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The Fantasy and Reality of Threesomes with Dr. Justin Lehmiller

Sex Ed with DB

Release Date: 05/08/2024

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Sex Ed with DB

The Sex Ed with DB team discusses the recent New York Times article T by Peggy Orenstein, which focuses on the rise of sexual strangulation among teenagers today. DB and the team break down everything you need to know about choking during sex, including risks, the importance of consent, and the need for ongoing conversation around "rough" sex.  ——   Do you have a silly sex story to share, need some advice, or have thoughts on the episode you just heard?  for a chance to be featured on the podcast!  —— Follow Sex Ed with DB on:...

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Sex Ed with DB

DB sits down with Dr. Justin Lehmiller to talk sexual fantasies, threesomes, and the impact of porn on our sex lives. Gain psychological insights into why we do what we do in the bedroom, and learn strategies for expressing your sexual fantasies to a partner. Plus, don't miss DB and Justin's advice to a listener hoping to improve their body image!   16:02 Improving relationships through sexual Ffntasies 25:46 Debunking the myth of porn addiction 29:53 Psychological insights into human sexual behavior 36:31 The fantasy and reality of threesomes 47:28 Listener voicemail- how do I...

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In this minisode, listen to snippets of some of the BEST orgasm tips from the archives of Sex Ed with DB! DB and Mariah from Sex Ed Files share their go-to techniques for reaching the big O. Then, stick around as DB tackles a listener's question on how to make orgasms even more intense. Hear the full episodes: ——   Do you have a silly sex story to share, need some advice, or have thoughts on the episode you just heard?  for a chance to be featured on the podcast!  —— Follow Sex Ed with DB on: Instagram:  TikTok: Twitter : Threads: ...

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Endometriosis affects an estimated 1 in 10 people assigned female at birth, including women, non-binary, and trans folks; however, the condition remains shrouded in stigma, leaving many people undiagnosed and in chronic pain. This needs to change. In this powerful episode of From First Period To Last Period, Co-Founder Kristyn Hodgdon has a raw, open, and honest conversation about endometriosis with two women who have been there: Jacqueline Solivan, VP of Partnerships at Rescripted, and Emma Maxwell, a tireless endometriosis advocate. You won't want to miss it. From First Period To Last...

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We're kicking off Season 10 with none other than the legendary Dr. Emily Nagoski, the trailblazing author of "Come as You Are." We tackle everything from the art of sustaining a fulfilling sexual relationship to polyamory, and delve into the myths surrounding desire that sex educators hear the most. Plus, Dr. Nagoski generously shares her top three tips for cultivating a vibrant sex life with a long-term partner. And don't miss our new segment, Booty Call, where we share a funny listener sex story! (08:48) - Navigating conversations about sex life in long term relationships (25:18) - Emily's...

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Season 10 debuts next week! In the meantime, enjoy this favorite episode from Season 7 with Dr. Blair Peters (@queersurgeon), a plastic surgeon who performs gender-affirming surgeries, including facial, chest and genital gender affirming surgery and complex peripheral nerve surgery. They discuss what gender-affirming care and surgery entail, debunk myths and misunderstandings, and talk about how the media plays into anti-trans rhetoric. They also discuss Dr. Peters' surgical work and rearch on the nerves in the clitoris. CW: gender dysphoria, suicidality, graphic descriptions of surgery ---...

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As Season 10 approaches (!!!), let's revisit one of our favorite episodes from Season 8 featuring Alex Hall from The Bottom’s Digest to discuss all things bottoming! Alex shares insights from his personal experiences with bottoming and debunks some of the common misconceptions associated with it. The two dive into the topic of food and its impact on sexual play, revealing some surprising connections between diet and sexual performance. Who knew that what you eat could have such an impact on your sex life?! Whether you're a seasoned bottom or just curious about the world of bottoming, you...

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In this minisode, listen to snippets of some of the BEST relationship advice from the archives of Sex Ed with DB! Dr. Lexx Brown-James, therapist and sexologist, shares some of her top tips for couples in marriage counseling. Then Logan Ury, Hinge’s Director of Relationship Science, lets us know why hard work is the sign of a good relationship, not a bad one. Hear the full episodes:

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In this minisode, hear from two badass abortion activists, Winnie and Steph Herold. Winnie, a clinic escort, talks to DB about 's viral anti-respectability politics approach to supporting folks seeking abortion, and Steph Herold, abortion researcher, shares two examples of the best and worst on-screen representations of abortion to date.  Hear the full episodes:

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In this minisode, hear snippets from some of our fav queer trailblazers. Zachary Zane reminds us that yes--you ARE bi enough, while Jamie and Shaaba share their experiences of finding radical support through sharing their queer journeys online Hear the full episodes:  

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DB sits down with Dr. Justin Lehmiller to talk sexual fantasies, threesomes, and the impact of porn on our sex lives. Gain psychological insights into why we do what we do in the bedroom, and learn strategies for expressing your sexual fantasies to a partner. Plus, don't miss DB and Justin's advice to a listener hoping to improve their body image!
 
16:02 Improving relationships through sexual Ffntasies
25:46 Debunking the myth of porn addiction
29:53 Psychological insights into human sexual behavior
36:31 The fantasy and reality of threesomes
47:28 Listener voicemail- how do I improve my body image?
 
Dr. Justin Lehmiller is a social psychologist and Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute. He runs the Sex and Psychology blog and podcast and is author of the popular book Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life. Dr. Lehmiller is an award-winning educator, having been honored three times with the Certificate of Teaching Excellence from Harvard University, where he taught for several years. He is also a prolific researcher who has published more than 50 academic works, including a textbook titled The Psychology of Human Sexuality that is used in college classrooms around the world.
 
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About Sex Ed with DB:

Sex Ed with DB is a feminist podcast bringing you all the sex ed you never got through unique and entertaining storytelling, centering LGBTQ+ and BIPOC experts. We discuss topics such as birth control, pleasure, LGBTQ+ health and rights, abortion, consent, BDSM, sex and disability, HIV, sex in the media, and more.

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Sex Ed with DB, Season 10 Team:

Creator, Host, Executive Producer: Danielle Bezalel (DB)

Producer: Sadie Lidji

Communications Lead: Cathren Cohen

Marketing Coordinator: Mitch Coburn

Social Media Coordinator: Emm-Kirsty Fraser