How to Survive an Nursing Abusive Preceptor
Nursing Podcast by NURSING.com (NRSNG) (NCLEX® Prep for Nurses and Nursing Students)
Release Date: 01/06/2026
Nursing Podcast by NURSING.com (NRSNG) (NCLEX® Prep for Nurses and Nursing Students)
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This isn't about being tough. This is abuse. And it's happening in nursing programs everywhere.
In this episode, I'm giving you the exact survival strategy for getting through a toxic preceptorship without tanking your grade—or your mental health.
You'll Learn:
- How to tell the difference between a tough preceptor and an abusive one
- Why some preceptors specifically take students to bully them
- The 6-step documentation strategy that protects your grade
- When to fight for reassignment vs. when to just survive
- How to build evidence that actually holds up in grade appeals
- What to do when your instructor gaslights you about the abuse
The hard truth: Sometimes the system protects the preceptor over you. But you can survive this. And you will become a nurse.
Resources mentioned: Visit NURSING.com and search "clinical survival" for documentation templates, communication scripts for difficult preceptors, and a community of students going through the exact same thing.
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