episode of Not So Sexy we explore what power means in relation to sex. How it affects how we couple, how it affects our interactions with other people, how it even affects our bodies.
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Not So Sexy™ Episode 31 - As you like it
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Do you ever struggle asking for what you want? What about when you’re in front of the person you’re about to have sex with? Asking for what you want during sex can be really tough. It can be uncomfortable 😳😳😳. But you can’t get what you want when you’re not asking for what you need 🥰.
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Not So Sexy™ Episode 30 - I did everything right.
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Herpes can be a scary thing but it's surprisingly common. Yet, it's not talked about except in hushed whispers and angry texts like "DID I GET THIS FROM YOU".
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Not So Sexy™ Episode 30 - Mortified
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Dave Nadelberg, the creator of the Mortified show and podcast, talked to us about current projects, his past masterbation techniques, and his loves - past, present, and future.
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Not So Sexy™ Episode 28 - That Four Letter Word
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This week we bring on the zen master Andy to talk about when to say that huge four letter word L.O.V.E. It's, like most things, layered and complex. We struggle to find an analogy, we show how much Alex really needs to calm down, and we talk about spears. Also check out LELO our sponsor. They make incredible and beautiful sex toys. For weeks we've been trying them out. https://www.lelo.com/
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This is our 10th episode! What!
Seeing as this is a special occasion we brought Beth and Bryan into the studio and they helped us define what sex is.
Turns out sex is a lot of different things. It's a skill, a paradigm, a societal construct created by the patriarchy to keep women down. Sex is a lot of things. We also talk about some best practices around sex, and guys, you’ve got a big tool bet. Start using more than your hammer (if you know what I mean).
As always you can connect with us on Facebook, email us at [email protected], or tweet at us @WeKnowItsGross.
Finally, here is our safe sex tip of the week - Talk about your boundaries before you start having sex. We guarantee that will make it so much more enjoyable.
Resources
It’s like a rainbow (for fucking!).
Let us know if you have your own safe sex tips that you’d like to share.
Here are some other resources to check out.
The STD Project - So many useful resources about disease prevention and proper use of condoms.
Bedsider Comprehensive guide to safer sex - This series is awesome. It’s an in depth series that we encourage anyone who is wanting to know more about safe sex should check out.