79. Adam Young – Attachments: How Science Informs Our Relationships and Leadership
Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast
Release Date: 07/22/2021
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99. Dr. Todd Bowman – Borderline Personality Disorder: How to Deal with Difficult People
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Welcome to Episode 99 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. Today’s conversation is with psychologist Dr. Todd Bowman as we continue to catch up and talk about an uptick in client issues. Dr. Bowman is the Associate Professor of Counseling at Indiana Wesleyan University. He is an Adjunct Professor for Human Sexuality at Nazarene Theological Seminary. He is an Adjunct Professor of the Intro to Psychology at Nazarene Bible College. He also is an evaluating psychologist for assessing seminary applicants for seminaries. Our conversation takes us into the following: *...
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98. Dr. Todd Bowman – Catching Up and Uptick in Client Issues
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Welcome to Episode 98 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. Today’s conversation is with psychologist Dr. Todd Bowman as we catch up and talk about an uptick in client issues. Dr. Bowman is the Associate Professor of Counseling at Indiana Wesleyan University. He is an Adjunct Professor for Human Sexuality at Nazarene Theological Seminary. He is an Adjunct Professor of the Intro to Psychology at Nazarene Bible College. He also is an evaluating psychologist for assessing seminary applicants for seminaries. Our conversation takes us into the following: * How the...
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97. Patrick Norris – Differentiation: Holding onto Yourself in Tense Reactivity from Others
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96. Patrick Norris – Differentiation: Standing Up and Showing Up as Who You Really Are
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95. Patrick Norris – Differentiation: The ART of Self-Definition and Identity through Truth
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Welcome to Episode 95 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. In today’s episode Patrick is continuing with one of the most important factors for successful leaders, self-differentiation. The past 3 episodes have focused on these concepts, starting with episode 92 (The Leader’s Kryptonite: Emotional Fusion Versus Differentiation) giving the context for the series. If you have wondered why you can’t seem to get the ‘wins’ you work so hard for, even after training with conferences, consultants, books, podcasts, and mentors, this episode series is for you! Episode 95 takes us...
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94. Patrick Norris – Differentiation: The ART of Self-Definition and Identity through Responsibility
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93. Patrick Norris – Differentiation: How a Healthy Identity Begins with Awareness
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92. Patrick Norris – The Leader’s Kryptonite: Emotional Fusion Versus Differentiation
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91. Tom Toney – A Revolutionary Vision to Impact Children as Next Generation Leaders
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Welcome to Episode #91 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. Today’s conversation is with pastor, corporate coach, and student development entrepreneur Tom Toney, as we talk through his revolutionary vision to impact children as next generation leaders. Tom is a Lead Pastor and a Leadership/Organizational Development Trainer. He is the founder of Current Family, a non-profit dedicated to empowering students and families with resources for personal growth and development. He is the creator of KUEST Student Leadership Development Systems, which over the past 20+ years has been used...
info_outlineWelcome to Episode #79 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast.
Today’s conversation is with Adam Young. Adam is a licensed Clinical Social Worker with Master’s Degrees in both Social Work and Divinity. He is a certified colleague of The Allender Center, co-founded by renowned psychologist Dr. Dan Allender and our previous Red Ink Revival guest therapist Cathy Loerzel. Dr. Allender and his trained clinicians–including Adam Young–are the foremost thinkers on Story Work. Adam is a certified EMDR clinician, which addresses trauma and brain function. He has also served as a pastor in a local church. Adam’s podcast, The Place We Find Ourselves, is a favorite. Adam’s practice is in Fort Collins, Colorado.
Today Adam and I talk about attachments, and how they organize all of our relationships including our leadership connections.
Our conversation includes the following:
* Adam’s faith story and how he became a therapist.
* Why historical story work is so important for people–especially pastors and leaders–to explore.
* What an attachment style is, the four kinds of attachments, and how our brains evolved with our own style.
* How pastors and leaders are better leaders when they know the truth behind their own stories and attachment style.
* What Scripture has to offer us to compel us to dig into attachments.
* How to “earn” a secure attachment style.
* How early childhood development of the brain and attachment has informed our instincts in relating with romantic partners, friends, and even God.
* How spiritual disciplines and exercises are experienced differently based on individual attachment styles.
* How repentance looks different for those with different attachment styles.
* How pastoral preaching is styled after the pastor’s own attachment style.
* How attachment predisposes us to emotional flooding and dysregulation.
* How knowing the truth of our stories in the context of our family of origin is critical to repentance and healing.
If you have questions you would like addressed in a future episode, topics you would enjoy hearing, or just want to give us feedback, we would love to hear from you. Email us at [email protected].
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Edited and produced by Evan (Emac) McAlister.