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81. Drew Boa – Husband Material: Becoming Sexually Healthy and Happy

Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast

Release Date: 08/05/2021

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Welcome to Episode #81 of the Red Ink Revival Leadership Podcast. Today’s conversation is with Drew Boa. Drew is the Founder & Head Coach of Husband Material, a therapeutic ministry helping Christian men achieve freedom from porn and heal all kinds of sexual brokenness. Drew has a Master's in Christian Formation from Wheaton College, is a Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional (through the International Institute of Trauma and Addiction Professionals), and is author of the book Redeemed Sexuality. 

 

Today we talk about Husband Material: Becoming Sexually Healthy and Happy. Our conversation takes us into the following:

 

* Drew’s faith story and how he became a recovery coach.

* The most common sexual struggles he witnesses in his clients.

* The typical mapping of why people struggle with sexual drivers.

* Why the “purity culture” gets it wrong.

* How sexual health begins with addressing our attachment wounds.

* The differences between behavior management and healing the root causes.

* How our “fetishes” and preferences reveal our deeper longings for connection.

* The commonalities in working with pre-teens and teens in unwanted sexual drivers.

* What parents can do to parent pre-teens and teens through this cultural flooding.

* How “spiritual bypass” creates more difficulties.

* The better way of measuring freedom from pornography and other unwanted behaviors.

* What pastors and church leaders can do to help men address their sexual issues.

 

If you have questions you would like addressed in a future episode, topics you would enjoy hearing, or just want to give us feedback, we would love to hear from you. Email us at [email protected].

 

Visit our website: redinkrevival.com.

 

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Edited and produced by Evan (Emac) McAlister.