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A Family Affair & The Idea of You

The Rom Com Rewrite

Release Date: 10/11/2024

Runaway Bride show art Runaway Bride

The Rom Com Rewrite

This one is worth returning to - it might be better than you remember! Runaway Bride Year: 1999 Written by: Josann McGibbon and Sara Parriott Directed by: Garry Marshall Stars: Julia Roberts, Richard Gere, Joan Cusack, Hector Elizondo, Rita Wilson, Paul Dooley, Christopher Meloni, Laurie Metcalf (uncredited) Show notes: Always the bride-to-be! This month we conclude our all-too-brief Julia Roberts mini-season with this gorgeous small-town battle of the sexes. If you would like to skip the plot summary for this month’s film you can spool forward about 11 minutes into the episode. In this...

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Notting Hill show art Notting Hill

The Rom Com Rewrite

It’s just a film standing in front of two podcasters asking them to take it lovingly apart and put it back together better. Notting Hill Year: 1999 Written by: Richard Curtis Directed by: Roger Michell Stars: Julia Roberts, Hugh Grant Show notes: We really get into this one - and for ‘this one’ read Richard Curtis films in general and their male leads in particular. 26 years after its release there is much that is good about this film and also much to fix. If you would like to skip the plot summary for this month’s film you can spool forward about 12 minutes into the episode. In this...

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Hitch show art Hitch

The Rom Com Rewrite

Women have surfaces, men have depths. Hitch Year: 2005 Written by: Kevin Bisch Directed by: Andy Tennant Stars: Will Smith, Eva Mendes, Kevin James, Amber Valletta Show notes: We are not aware of many rom coms that centre a straight man’s experience. Maybe this is the only one. Straight men rejoice! Content note: In this episode there is some discussion of incel culture, assault, violence and death. If you would like to skip the plot summary for this month’s film you can spool forward about 5 and a half minutes or so into the episode. In this episode we mention the films: He’s Just Not...

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27 Dresses show art 27 Dresses

The Rom Com Rewrite

Always the bridesmaid never the bride. 27 Dresses Year: 2008 Written by: Aline Brosh McKenna Directed by: Anne Fletcher Stars: Katherine Heigl, James Marsden, Malin Akerman, Edward Burns, Judy Greer Show notes: This is a film about a woman who says yes and her hate-able sister and the guy they both fancy and another guy called Kevin and a closet full of dresses. If you would like to skip the plot summary for this month’s film you can spool forward about 8 and a half minutes or so into the episode. In this episode we mention the films: The Princess Diaries (2001)...

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A Nice Indian Boy show art A Nice Indian Boy

The Rom Com Rewrite

Pride season continues! A Nice Indian Boy Year: 2024 Written by: Eric Randall Based on the play by: Madhuri Shekar Directed by: Roshan Sethi Stars: Karan Soni, Jonathan Groff Show notes: Another one for the pile of films that we liked, this is a film about love and culture and family and who does the bride’s family’s dance at the wedding. If you would like to skip the plot summary for this month’s film you can spool forward about 10 minutes or so into the episode. In this episode we mention the films: The Wedding Banquet* (2025) (https://www.imdb.com/title/tt32214413/) DDLJ (1995)...

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The Wedding Banquet show art The Wedding Banquet

The Rom Com Rewrite

Happy Pride Month! The Wedding Banquet Year: 2025 Screenplay by: Andrew Ahn and James Shamus Based on the screenplay by: Ang Lee, Neil Peng and James Shamus Directed by: Andrew Ahn Stars: Bowen Yang, Lily Gladstone, Kelly Marie Tran, Han Gi-Chan, Joan Chen, Youn Yuh-jung, Bobo Le Show notes: A remake of the 1993 Ang Lee film, this 2025 update is queer struggle and queer joy and green cards and IVF and family and chosen family. It's not a rom com but it's a beautiful film and we loved it. If you would like to skip the plot summary for this month’s film you can spool forward about 12 minutes...

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It Happened One Night show art It Happened One Night

The Rom Com Rewrite

For our half century, a film that is approaching its whole century. It Happened One Night Year: 1934 Screenplay by: Robert Riskin Based on the short story by: Samuel Hopkins Adams Directed by: Frank Capra Stars: Clark Gable, Claudette Colbert Show notes: With the exception of a couple of non-consensual slaps, the words “shut up” and the title (which we think is silly), there is really nothing we would change about this 92-year-old film. We hope you enjoy it as much as we did! If you would like to skip the plot summary for this month’s film, it begins about 7 minutes into the episode...

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Brown Sugar show art Brown Sugar

The Rom Com Rewrite

A warm bath of a film or kind of dull, depending on your point of view. Brown Sugar Year: 2002 Screenplay by: Michael Eliot and Rick Famuyiwa Story by: Michael Eliot Directed by: Rick Famuyiwa Stars: Taye Diggs, Sanaa Lathan, Queen Latifa Show notes: We consider this a romance rather than a rom com so we are a bit stumped when it comes to fixes but we are resourceful and we do what we can! If you would like to skip the plot summary for this month’s film you can spool forward about nine and a half minutes into the episode. In this episode we mention the films: When Harry Met Sally* (1989)...

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Going The Distance (2010) show art Going The Distance (2010)

The Rom Com Rewrite

This film holds up! Going The Distance Year: 2010 Written by: Geoff LaTulippe Directed by: Nanette Burstein Stars: Drew Barrymore, Justin Long, Christina Applegate Show notes: Finally. A rom com that takes long distance relationships seriously. If you would like to skip the plot summary for this month’s film you can spool forward about 11 minutes and 15 seconds into the episode. In this episode we mention the films: Going The Distance (2004) (https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0388285/) Failure To Launch* (2006) (https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0427229/) To All The Boys I’ve Loved Before* (2018)...

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Holidate show art Holidate

The Rom Com Rewrite

This is a film you can safely drag your straight boyfriend to. Holidate Year: 2020 Written by: Tiffany Paulson Directed by: John Whitesell Stars: Emma Roberts, Luke Bracey Show notes: “I think that’s, like, the straightest movie I’ve seen in a while” - Lisa Findley If you would like to skip the plot summary for this month’s film you can spool forward about 8 and a half minutes into the episode. In this episode we mention the films: Our Little Secret* (2024) (https://www.imdb.com/title/tt31022050/) Failure To Launch* (2006) (https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0427229/) Single All The Way*...

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These two films map so brilliantly onto one another. They are neither of them quite what we would call a rom com but, in both cases, for interesting reasons.


A Family Affair
Year: 2024
Written by: Carrie Solomon
Directed by: Richard LaGravenese
Stars: Nicole Kidman, Zac Effron, Joey King

The Idea of You
Year: 2024
Screenplay by: Michael Showalter and Jennifer Westfeldt
Novel by: Robinne Lee
Directed by: Michael Showalter
Stars: Anne Hathaway, Nicholas Galatzine, Ella Rubin

 

Show notes:

“Maybe you’re an amazing duck” - Lisa Findley’s message for Zac Efron.


By the way, we don’t mean to dismiss or belittle anyone who is in their early twenties (or younger). We are in our forties. It feels like a long time ago.

If you would like to skip the plot summary for this month’s film you can spool forward about fourteen and a quarter minutes into the episode.

In this episode we mention the films:
High School Musical (2006) (https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0475293/)
Born On The Fourth Of July (1989) (https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0096969/)
Mission: Impossible (1996) (https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0117060/)
The Break-up (2006) (https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0452594/) 
Red, White & Royal Blue* (2023) (https://www.imdb.com/title/tt10172266/)

*This film has previously been featured on the podcast.

Correction: Harry Styles was just 16 years old in 2010 when he auditioned for the TV show The X Factor, which lead to him becoming part of One Direction (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Harry_Styles). Robbie Williams was also 16 when he joined Take That in 1990 (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robbie_Williams).


For next month's episode we were going to watch Going The Distance (2010) (https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1322312/) but in fact we ended up watching Meet Me Next Christmas (2024) (https://www.imdb.com/title/tt20502488/?ref_=ttfc_fc_tt). We will watch Going The Distance at some point next year - promise!


If you would like to suggest films for future episodes, you can tweet Lisa: @LisaStowaway.

We record these episodes over the internet. Sometimes the audio is not perfect. We apologise for that.

Music in this episode is by Martin Zaltz Austwick (martinzalzaustwick.com).
Artwork is by Lisa Findley.

Thank you for listening!