235 Expectations vs. Standards and the impact of BOTH on your love life
Release Date: 01/25/2024
262. What Dating a Provider ACTUALLY Means
The Self Love Fix
This is the LAST EPISODE of 2024! Can you believe it? brb be back Jan 2025 habibti! In this episode we chat: My thoughts on the conversation around "gold diggers" in dating when it comes to women dating providers Why I believe ONLY dating a man for his money (as in NOT CARING about him, only caring about what is in his bank) is actually a form of LACK mindset in dating The bible's take on men who do NOT provide How ONLY dating a man for his money can actually be a symptom of an inability to connect emotionally with men. WORK WITH BEATRICE: where I teach you how to go from...
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261 Get in Habibti, We're Upping Your Standards!
The Self Love Fix
In this episode we chat: The TWO things you SHOULD be considering when it comes to raising your standards STICKING to your standards and why so many fail at this Debunking falsities and presenting truths on what it actually means when a man is a provider WORK WITH BEATRICE: where I teach you how to go from being a SLAVE TO ATTENTION from a man (aka feeling CONFUSED ABOUT HOW HE FEELS because he doesn't make you feel SECURE by TELLING you how he feels about you... to stepping into the SOFT, RELAXED feminine woman who attracts men who SHOW you how they VALUE YOU with...
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260. Addressing Hopelessness and Frustration in Dating
The Self Love Fix
In this episode we chat: Hopelessness and Frustration in dating Waiting for the "shoe to drop" in dating and how to step into the expectation that God's best for you is OUT THERE Dealing with the frustration of continuously attracting men that do not match what you're looking for WORK WITH BEATRICE: where I teach you how to go from being a SLAVE TO ATTENTION from a man (aka feeling CONFUSED ABOUT HOW HE FEELS because he doesn't make you feel SECURE by TELLING you how he feels about you... to stepping into the SOFT, RELAXED feminine woman who attracts men...
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259. De-Centering Men- Tapping into your Feminine Expression + Creativity
The Self Love Fix
In this episode we chat: Romanticizing your daily routines-- a continued conversation from last week How you might be misplacing your precious nurturing aspect of your feminine with the WRONG men How tapping into your feminine creativity + expression can help you de-center men WORK WITH BEATRICE: where I teach you how to go from being a SLAVE TO ATTENTION from a man (aka feeling CONFUSED ABOUT HOW HE FEELS because he doesn't make you feel SECURE by TELLING you how he feels about you... to stepping into the SOFT, RELAXED feminine woman who attracts men who SHOW you...
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258. De-centering Men- The Foundations
The Self Love Fix
In this episode we chat: Taking men off the pedestal for both the single girlies + relationship girlies Ways women pedestal men- which is actually a form of idolatry!! My #1 way to de-center men WORK WITH BEATRICE: where I teach you how to go from being a SLAVE TO ATTENTION from a man (aka feeling CONFUSED ABOUT HOW HE FEELS because he doesn't make you feel SECURE by TELLING you how he feels about you... to stepping into the SOFT, RELAXED feminine woman who attracts men who SHOW you how they VALUE YOU with your actions. CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Be sure to connect with...
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"Your Truth, My Truth, Spirituality, Personal Development, and... Christianity, a much needed conversation"
The Self Love Fix
In this episode we chat: The Personal Development to Spirituality to "My Truth" Pipeline Manifestation and what they DON'T tell you about the spiritual world God, the Truth, + the Spiritual Realm WORK WITH BEATRICE: where I teach you how to go from being a SLAVE TO ATTENTION from a man (aka feeling CONFUSED ABOUT HOW HE FEELS because he doesn't make you feel SECURE by TELLING you how he feels about you... to stepping into the SOFT, RELAXED feminine woman who attracts men who SHOW you how they VALUE YOU with your actions. CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Be sure to connect with me more on...
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256. Is dating becoming an idol for you?.
The Self Love Fix
In this episode we chat.... Why it's VERY HARMFUL to "see" how things are going and "wait it out" when you KNOW he is a walking dealbreaker How to STOP undermining your dealbreakers when you come across the "nice guy" the guy that seems like "the one" What it looks like to have dating/the marriage thing/the man thing be an IDOL in your life The dangers of IDOLIZING a man and therefore putting him in God's place WORK WITH BEATRICE: where I teach you how to go from being a SLAVE TO ATTENTION from a man (aka feeling CONFUSED ABOUT HOW HE FEELS because he doesn't make you feel...
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255. Part 2 Confidence vs. Pseudo-confidence.
The Self Love Fix
In this episode we chat.... Letting go of OVER-EXPLAINING or JUSTIFYING yourself + your decisions How talking TOO MUCH can actually be a sign of a LACK of confidence Why confident people say LESS WORK WITH BEATRICE: The School of Relaxed Dating™ is a foundational, one-of-a-kind school that teaches you how to effortlessly elevate your love life through skyrocketing your confidence around men and calling forward masculine, provider men who adore, cherish, and VALUE you through their ACTIONS. CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram . I’d love to hear...
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254. Confidence vs. Pseudo-confidence (Part 1???)
The Self Love Fix
In this episode we chat.... Confidence vs. FAKE confidence and how to tell the difference Ways insecurity masks itself through FAKE confidence How walking in FAKE confidence is actually incredibly manipulative WORK WITH BEATRICE: The School of Relaxed Dating™ is a foundational, one-of-a-kind school that teaches you how to effortlessly elevate your love life through skyrocketing your confidence around men and calling forward masculine, provider men who adore, cherish, and VALUE you through their ACTIONS. CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram . I’d...
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254. Confidence vs. Pseudo-confidence (Part 1???)
The Self Love Fix
In this episode we chat.... Confidence vs. FAKE confidence and how to tell the difference Ways insecurity masks itself through FAKE confidence How walking in FAKE confidence is actually incredibly manipulative WORK WITH BEATRICE: The School of Relaxed Dating™ is a foundational, one-of-a-kind school that teaches you how to effortlessly elevate your love life through skyrocketing your confidence around men and calling forward masculine, provider men who adore, cherish, and VALUE you through their ACTIONS. CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Be sure to connect with me more on Instagram . I’d...
info_outlineThere's a THIN LINE between EXPECTATIONS and STANDARDS and knowing which is which is the difference between experiencing DISAPPOINTMENT in dating and actually experiencing what you WANT in dating.
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