How do I talk to my partner about using sex toys together?
Sex Ed with DB: smart, science-backed sex education
Release Date: 06/25/2025
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info_outlineDB breaks down how to talk to your partner about bringing sex toys into the bedroom to get more pleasure. She shares stats on who’s using sex toys, why queer couples are ahead of the game, and easy ways to start the convo with your partner. Plus: top sex toy recs and a playful challenge to try at home.
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Toys for couples mentioned in this episode:
- Magic Wand Rechargeable: Great for external stimulation during all kinds of play. Works well in both solo and partner contexts. And, yes, our study backs up its pleasure-boosting stats!
- We-Vibe Chorus: A wearable toy designed for couples to use during penetrative sex. Remote-controlled, adjustable, and great for mutual stimulation.
- Strap-ons and Harnesses: Incredible for exploring power dynamics, switching roles, and opening up new kinds of connection—great for queer couples and for straight folks who want to learn from queer innovation.
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Season 12 of Sex Ed with DB is ALL ABOUT PLEASURE! Solo pleasure. Partnered pleasure. Orgasms. Porn. Queer joy. Kinks, sex toys, fantasies—you name it. We’re here to help you feel more informed, more empowered, and a whole lot more turned on to help YOU have the best sex.
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