181: Stop Missing Your Life with Cory Muscara
The Psychology Podcast with Scott Barry Kaufman
Release Date: 01/02/2020
The Psychology Podcast with Scott Barry Kaufman
Today it is great to have Chloé Valdary on the podcast. After spending a year as a Bartley Fellow at the Wall Street Journal, Chloe developed the Theory of Enchantment, an innovative framework for socioemotional learning, character development and interpersonal growth that uses pop culture as an educational tool in the classroom and beyond.
info_outline 205: Robert Sutton on Good Leaders vs. Bad LeadersThe Psychology Podcast with Scott Barry Kaufman
Today it’s great to have Robert Sutton on the podcast. Sutton is Professor of Management Science and Engineering and Professor of Organizational Behavior by courtesy at Stanford. He co-founded the Stanford Technology Ventures Program (STVP) and the Hasso Plattner Institute of Design which everyone calls the d.school. Sutton received his PhD in Organizational Psychology from the University of Michigan and has served on the Stanford faculty since 1983.
info_outline 204: Chip Conley on Wisdom, Midlife, and Peak ExperienceThe Psychology Podcast with Scott Barry Kaufman
Today it's great to have Chip Conley on the podcast. Chip is a New York Times best-selling author who helped Airbnb's founders turn their fast-growing tech start-up into a global hospitality brand. In his book Wisdom at Work: The Making of a Modern Elder, he shares his unexpected journey at midlife, from CEO to intern, learning about technology as Airbnb's Head of Global Hospitality and Strategy, while also mentoring CEO Brian Chesky.
info_outline 203: Creating a Living Masterpiece with Michael GervaisThe Psychology Podcast with Scott Barry Kaufman
Today it’s great to have Dr. Michael Gervais on the podcast. Dr. Gervais is a world-renowned high-performance psychologist and industry visionary. Over the course of 20 years, working with world leading performers, Dr. Gervais has developed a psychological framework that allows people to thrive in pressure packed environments.
info_outline 202: Uncancellable with Katie Herzog and Jesse SingalThe Psychology Podcast with Scott Barry Kaufman
Today it’s great to have Katie Herzog and Jesse Singal on the podcast. Together, Herzog and Signal co-host the Blocked and Reported Podcast.
info_outline 201: Keeping it Real with Ayishat AkanbiThe Psychology Podcast with Scott Barry Kaufman
I’m really excited to have Ayishat Akanbi on the podcast today. Ayishat is a writer and fashion stylist based in London. Personal reflection has guided her approach of reminding us of our commonalities instead of our differences. Not just for social awareness but also self-awareness, Ayishat resists the black and white thinking that can lead to divisive socio-political discourse and is comfortable “in the grey”.
info_outline 200: Richard Haier on the Nature of Human IntelligenceThe Psychology Podcast with Scott Barry Kaufman
Today it’s great to have Dr. Richard Haier on the podcast. Dr. Haier is Professor Emeritus in the School of Medicine at the University of California, Irvine. His research investigates structural and functional neuroanatomy of intelligence using neuroimaging.
info_outline 199: How Politics Became Our Identity with Lilliana MasonThe Psychology Podcast with Scott Barry Kaufman
Today it’s great to have the political psychologist Lilianna Mason on the podcast. Dr. Mason is associate professor of Government and Politics at the University of Maryland, College Park, and author of Uncivil Agreement: How Politics Became Our Identity.
info_outline 198: Geoffrey Miller on Signaling, Mating, and MoralityThe Psychology Podcast with Scott Barry Kaufman
In this episode, I talk with Geoffrey Miller, an American evolutionary psychologist, researcher, and author about elements of evolutionary psychology such as virtue signaling, altruism, sexual selection, and their role in the evolution of human nature.
info_outline 197: From Learned Helplessness to Learned Hopefulness with Martin SeligmanThe Psychology Podcast with Scott Barry Kaufman
Today it’s great to have Dr. Martin Seligman on the podcast. Dr. Seligman is a leading authority in the fields of positive psychology, resilience, learned helplessness, depression, optimism, and pessimism.
info_outlineIn this episode we discuss:
- Cory’s transformation from frat boy to monk
- Can monks be self-actualizing?
- The importance of not being enslaved by certain parts of you
- How to overcame pain through mindfulness
- The emotional body vs. the sensation body
- The process of detaching sensations from the labels we put on them
- Equanimity and allowing life to happen
- How equanimity is more about our internal experience than our external experience
- The “pain box”
- How to soften the “pain wall”
- Dispelling the myth of the “real you”
- Barriers to real connection
- What it means to be fully seen and accepted
- The importance of radical acceptance
- How the more parts of you that are brought in and accepted the more you feel as though the wholeness of you is accepted and seen
- The "scrollercoaster" meditation
- How we can take control of technology and take back our lives