The Power of Mattering with Zach Mercurio
The Remarkable Leadership Podcast
Release Date: 09/03/2025
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Listen For
00:00 Introduction
00:35 How to Join the Podcast Live
01:14 About Zach Mercurio
02:15 Welcome Zach
02:55 Why Mattering Matters
04:17 Defining Moments of Mattering
05:03 Discovering the Concept of Mattering
06:14 Leadership Happens in Moments
07:04 Human Interaction vs Symbols of Value
08:09 Why Engagement Programs Fall Short
09:06 The Three-Part Framework of Mattering
10:14 Noticing vs Knowing
11:15 Appreciation vs Affirmation
12:33 Feeling Needed at Work
13:03 The Power of If It Wasn't for You
15:30 Turning Good Intentions into Practice
16:15 Mindset Skillset Habitset
17:19 Translating Ideas into Real-World Action
18:18 The Myth of Being Too Busy
20:11 Relearning the Skills of Connection
21:13 Tech and the Loss of Human Interaction
22:00 Not Soft Skills Essential Skills
22:20 The Best Question a Leader Can Ask
23:00 You Don’t Need Permission to Lead This Way
25:02 You Always Have Interactional Power
26:06 Culture is Non-directional
27:06 Trust Begins with Care
28:00 The Human Advantage in the Age of AI
29:08 Belonging vs Inclusion vs Mattering
30:36 Where to Start Building Mattering
31:33 What Zach Does for Fun
31:58 What Zach is Reading
33:00 Final Thoughts and How to Connect
35:12 Your Call to Action
36:10 Wrap-Up
Zach's Story: Zach Mercurio is the author of The Power of Mattering: How Leaders Can Create a Culture of Significance. He is a researcher, leadership development facilitator, and speaker specializing in purposeful leadership, mattering, and meaningful work. Zach advises leaders in organizations worldwide on practices for building cultures that promote well-being, motivation, and performance. He holds a Ph.D. in organizational learning, performance, and change from Colorado State University, where he serves as a senior fellow at the Center for Meaning and Purpose and as an instructor in the Organizational Learning, Performance, and Change program.
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