Avoiding Hard Conversations—When High-Performing Agile Teams Self-Destruct | Bernard Agrest

Bernard Agrest: Avoiding Hard Conversations—When High-Performing Agile Teams Self-Destruct

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Bernard describes how a high-performing, fun-loving team began to unravel when a new member joined who wasn't delivering on their commitments. Instead of addressing the performance issue directly, team members started picking up the slack, avoiding the difficult conversation that needed to happen. As morale dropped and people checked out, Bernard realized the team was paralyzed by fear of confrontation and assumptions that raising the issue would be ignored. This experience taught him that individual performance problems quickly become whole-team problems when left unaddressed, and that strong relationships require the courage to have honest, supportive conversations.

Self-reflection Question: What difficult conversation are you avoiding on your team, and what assumptions might be preventing you from addressing it?

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About Bernard Agrest

Bernard currently leads a major software implementation at University of Wisconsin—Madison Medical School, serving over 10,000 employees. Previously, he built a PMO and led Data and Learning at Teach For America. His journey began redesigning operations for a Veteran Service Organization, where he co-led national initiatives and launched a new alumni program.

You can link with Bernard Agrest on LinkedIn.