#107 - The 3 Relationships That Shape Your Life
Release Date: 08/08/2025
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👉 Get your free Inner Stressbuster + a shot of Clarity every Friday: A while back I was coaching someone who'd been running a very specific strategy. The model looked something like this: you + a whole bunch of concepts, tools, skills, models and strategies = Super You. Sound familiar? The thing is - it wasn't working. And when I looked at why, something became obvious. He had the model completely back to front. In this episode of the podcast, Andrea and I dig into why that model makes overwhelm worse - not better - and what actually creates the clarity and discernment you need to navigate...
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👉 Get your free Inner Stressbuster + a shot of Clarity every Friday: A few weeks ago, I uploaded my books - Clarity and Results - to an AI assistant, made an assertion about the three principles and consciousness, and started a debate about the principles of psychology. At a certain point, the AI stopped and said: "I think you've just created a logical refutation of materialism." That conversation inspired me to write a philosophy paper - which I've just submitted to the journal Mind, published by Oxford University Press. It's called The Bag Cannot Contain Itself. In this clip, Andrea asks...
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👉 Get your free Inner Stressbuster + a shot of Clarity every Friday: www.JamieSmart.com --- Earlier this year I sat down with my friend and colleague Doug O'Brien for a conversation about clarity, mindset, and what actually creates lasting change. In this clip, we explore a powerful distinction that often gets missed - and once you see it, it quietly changes how you see personal change, insight, and wellbeing. Big love, Jamie P.S. If you've been looking to get a deeper understanding of the principles behind clarity, bringing them more fully into your work and your day to day life, you...
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👉 Get your free Inner Stressbuster + a shot of Clarity every Friday: A few weeks ago I sat down with Jacquie Bamber - a CCT graduate and good friend - and her daughter Ellie for a conversation about the three principles. In this clip, I share the story of Sydney Banks - the Scottish welder who had a profound realization that changed everything. Someone made a throwaway comment to Syd that he heard so deeply that it changed his life, and has gone on to touch millions more (including my own). You'll also hear: The three insights that completely reorganized my life back in 2009 Why the...
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👉 Get your free Inner Stressbuster + a shot of Clarity every Friday: www.JamieSmart.com This week I sat down with my good friend and long-time colleague Christian McNeill for a conversation about something that’s becoming more relevant by the day - the principles behind clarity, transformation and resilience, and why they matter so much in the world we’re living in now. Christian was one of the first people to come through my programmes over 15 years ago, and she shares the moment this understanding “hit like a train” and changed the entire trajectory of her life and work. From...
info_outlineIn this short clip, Jamie Smart explores relationships from the perspective of the Three Principles — and why they all come down to three key connections:
• Your relationship with other people
• Your relationship with who you really are
• Your relationship with life itself
We look at how the feeling of connection and the fact of connection aren’t the same thing… and why understanding this can change the way you relate to others, yourself, and the world.
Whether you’re a coach, teacher, or someone interested in the Three Principles, this conversation will give you a fresh perspective on relationships and connection.
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