EMOTIONAL BYPASSING; How to Radically Change Humanity EP: 14
Release Date: 10/28/2020
From the Heart of a Renegade
This episode is surely something worth listening to. From betrayals and overgiving to trust and genuine generosity in relationships; get to know Kelsey’s growth and celebrations, and, maybe, you’ll experience more in your life as well.
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Kelsey stays up past her bedtime and peels back the curtain on what it ACTUALLY costs to run a 6 figure company in year 3 of business.
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Fireside chats with Kelsey and V continue, this time under a full moon. Settle in around the fire for an intimate conversation about creating beyond codependency in a highly connected relationship. (Stick around until the end to be serenaded with a little ditty of theirs that you need to get stuck in your head…)
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Enjoy the crackle of the fire alongside Kelsey Eigler and Vincent VanOhm as they dive into how 2021 is going so far. You’ll feel like you’re sitting around the fire with 2 pals, and likely be provoked to have some beautiful reflections of your own.
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This episode is a special one, featuring the Mum and Mama in-law of your favourite Renegades.
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Genius coach, international writer, speaker, activist, serial entrepreneur, and founder of The Intuitive Business School, Anna Tsui sits down with Kelsey to discuss grace, anger, social justice, racialized violence against the Asian community, and honouring traditional healing modalities.
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Dr. Carson, energy focused, chiropractor extraordinaire, is changing Kelsey and Vanessa’s lives.
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In Episode #22, Kelsey and Vanessa ponder what it means to choose joy and live fulfilling, meaningful lives or doing what they should.
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Featuring Psychic Medium Sheetal Story, this Episode took us all by surprise when Sheetal started doing a full blown Medium session when Kelsey's dead Dad showed up.
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In this episode Kelsey explores what it truly takes to have more money … and blows her own mind in the process.
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Here’s how Kelsey and Vanessa define emotional bypassing?
Not acknowledging or honoring difficult things or not allowing yourself to feel your feelings. This often shows up when (usually) well-meaning friends blow off your anguish around something important by saying things like “think positive” or “this will pass” or when you ignore you feelings of anger (for example) instead of bringing consciousness to the issue.
It’s bypassing the acknowledgement that difficult things happen in life. The personal development gurus have taught that don’t think about the negative or you’ll get more of it. There’s no change, no ability to shift things.
You can’t heal what you don’t feel.
Hear how Vanessa saw this impact her personally when she shared her cancer diagnosis. It’s eye-opening to hear how she acknowledged what she needed and how it impacted her and others who know her.
When is it safe for a warrior to fall apart?
What can you do for someone who is dealing with trauma? Kelsey and Vanessa share what’s helpful and what isn’t.
How can we be more inclusive?
Kelsey shares how she struggled to figure out what felt right and decided that sitting with not knowing and asking questions brought the awareness she needed. She didn’t bypass her discomfort around not knowing.
Why are we afraid to acknowledge our emotions or the emotions of others?
Kelsey explains her magic-trick to help diffuse triggers and increase awareness. This leads to real understanding, no bypassing aloud.
That time when someone told Vanessa she deserved cancer.
Yeah, that happened. Find out why this popped up and the way that Vanessa and Kelsey worked through it.
What happens when you are centered in who you are?
What’s the difference in activism and living your truth? Do you have to be the warrior for your cause or is it okay to just be?
What does it mean to be the change you want to see?
We hear that mantra all the time but what does it really mean? Kelsey shares she’s found her way and how you can find your own.
How can we radically change humanity?
Kelsey and Vanessa break down how change happens when we’re willing to feel and acknowledge what’s happening in the moment.