Oxytocin Over Clicks: How to Use AI Without Losing the Human Touch in eCommerce
Release Date: 06/11/2025
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In the last 2 weeks alone I've had three brand owners come to me, all with the same story. They've been told by marketing "experts" that every single EDM, every Meta ad needs a discount incentive. Every website needs a countdown timer or some other kind of FOMO bells and whistles. One of them showed me her email marketing calendar. Every. Single. Week. A different discount code. Flash sale this, 20% off that, "last chance" the other thing. And here's the part that really gets me — some of these countdown timers? They're not even counting down to anything real. They literally reset when you...
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I know exactly where you're at right now. We're in the thick of Black Friday promos – or as I like to call it, the 'beautiful chaos' portion of the retail calendar. Your ads are running, your inbox is overflowing, your inventory is moving, and you're probably surviving on caffeine and pure adrenaline. I also know that this period isn't just physically exhausting – it's emotionally exhausting too. There's this rollercoaster that happens during BFCM. You swing between moments of 'oh my goodness, the sales are coming in!' to 'why did that ad suddenly stop performing?' to 'I haven't...
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If you run the kind of premium brand that either does not participate in Black Friday, or does so differently to the mass-market brands running huge discount promos and turning Black Friday into Black Month…. Then I bet your November started slower than you expected… Maybe not disastrously slow, but quieter than you'd like… Meanwhile, your inbox is absolutely exploding with promotional emails. 50% off. 60% off. "Our biggest sale ever!"... You might be starting to think that maybe you should have gone harder. Maybe you should have started your promotions earlier. Maybe you should have...
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If the only time you email your list is when you're running a sale, what do you think happens? Your customers start waiting for the sales. They see your regular-priced products and think, "Nah, I'll wait. They'll have a sale in a couple of weeks." And then you're stuck in this cycle where you have to keep discounting to generate revenue, which destroys your profit margins and devalues your brand. But here's the part that most brands don't actually sit down and calculate: the math of discounting is absolutely brutal, especially when you factor in the high ad costs we're dealing with right now....
info_outlineWe need to talk about AI. More specifically, what AI is doing to the way we market and connect in eCommerce—and why so many brands are getting it wrong.
Not in a “robots are taking over” doomsday kind of way, but in a very real, “my sales are slowing down and I don’t know why” kind of way.
It used to be that if you could get your ad in front of the right person, or stuff your page with keywords, you’d drive traffic. Clicks equaled conversions. But now? We’re entering the era of generative search.
So if you’re still relying on click-based tactics—whether it’s old-school SEO or basic Meta ads—without optimizing for this new era of conversational discovery, you’re gonna be left behind.
And this brings us to today’s real question:
How do we create marketing that still works in an AI-driven world?
That’s what this episode is all about.
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