105 - The Road Thus Travelled: Looking Back to move Forward
Release Date: 06/07/2022
Pleasure Central Radio
RATED R Can you imagine going against the grain, defying societal expectations, and carving your own path in life? Rebecca's guest for this episode, Lisa, did just that. A successful entrepreneur who journeyed from being financially dependent, caught in an abusive marriage, to establishing her own prosperous venture, Lisa recounts her transformational life experiences. She also shares how she found the courage to leave her comfort zone, and why it's essential to recognize when something isn't working for you. Her story isn't just about entrepreneurial success, it's about resilience and...
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RATED PG-13 In episode 117, Rebecca talks to creative entrepreneurs at the Unmistakable Creative Community about seduction in business. Following a podcast episode, the host invited Rebecca to a workshop with some of his listeners so that they could ask questions relevant to their own lives. The podcast and community is made up out of creatives looking to make a living out of their art and in this episode Rebecca explores various elements of successfully seducing someone with what you have to offer, while still being yourself, so that the process is as rewarding as possible for both...
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RATED PG-13 In episode 116, Rebecca speaks to Federico Langoni about different cultural interpretations of human touch, intimacy and values. Federico is a masseur in Argentina where he experiences the different treatment between Western and Latino clients. He explains how this reflects different value systems between Western culture and Latino culture. In this episode, explore what intimacy really means and how you can be intimate with someone and help them through a difficult time without any eroticism. Federico further emphasises the importance of letting emotions flow freely and not being...
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RATED PG-13 In episode 115, Rebecca speaks to Sara Rose, a tango coach and tour guide leader, about Argentina and how experiencing a different culture enhances your outlook on the world. This episode will make you rethink your view on materialistic wealth, time and the true value of human connection. Sara began her dance training at the age of 14, training in Classical Ballet. When she discovered Argentinian Tango in 1996, she fell in love with the art form, studying with every visiting instructor. In 1998, she started a successful career teaching, performing, choreographing and training...
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RATED PG-13 In episode 114, Rebecca and co-host, Shawn, talk to Heather, a transformational practitioner and healer, about how to rewire our brain so that past trauma no longer affects us today. Heather is the founder of Shifting Sands, a holistic healing practice in which she assists people in overcoming past traumatic experiences and helping them release themselves from negative generational patterns of behavior. In this episode, they discuss Heather’s process and what makes it effective when it comes to helping clients overcome their limiting beliefs, especially ingrained in them from...
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In episode 113, Rebecca talks to poet and podcaster, Scott Bryant-Comstock, about the impact of his Kundalini awakening on his life. They delve into the topic, exploring how Scott’s awakening happened and the potential consequences it may hold for you in your creative, spiritual and sexual life. Scott’s awakening happened after he sought out a masseuse to help release back problems he experienced after falling off a horse. During this time, and completely unprepared, he started going through intense out of body experiences which partly led him to writing poetry and eventually starting a...
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RATED PG-13 In episode 112, Rebecca talks to Bruce about what it is like being polyamorous from a male’s perspective. Bruce shares his experience of dating and interacting with metamours, including opening up about his fears when it comes to being in multiple relationships and how to deal with the issues that inevitably come up. Rebecca met Bruce met at a sexuality workshop and both of them connected over the concept of ethical non-monogamy. When Bruce got into polyamory, an important consideration for him was keeping his honor and integrity. He wanted to be completely open and...
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RATED R In episode 111, Rebecca talks to Sherry and Brian about establishing intimacy with your partner and being completely honest about your needs and desires. Influenced by her time in the army, Sherry’s strong sense of masculinity in her sex life led her to a Quodoushka workshop in 2019 where she wanted to explore her more feminine sexual self and learn more about being intimate and establishing a deep connection through sex. In this episode, she and her new partner, Brian, open up to Rebecca about obstacles in their relationship and sex life. Rebecca coaches them through aspects of...
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How often do you reflect on how far you have come? Rebecca talks about how she reviews changes over the course of her life, reflecting on the importance of self-knowledge and self-growth. Joined by Shawn, her co-host, they specifically discuss the process and how it impacts the way we approach love and life in general:
Which people do we allow in and which ones do we let go?
What do we value most and how would we really like to spend our time?
This is the last episode in the Loving Courageously Playlist - To Listen to the entire playlist, starting with Episode 098, click here.
Think about this:
- Make a list of everything you’ve achieved over the last year that makes you proud.
- How have you recently changed and how has this affected your life?
- Did the achievements on the list have a positive impact on your relationships?
- REMINDER: If you are open about who you are with the people in your life, you give them the choice to accept you for who you are.
- Given the way you have changed as a person, which choices do you have to make right now? (e.g. which ones are the most important?)
- If you are going to dive deep into your shadow, then remember to take the light of self love with you so that you can be conscious of any judgements you are holding and the narratives you are telling yourself. Are those narratives even true??
- Would you tolerate someone else treating a friend the way you treat yourself?
- If you had to look back on your life a year from now, what do you most want to accomplish next and what do you most want for your relationships?
Keep Exploring
Listen to Episode 097 - Inside the Boudoir: Intimate Photography with Jody and Dawn of Black Swan Boudoir on building intimacy in your work and with clients.
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CREDITS
Thanks for listening to Pleasure Central Radio hosted by me, Rebecca Beltran. Thanks to the co-host for this episode Shawn.
Technical production by Creators Abroad (Catharina Joubert).
I also get significant creative feedback from my beta listeners group. For this episode, special thanks go to Andrew, Mary, Bob and Josh. Thank you for your input. And to anyone else I might’ve missed, you are loved.
If you’ve listened to this episode today and were intrigued by something, I would love to hear about it. What really hit home for you? Or surprised you? or maybe something from this episode helped you shift a perspective about something important?
There’s a voice message button on the homepage of PleasureCentralRadio.com. I would love to hear what made a difference, and it’s as easy as leaving a message on my answering machine!
I’m especially interested in any new concepts that motivated you to do anything different in your own life. I’m looking forward to hearing from you.
Thank you for being a part of the conversation. And I look forward to your company on the next episode.
PHOTO CREDIT for show’s main artwork to JodyRaePhotography.com
RESOURCES
Loving Courageously Playlist (Episode 098)
Srini Rao’s Unmistakable Creative Podcast