Ep 7 Love is Not Enough Part 1-- Lessons from my 20's.
Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau
Release Date: 04/23/2026
Ep.27 Being Clear Doesn't Mean Telling People What to do
Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau
In this episode we explore how to remain your warm, kind, and whimsical self while being clear and direct (you can be both!). We also discuss why being clear doesn’t mean telling people what they can and cannot do and how to be clear and direct sans the fear of being rude, blunt, or "mean." What you’ll learn in this episode: The difference between being clear and being controlling—and why they two are NOT actually related How to free yourself from the responsibility of how someone processes your directness How to communicate what you want, what you’re available for, and what you...
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Ep 26. Can You Tell Yourself No?
Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau
***PSST, NO EPISODE NEXT WEEK SEPTEMBER 10, WE WILL BE BACK SEPTEMBER 17 IN LIGHT OF LABOR DAY*** In this episode, we chat: Why being comfortable and confident setting boundaries with other people might start with getting better at telling yourself no—and what your day-to-day choices can teach you about saying no when letting things slide, minimizing the severity of an issue, or simply going along with it feels like... the easier option. What you’ll learn in this episode: Why setting boundaries is about more than knowing what to say—and how the way you manage your impulses and...
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Ep 25. What If You’re More Interesting Than You Think?
Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau
In this episode, we chat: Why you should consider yourself—and the things you’re drawn to—interesting and worth paying attention to, not just other people, and how uncovering the unique perspectives God has placed within you connects to the purpose over your life. What you’ll learn in this episode: What the people you consider “interesting,” “unique,” and “cool” are doing differently that causes them to stand out—and why it’s not what you think. How dropping performance and developing your own unique point of view around your interests can make you far more interesting...
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Ep 24 Do They See You for Who You Are or Are They Just in Proximity to You?
Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau
In this episode, we chat: The FINE line between what it's like to have a connection-- a friendship, a relationship etc-- with someone who is delighted to learn the ins and outs of you and someone who... wants to relate to you on their terms What you’ll learn in this episode: What it looks like when you make a decision to no longer FIGHT and adjust yourself in order to be seen. The difference between being mindful about how you communicate to someone and changing who you are to sustain the connection-- adapting vs. self-sacrificing. Why someone NOT taking the time to know the ins-and-outs...
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Ep 23. Can You Stay Clear When People Challenge Your Thinking?
Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau
In this episode, we chat: How to stay CLEAR AND FIRM on what you know, want, and believe when someone else’s pressure or reactions challenge your boundaries, values and opinions. What you’ll learn in this episode: Why a friendly “come onnn” after you’ve already said no is worth paying attention to—and how easily a decision can become a negotiation you never agreed to have. Why someone telling you all about who they’re going to be can distract you from paying attention to who they’re showing you they are right now. How dramatic reactions and “well, what about you?”...
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Ep 22. Do They Love You or... Do They Love What Happens to Them Because of You?
Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau
In this episode, we chat: The fine line between someone loving you and someone loving who they ARE and who they BECOME around you. What you’ll learn in this episode: Why someone can genuinely enjoy being around you—and still be more attached to how they feel with you than to who you actually are. How to recognize the difference between someone who values you for your utility and someone who remains invested in you as a person. The subtle difference between someone who carries your company and someone who carries your story—and why one leaves you feeling familiar, while the other leaves...
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Ep 21 On Giving Everyone the Benefit of the Doubt but... You
Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau
In this episode, we chat: Why it's high time you stop giving everyone but *yourself* the benefit of the doubt when something is off with that friendship, that job, that relationship etc. What you’ll learn in this episode: • Why the benefit of the doubt becomes expensive when you're the only one paying for it. • Why grace needs... discernment and why you don't have to overextend yourself under the guise of "giving the benefit of the doubt" • Why assuming everyone would handle a situation the way you would might be keeping you from seeing the truth (because yes, even though you...
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Ep 20. You Don't Have to Become Unrecognizable Before You Leave
Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau
In this episode, we chat: Why you don't have to wait until you are a shell of yourself, hanging on a thread, practically on life support to leave or change your boundaries in that friendship, relationship, job, or business partnership. What you’ll learn in this episode: • The difference between sacrificing yourself and making a willful sacrifice that doesn't steal from you • Recognizing when to say WHEN... early, rather than waiting until you are completely exhausted and unrecognizable to make a decision for yourself • Why noticing that something is... off over and over again—and...
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Ep 19 "I've Already Invested Too Much" (Says Who?)
Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau
In this episode, we chat: Staying in a relationship, job, career, or friendship longer than you planned because of the investment of....time even when you're stressed, unhappy, and dissatisfied and... how to gain the courage to choose different. What you’ll learn in this episode: • The sunk-cost fallacy and what you might be doing early on that causes you to stay even when you're questioning the relationship, the friendship, the business, or the job. • Why your pride might actually be keeping you in that relationship, job, career, or friendship-- NOT embarrasment, fear of what people may...
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Ep 18 Am I Overthinking it or is Something Off?
Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau
In this episode, we chat: That moment when you're getting to know a friend, someone you're dating, a new workplace, someone you are considering collaborating with and you feel something is... off. You can't put your finger on it, but something isn't... right. But are you overthinking it? Are you being judgemental? Should you just... wait and see? What you’ll learn in this episode: • Why whimsical, optimistic girls often overthink a situation that they usually... are right about the first time. • The importance of leaning into your God-given discernment when it comes to clocking...
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In this episode, we chat:
Why love... is not enough. The mistakes I made in my previous relationships. And what I got RIGHT in my 20's when it came to dating and what I undermined and didn't realize was important ESPECIALLY concerning marriage, children, and a future with someone. You're going to want a pen and pad for this one!
What you’ll learn in this episode:
- What I was evaluating and looking for in relationships that I actually got right and have taken with me in my 30's
- Where I've matured (and how you can too so you don't make my mistakes!) when it comes to really evaluating compatibility and saving yourself unnecessary STRESS.
- What I got WRONG in my 20's and would no longer dismiss (every woman should know these!)