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Anna Marie Johnson Teague and Ted Bunch: Building Healthy Masculinity in Our Boys

Rebirth With J.R. Martinez

Release Date: 04/22/2021

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Anna Marie Johnson Teague and Ted Bunch are the co-authors of The Book of Dares, a new book that discusses the male experience and how to overcome stereotypes and build healthy masculinity in our young boys. This isn’t just a book for men either! Everyone of all genders can benefit from this book to better understand a man’s upbringing and why some men feel compelled to act aggressively and violently against women. It’s time men can reimagine what it looks like to be and live their full authentic self without shame.

 

Key Takeaways

  • A little bit about Anna Marie!
  • A little bit about Ted!
  • Why do men abuse women?
  • Anna Marie and Ted’s book is for young male children.
  • This book is designed to create healthy masculinity for our young boys.
  • This is not just a book for boys, women can read this book too to better understand the male experience.
  • JR shares his experience of finally being able to cry ‘safely’ at the age of 24 years old.
  • Vulnerability is a place of strength. Our society sees it as a weakness.
  • Boys are mimicking what they see in their male role models.
  • Our culture has taught boys and men that you can’t be open with your feelings. It’s painful because a whole gender suffers.
  • How can parents encourage their children to be more vulnerable?
  • Anna Marie noticed that at night when the world is getting quiet is when her child wants to share. It’s tough because she’s so darn tired at the end of the day.
  • Acknowledgement is such an empowering thing. Don’t be afraid to acknowledge when someone has something vulnerable.
  • Men have a hard time asking for help.
  • JR shares a story of when a man, a stranger, apologized to him.
  • JR has a hard time apologizing, despite knowing it’s a good thing to do. He was taught not to apologize at a young age and it’s difficult to break that cycle.
  • We teach our boys to sexually objectify women because, if you don’t, then you might be seen as ‘gay’.
  • Censorship is not an option for your children. You have to help provide them with the right tools for what the world will throw at them.
  • Sexualization is part of our culture. We need to educate our children and show them how to be media literate.
  • Compassion for different people, for different races, has been heightened. It’s hard to build connection and empathy.
  • What is privilege? What is white privilege? And how do you communicate that to your children?

 

Continue On Your Journey

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The Book of Dares by Anna Marie Johnson Teague and Ted Bunch

 

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J.R. on Instagram

J.R. on Facebook

J.R. on Twitter

J.R. Youtube Channel

 

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