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Removing Expectations and Redefining Sex in Midlife

Piloting your Life

Release Date: 02/12/2019

Terri is taking a break from Piloting Your Life to explore the wild world of YouTube.  show art Terri is taking a break from Piloting Your Life to explore the wild world of YouTube.

Piloting your Life

Terri is taking a break from Piloting Your Life (the podcast) to focus on her YouTube channel

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Crystal explains what a death doula does, how they are different from hospice care and how they complement each other

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Terri is flying solo and shares what’s top of mind for her this week. show art Terri is flying solo and shares what’s top of mind for her this week.

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Show Highlights Terri is focusing on self-care and finding peace within this month Terri shares what she’s been listening to the past two weeks Terri talks about how Melinda Gates influenced her to change her investing thesis to focus on the startups who have products and services that expand the influence and power of women Terri purchased a new sports bra from Bloom Bras and is focusing on getting fit before 50 Terri talks about recapping 2019 and planning for 2020 in all aspects of her life Terri offers to be a part of book club conversations in 2020 Terri is looking to do more library...

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Terri talks with Emma Payne about how to support loved ones through grief and how it has inspired her to take more risks. show art Terri talks with Emma Payne about how to support loved ones through grief and how it has inspired her to take more risks.

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Emma talks about how we can better support our friends and family members as they are grieving for lost loved ones.

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Terri talks with Candice Smith about caring for loved ones during their end of life journey. show art Terri talks with Candice Smith about caring for loved ones during their end of life journey.

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70-80% of caregivers are women and caring for aging parents is the new ‘mommy shaming'

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Terri talks with De’Anna Nunez about how we can eliminate mental blocks to achieve personal freedom. show art Terri talks with De’Anna Nunez about how we can eliminate mental blocks to achieve personal freedom.

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De’Anna shares why she loves to work with women to encourage them to be explorers of their own truths in finding their life’s purpose. Terri and De’Anna explore the roadblocks or mental blocks women encounter in midlife in achieving personal freedom.

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Terri talks with Naama Barnea-Goraly about the tech savvy and socially minded Gen Z. show art Terri talks with Naama Barnea-Goraly about the tech savvy and socially minded Gen Z.

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Naama shares that Gen Z grew up after 9/11, in an era of war, during the financial crisis, and with technology. Naama said that the data shows that Gen Z tends to stay at home more, gets into less trouble, starts having sex later, has fewer teen pregnancies, do less drugs and drink less, but they do feel lonelier and are more depressed. The interaction that they are having in chats, through Facetime and other means of communicating are fine to build relationships and feel connected to others.

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Terri talks with Erin Levine of Hello Divorce about a healthier approach to divorce. show art Terri talks with Erin Levine of Hello Divorce about a healthier approach to divorce.

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There are healthier ways to end marriages than in years past with a shift from attorney-centered to individual-centered divorces.

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Terri talks with Stephanie Sammons, CFP about the four steps to improve your financial health. show art Terri talks with Stephanie Sammons, CFP about the four steps to improve your financial health.

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Our financial health includes our mental health, physical health, spiritual health, and our finances.

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Terri talks with Susan Bratton, the Trusted Hot Sex Advisor to Millions about opportunities for great sex in midlife. show art Terri talks with Susan Bratton, the Trusted Hot Sex Advisor to Millions about opportunities for great sex in midlife.

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Susan shares how she decided on the title ‘Trusted Hot Sex Advisor to Millions’ and answers Terri’s question about how to get our sexy back in midlife.

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Who is Jessa Zimmerman?  

Jessa Zimmerman is a certified sex therapist and couples’ counselor. She specializes in helping couples who have a good relationship but who are avoiding sex because it’s become stressful, negative, disappointing, or pressured. She is the author of Sex Without Stress, the host of the Better Sex Podcast, and is a regularly featured expert in the media, including Refinery29, Business Insider, Mind Body Green, and Marriage.com. 

 

Show Highlights 

  • Jessa talks about our work as humans and the clarity we have in midlife and the risks we should be taking to improve and transform our relationships  
  • Jessa talks about the need to redefine sex not just as we get older but from the very beginning  
  • Jessa talks about the myth of soul mates who are expected to complete us,  consensual non-monogamy, affairs, and cheating  
  • Terri asked Jessa to share the resources she recommends for couples looking to improve their relationships and sex in midlife 

 

Terri’s Key Takeaway 

Your relationship and intimate life are like a garden that needs to be tended.  

 

References in the Podcast 

Jessa can be reached through her website https://sexwithoutstress.com/ 

You can follow Terri on Twitter at @terrihansonmead or go to her website at www.terrihansonmead.com or on Medium:  https://medium.com/@terrihansonmead.  

Feel free to email Terri at [email protected]. 

To continue the conversation, go to Twitter at @PilotingLife and use hashtag #PilotingYourLife. 

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